Zamkatimu
Jessica: Ali ndi pakati, amayi a Jules, 11, Elsa, 9, ndi Roman, 3 ndi theka.
"Ndimamufotokozera kuti sitingakwatirane."
“Mwana wanga wamwamuna ali m’gulu la Oedipus! Roman ali ndi zaka zitatu ndi theka. Tsiku lililonse amandiyang'ana ali ndi chidwi ndi chikondi, amanyamula nkhope yanga m'manja mwake ndikundiuza mawu owopsa. Ndi chikondi cha moyo wake! Amapangira Machiavellian kuti ndimukwatire. Mwachitsanzo, sabata yatha ndinapita naye kumalo odyera ndi mchimwene wake wamkulu. Anayang'ana woperekera zakudya (wokongola kwambiri) kwa kanthawi ndipo anati: " Taonani, iye ndi wokongola. Abambo akhoza kumukwatira. Mudzakhala achisoni. Koma monga choncho, tikhoza kukwatirana onse! "Kapena, anandiuza mozama kwambiri kuti:" Ndinayankhula ndi bambo, akuvomera kuti tikwatirana, iwe ndi ine. "Madzulo, mwamuna wanga akabwera kunyumba, Roman akunyoza: Chifukwa chiyani akubwera kunyumba? “. Ngakhale kuti amawakonda kwambiri bambo ake, amawakonda kwambiri! Koma ndizowona kuti ndi ine, ndizopadera.
Awiri anga akulu anali osiyana
Sizinandichitikirenso chimodzimodzi ndi ana anga awiri aakulu, mtsikana ndi mnyamata. Anali ndi magawo omwe anali "osakhazikika" kwa ine, mwana wanga wamkazi kuposa mwana wanga wamwamuna wamkulu, koma osapitilira apo. Ineyo sindikumbukira kuti ndinapanga “Oedipus” ndili wamng’ono ndi bambo anga. Kapena ndi amayi anga! Ndikukumbukira kuti ndinali wofunitsitsa kuti tisiyane. Ndinamupempha kuti andikwatire kuti tizikhala limodzi nthawi zonse. Mwana wanga akandiuza kuti akufuna kuti ndikhale mkazi wake, ndipo akufuna kundipsopsona pakamwa, ndimaona kuti ndi zokongola kwambiri. Nthawi zina, ndimayankha kupsompsona kwakeko pang'ono, kwinaku ndikumufotokozera kuti sitingathe kukwatirana. Ndimamuuza kuti ndine mkazi wa abambo ake. Kapena kuti amayi sangakwatire ana awo, monga mu nyimbo ya Peau d'âne. Koma ndikuona kuti ndikumuswa mtima pomuuza zimenezi. Ndizovuta!
Roman akadali mwana wamkulu!
Tikakhala tonse ngati banja ndipo Roman amandipatsa mawu okhudza mtima kapena kumupsompsona, mwamuna wanga amalowerera. Zimamukwiyitsa, amangodziuza kuti ndikofunikira kukana. Koma pansi pamtima, tonse tikudziwa kuti sichikhalitsa. Ine, komabe, sindisamala. Ndikuyembekezera mwana wanga wachinayi. Ndili m'mwezi womaliza wa mimba yanga. Sitikudziwabe ngati adzakhala mnyamata kapena mtsikana. Ndikudziwa kuti izi zimabweretsa nkhawa zambiri mwa ana. Zomwe ndikuwona ndikuti mwana wanga akukula bwino: amapita kusukulu, adapeza mabwenzi ambiri. Ndi gawo, si ana onse amadutsamo, koma kwa ine, akadali mwana wamkulu! ” l
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Marina: Amayi a Juliana, 14, Tina, 10, Ethan, 8, ndi Léane, 1.
" Ndi Ethan, tinalumikizana nthawi yomweyo."
“Twali tucili munkanda ya Edipus, mwanaangu wamyaka iili 8! Kumeneko, adangobwera kuchokera kumunda ndi duwa ndikundipatsa, nati:Kodi mungandikwatire?“Tsopano ndimayankha ndikuseka ndipo amamvetsetsa kuti sizingatheke. Koma sizinali choncho nthawi zonse! Nyumba ya Oedipus inayamba pafupifupi zaka 2 ndi theka ndipo inali yamphamvu kwambiri. Atangotha kulankhula pang’ono, Ethan, mwana wanga wachitatu (ndi mnyamata woyamba) anandilengeza za chikondi. Ndinali ndi ufulu wakuti "Amayi, ndimakukondani", ndiye mwamsanga "Amayi, ndinu mkazi wanga". Anandipatsa mphete kuti aziyang'ana muzovala zanga kuti asonyeze chikondi chake kwa ine. Anakoka mitima ndi chirichonse: phala lake, kupanikizana ... mpaka kufika podula zikondamoyo mu mawonekedwe a mitima yomwe adandipatsa. Ndinkaona kuti anali wokongola kwambiri ali wamng'ono. N’zoona kuti chikondi chachikulu chimene ndinam’sonyezachi chinali cha onse awiri, choncho sindinaone vuto. Ndinamuuza kuti inenso ndimamukonda, koma ndinali nditakwatirana kale ndi bambo ake. Anayankha "zili bwino amayi, ndikhoza kugawana nawo".
Amauza bambo ake kuti ndine mkazi wake
Nthawi zonse Ethan ankauza azichemwali ake komanso bambo ake kuti ndine mkazi wake. Zinaseketsa mwamuna wanga yemwe anati: “Zowona, ndakugawanani kale ndi amayi chibadwireni, ndiye tipitilize!"Ndipo ndizowona, kuyambira kubadwa kwake, tili pafupi kwambiri. Kodi ndichifukwa choti ndinataya mwana wanga woyamba ndili ndi pakati pa miyezi 6? Nditadziwa kuti ndikuyembekezera mwana wamwamuna pambuyo pa ana anga aakazi awiri, ndinapanga ultrasound. Ndinamuika pafupi ndi bedi langa n’kumalankhula naye tsiku lililonse. Pamene iye anabadwa, ife nthawi yomweyo ophatikizana. Ndinamuyamwitsa kwa zaka 3 ndi theka ndipo "tinakondana" mpaka pamene anali ndi miyezi 18. Sanali kugona pa matiresi koma pa ine. Ndinali matiresi ake! Ethan adandigwira pamimba, mabere anga, nthawi zonse amafunikira kukhudza thupi kuti atsimikizire. Mwamuna wanga adaziwona kuti ndizokongola kwambiri, amamvetsetsa kwambiri. Anakonda kugona pabalaza pabalaza pamene Ethan anali pabedi pathu. Mwamwayi, Ethan anagona yekha, ine ndikhoza kujowina mwamuna wanga kukhala ndi usiku pakati pa okondana.
Chaka chatha ndinali ndi mwana wamkazi, phew!
Ethan akanatha kukhala ndi vuto ngati sakanatha kubwera nane ndikamatuluka. Otsatira anga adapeza kuti adakakamira kwambiri, kuti sizinali zabwino pakukula kwake. Sindinadziwe kwenikweni. Ndinakulira m'banja la anthu asanu ndi limodzi ndi azichimwene awiri omwe, ngakhale lero, amakangana ndi amayi anga: wina amakhala naye, wina amadyera kumeneko, ngakhale ali ndi mabanja! Ndikuzindikira kuti chikondi chophatikizanachi sichimawathandiza nthawi zonse. Choncho ndinamufotokozera Ethan kuti kuyambira pano agona pabedi lake. Ndinamuuzanso kuti malo a adadi anali pabedi lawo, ndi amayi. Anamvetsetsa nthawi yomweyo ndikukhala bwino. Polowa sukulu, anayamba kugona pang'ono ndipo amandifunafunabe usiku. Ndiye ndimamuyendetsa kubwerera ku bedi lake ndipo amabwerera kukagona. Chaka chatha ndinali ndi mwana wamkazi. Ndinamasuka kukhala opanda mnyamata. Ndi wamphamvu kwambiri ndi mwana wanga! Ethan akuyamba kuganizira zokhala ndi chibwenzi tsiku lina. Koma akufotokozanso kuti adzakhala pafupi ndi ife, kotero kuti ndimayang'anira ana ake (ine ndine wothandizira nazale) komanso kuti ndimawaphikira! Monga chiyani, sizinathe kwathunthu! ” l
Angelique: Amayi a Brayan, 5, ndi Keyssie, 3.
"Tikamakumbatirana, ana athu amatilekanitsa."
“Ndili ndi ana awiri, mtsikana ndi mnyamata. Ne umo ne umo upanga Edipito yandi pamo na tata ne nandi. Mwana wanga wamkazi wazaka zitatu ndi mwana wamkazi wa abambo ake. Iye amangokhala pafupi naye patebulo. Amamudyetsa, apo ayi sangameze chilichonse, ngati kamwana! Amati abambo ake ndi okondedwa ake. Pamene nthawi zina amadwala mutu waching'alang'ala, amamukonzera mankhwala ang'onoang'ono ndi chakudya chake, kuyesera kumuchiritsa, kapena kuika manja ake pamphumi ... Ndizokongola kwambiri!
Sizindidetsa nkhawa, ngakhale ndikudziwa kuti siziyenera kupitilira!
Mwana wanga amachitanso chimodzimodzi ndi ine. Amathera nthawi yake kunditsatira: ali kukhitchini, amandikonzera khofi, amatsuka mbale kapena amandithandiza kukonza chakudya. Mphindi 5 zilizonse, amandiuza kuti amandikonda ndipo ndiyenera kuyankha "inenso", apo ayi amakwiya! Tsiku lina anandiuza mosapita m’mbali kuti: “Sindiwe mkazi wa abambo, ndiwe mkazi wanga!” Tonse awiri ndife ogwirizana kwambiri. Pamene ndinali m’chipinda cha amayi oyembekezera kukabereka mlongo wake wamng’ono, ndinamva chisoni kwambiri kukhala kutali ndi iye. Aka kanali koyamba kuti tisiyanitsidwe kwa nthawi yayitali: masiku 5! Ndinakhumudwa nazo! Kuona ana athu akutikonda kwambiri ndipo amatikonda, zimatiseketsa ndi mnzangayo. Timazitenga ngati nthabwala ndipo timayenda munjira ya ana. Sizindidetsa nkhawa, ngakhale ndikudziwa kuti siziyenera kukhalitsa. Pomaliza, mwina sindisamala chifukwa zinali chimodzimodzi ndi bambo anga ndili wamng’ono. Ine ndinali mwana wamkazi wa abambo ake. Bambo anga anapita kunyanja kwa milungu iwiri pa English Channel. Pa nthawiyi ndinkagona ndi mayi anga. Atabwerako, amayi adachoka pabedi chifukwa ndimafuna kugona nawo! Pambuyo pake anasudzulana ndipo bambo anga anandilandira. Ndinali wokhumudwa kwambiri ndi iye. Ndisanakumane ndi bambo wa ana anga, ndinkapita kokacheza Lachisanu ndi bambo anga. Tinali ndi malo odyera kapena sinema. Nthawi zina anthu ankatitenga kukhala mwamuna ndi mkazi. Zinatiseketsa.
Tinamaliza kuyika ndalama pabedi la 2 mita
Usiku, kwa nthawi yaitali, mwana wathu wamwamuna ankagona nafe. Popeza tinali ndi bedi laling'ono, kuti tigone bwino, mnzanga anapita pa sofa. Kenako tinamaliza kuyika ndalama pabedi lawiri la mamita awiri. Nthawi zambiri mwana wanga wamkazi amagona nafe. Amakumbatira bambo ake. Masana tikakumbatirana ndi bambo awo, ana athu amalowererapo n’kutilekanitsa. Mwana wanga wamkazi amatenga mnzanga ndipo mwana wanga amanditenganso. Sangakhoze kuyima! Komabe, onse ali ndi okonda aang'ono kusukulu, koma amayi ndi abambo ndi chinthu china. Monga ine ndi bambo anga! Ndi chinthu chapadera! Nthawi zina, ndimakonda kukondana kwambiri uku kuchepe, kungopuma pang'ono ndikutha kuchita zinthu ndi mnzanga, kuti tipeze moyo wathu ngati banja. ” l
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