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Opezekapo kwambiri kwa mapasa ake, atakhumudwa ndi kugwa kwa mwana wake wamkazi, pofunafuna yankho lamavuto akhungu la mwana wake…. Abambo atatuwa akutiuza za ulendo umene unawapangitsa kusintha moyo wawo waukatswiri.
Masomphenya anga onse adasintha: Ndinayamba kukhala ndi ana anga aakazi. “
Eric, Ali ndi zaka 52, bambo wa Anaïs ndi Maëlys, wazaka 7.
Ana amapasa anga asanabadwe, ndinali mlangizi wodzigwira ntchito pa pulogalamu yaukatswiri. Ndinkayenda mlungu wonse ku France ndipo ndinkangobwera Loweruka ndi Lamlungu. Ndinkagwira ntchito m’makampani akuluakulu, ndinkachitanso mautumiki akuluakulu ku Paris. Ndinali wokondwa kwambiri pantchito yanga komanso kukhala ndi moyo wabwino.
Pamene mkazi wanga anatenga pakati pa mapasa ndinali kuganiza zokapuma
Mwana ndi ntchito, awiri! Ndiyeno ana anga aakazi anabadwa msanga. Mkazi wanga anabereka Kaisareya ndipo sanathe kuwaona kwa maola 48. Ndinapanga khungu loyamba ndi Anaïs. Zinali zamatsenga. Ndinamuyang'ana ndipo ndinatenga zithunzi ndi makanema ochuluka kuti ndiwonetsere mkazi wanga. Ndinkafuna kukakhala nawo kunyumba pambuyo pa opareshoni kuti tithe kunyamula katundu wathu. Zinali zosangalatsa kugawana nawo mphindi izi. Mkazi wanga amayamwitsa, ndinamuthandiza posintha, usiku pakati pa zinthu zina. Zinali zoyesayesa zamagulu. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono ndinawonjezera ulendo wanga. Zinangochitika mwachibadwa. Pamapeto pake, ndinakhala miyezi isanu ndi umodzi ndi ana anga aakazi!
Pokhala wodziyimira pawokha, ndinalibe chithandizo, ndalama zathu zidagwiritsidwa ntchito mpaka kumapeto.
Panthawi ina, tinayenera kubwerera kuntchito. Sindinkafunanso kuchita maola ochuluka choncho ndinafunika kukhala ndi ana anga aakazi. Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yomwe ndinakhala nawo inali yosangalatsa ndipo idasintha malingaliro anga! Ndinayamba kuwakhalira moyo. Cholinga chake chinali kukhalapo monga momwe kungathekere.
Ndipo zinali zovuta kwambiri kuti tiyambirenso. Pambuyo pa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, mumaiwalika mwamsanga. Sindinathenso kufunsira, chifukwa sindinkafunanso kuyenda. Choncho, ndinapita kukaphunzira pa ofesi ya Suite, Intaneti ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Kukhala mphunzitsi kumandilola kulinganiza ndandanda zanga momwe ndingafunire. Ndimachepetsa nthawi yopuma komanso nthawi ya chakudya. Mwanjira imeneyi, ndikhoza kufika kunyumba nthawi yake kuti ndikatenge ana anga ndi kuwapezera Lachitatu langa kwaulere. Ndimauza makasitomala anga kuti sindigwira ntchito Lachitatu komanso kuti sindimagwira ntchito nthawi yowonjezera. Ukakhala mwamuna, sizimayenda bwino nthawi zonse… Koma izi sizikundivutitsa. Sindine wokonda ntchito!
Inde, malipiro anga ndi ochepa kwambiri. Ndi mkazi wanga yemwe amatipatsa moyo, ine, ndimabweretsa chothandizira. Sindinong'oneza bondo chilichonse, kwa ine ndikusankha moyo, si nsembe konse. Chofunika kwambiri n’chakuti ana anga aakazi azikhala osangalala komanso kuti tizisangalala limodzi. Chifukwa cha zonsezi, tili ndi ubale wapamtima kwambiri. “
"Palibe chomwe chikanachitika popanda ngozi ya mwana wanga wa miyezi 9. “
Gilles, Ali ndi zaka 50, bambo a Margot, wazaka 9, ndi Alice, wazaka 7.
Pamene Margot anabadwa, ndinali ndi chikhumbo champhamvu cha ndalama, zomwe zinalepheretsedwa ndi tchuthi chaching'ono cha abambo panthawiyo. Komabe, popeza ndinali mphunzitsi wa pharmacy, ndinali wodziyimira pawokha ndipo ndimatha kulinganiza masiku anga momwe ndimafunira. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, ndinatha kukhalapo ndi mwana wanga wamkazi!
Pamene anali ndi miyezi 9, panachitika ngozi yoopsa.
Tinali kukhala ndi anzathu ndikukonzekera kusanzika. Margot adakwera masitepe yekha ndipo adagwa kwambiri. Tinathamangira kuchipinda chodzidzimutsa, adavulala m'mutu komanso kuthyoka katatu. Anagonekedwa m’chipatala kwa masiku asanu ndi aŵiri. Mwamwayi, iye analephera. Koma inali nthawi yosapiririka komanso yochititsa mantha. Ndipo koposa zonse, kunali kudina kwa ine! Ndidachita kafukufuku ndidapeza kuti ngozi zapakhomo ndizofala kwambiri ndipo palibe amene amazinena.
Ndinali ndi lingaliro lokonzekera zokambirana zopewera ngozi
Kuti zisachitike kwa wina, ndinali ndi lingaliro lokonzekera zokambirana zopewera ngozi, monga choncho, monga osachita masewera, kwa abambo angapo ondizungulira. Pa msonkhano woyamba, tinali anayi! Inali mbali ya njira yodzikonza ndekha, monga mtundu wa mankhwala a gulu, ngakhale kuti ndinali ndi vuto loyankhula za izo. Zinanditengera zaka zinayi kuti ndiyerekeze kunena zomwe zinachitika. Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndidatchulapo inali m'buku langa loyamba "My Daddy First Steps". Mkazi wanga, Marianne, anandilimbikitsa kuti ndilankhulepo za nkhaniyi. Ndinadziimba mlandu kwambiri. Lero, sindinadzikhululukirebe. Ndikufunabe nthawi. Ndinatsatira chithandizo ku Sainte-Anne chomwe chinandithandizanso. Patatha zaka ziwiri ngoziyo itachitika, kampani imene ndinkagwira ntchito inapangana ndi anthu. Ophika anga ankadziwa kuti ndinakhazikitsa malo ochitirako misonkhano nthawi zonse, choncho anadzipereka kuti akhazikitse kampani yanga chifukwa cha bonasi yonyamulira yodzifunira.
Ndinaganiza zoyamba: "Maphunziro a Future Daddy" adabadwa!
Zinali zowopsa kwambiri. Kale, ndinali kusiya ntchito yolipidwa yopita ku bizinesi. Komanso, misonkhano yolerera abambo kulibe! Koma mkazi wanga ankandilimbikitsa ndipo nthawi zonse wakhala ali kumbali yanga. Zinandithandiza kukhala ndi chidaliro.
Panthawiyi, Alice anabadwa. Zokambirana zasintha pakukula kwa ana anga aakazi ndi mafunso anga. Kudziwitsa abambo amtsogolo kumatha kusintha njira yamoyo komanso tsogolo la banja. Izi ndi zomwe zinali mphamvu yanga yoyendetsa. Chifukwa kupeza chidziwitso kungasinthe chilichonse. Ndinayang'anitsitsa pafunso laubwana, utate ndi maphunziro. Palibe chilichonse mwa izi chikanachitika popanda ngozi ya mwana wanga wamkazi. Ndi chinthu choipa kwambiri kwa wabwino kwambiri, chifukwa mu ululu waukuluwu munabadwa chisangalalo chachikulu. Ndimalandila ndemanga tsiku lililonse kuchokera kwa abambo, ndiye mphotho yanga yayikulu. “
Gilles ndi mlembi wa "Apapa atsopano, makiyi a maphunziro abwino", ed.Leducs
“Zikanakhala kuti palibe vuto la khungu la mwana wanga wamkazi, sibwenzi nditachita chidwi ndi nkhaniyi. “
Edward, Zaka 58, bambo wa Grainne, wazaka 22, Tara, wazaka 20, ndi Roisin wazaka 19.
Ndine wachi Ayirishi. Mwana wanga wamkulu Grainne asanabadwe, ndinkachita bizinezi ku Ireland yomwe inkapanga ubweya wa thonje komanso kugulitsa zinthu zopangidwa ndi thonje. Inali kampani yaing’ono ndipo inali yovuta kupeza phindu, koma ndinasangalala kwambiri ndi zimene ndinali kuchita!
Pamene mwana wanga wamkazi anabadwa ndinatenga masiku angapo kuti ndikhale naye ndi mkazi wanga. Ndinawanyamula kuchokera ku chipatala cha amayi ndi galimoto yamasewera komanso pamsewu, ndinali wonyadira kufotokozera mwana wanga machitidwe ake onse, chifukwa ndimakonda magalimoto, zomwe zinapangitsa amayi ake kuseka. . Inde, ndinasintha mwamsanga galimoto yanga, chifukwa sinali yoyenera kunyamula khanda lobadwa kumene!
Patangopita miyezi ingapo atabadwa, Grainne anayamba kudwala zidzolo
Tinali ndi nkhawa kwambiri ine ndi mkazi wanga. Kenako tinaona kuti kufiirako kukukulirakulira titapukuta ndi zopukuta. Anali kukuwa, kulira, kunjenjemera mbali zonse, zinali zoonekeratu kuti khungu lake silingathe kupirira zopukuta! Izi mwachionekere zinali zatsopano kwa ife. Chotero tinayang’ana njira zina. Monga makolo, tinkafuna zabwino kwa mwana wathu wamkazi amene ankavutika ndi tulo komanso anali wosasangalala. Ndinayamba kuyang'anitsitsa mndandanda wazinthu zopukuta. Zinangokhala zopangira mankhwala okhala ndi mayina osatchulika. Ndinazindikira kuti tinali kuwagwiritsira ntchito pa mwana wathu kakhumi patsiku, masiku asanu ndi aŵiri pamlungu, osachapira konse! Zinali monyanyira. Kotero, ndinayang'ana zopukuta popanda zosakaniza izi. Eya, zimenezo kunalibe panthaŵiyo!
Idadina: Ndidaganiza kuti payenera kukhala njira yopangira ndi kupanga zopukuta zathanzi za ana
Ndinaganiza zopanga kampani yatsopano kuti ndipange izi. Zinali zowopsa kwambiri, koma ndidadziwa kuti pali mgwirizano womwe uyenera kupangidwa. Chotero ndinadzizungulira ndi asayansi ndi akatswiri a maphunziro, pamene ndikupitiriza ntchito yanga ina. Mwamwayi mkazi wanga analipo kuti azindithandiza. Ndipo patapita zaka zingapo, ndinatha kupanga Waterwipes, wopangidwa ndi 99,9% madzi. Ndine wonyadira kwambiri ndipo koposa zonse ndine wokondwa kukhala wokhoza kupereka makolo mankhwala athanzi kwa mwana wawo. Popanda vuto la khungu la mwana wanga wamkazi, sindikadasamala za izi. Kukhala bambo kuli ngati kutsegula buku lamatsenga. Zinthu zambiri zimatichitikira zomwe sitiyembekezera konse, timakhala ngati osandulika. “
Edward ndiye woyambitsa WaterWipes, zopukuta zoyamba zopangidwa ndi madzi 99,9%.