Nthawi zina zimachitika: timapatsidwa kupanga chisankho chowawa pamene zonse ziwiri zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Kapena onse ali bwino. Ndipo kusankha uku kungawoneke ngati kofunikira komanso kosatsutsika. Apo ayi, munthu wosalakwa adzavutika ndithu, ndipo chilungamo chapamwamba chidzaphwanyidwa.
Amene kuthandiza - mwana wodwala kapena wodwala wamkulu? Asanasankhe kusweka mtima koteroko kumayika wowonera akutsatsa maziko achifundo. Ndani angawononge ndalama za bajeti - pa odwala omwe akudwala kwambiri kapena omwe adakali athanzi? Vuto lankhanza ngati limeneli likuperekedwa ndi membala wa Bungwe la Public Chamber. Nthawi zina zimachitika: timapatsidwa kupanga chisankho chowawa pamene zonse ziwiri zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Kapena onse ali bwino. Ndipo kusankha uku kungawoneke ngati kofunikira komanso kosatsutsika. Apo ayi, munthu wosalakwa adzavutika ndithu, ndipo chilungamo chapamwamba chidzaphwanyidwa.
Koma, mutapanga chisankho ichi, mulimonse mudzakhala mukulakwitsa ndipo pokhudzana ndi munthu mudzakhala chilombo. Kodi ndinu othandiza ana? Ndipo ndani ndiye angathandize akulu? Ah, ndinu othandizira akuluakulu… Ndiye, ana azunzike?! Ndiwe chilombo chotani! Kusankha kumeneku kumagawa anthu m'misasa iwiri - yokhumudwa komanso yowopsya. Oimira msasa uliwonse amadziona ngati okhumudwa, ndipo otsutsa - owopsa.
- N'chifukwa chiyani kuli bwino kubwerera m'mbuyo?
Kusekondale, ndinali ndi mnzanga wina wa m’kalasi, Lenya G., yemwe ankakonda kupereka mavuto oterowo kwa ana a sitandade XNUMX. "Ngati achifwamba alowa m'nyumba mwako, simudzawalola kuti aphe - amayi kapena abambo?" Anafunsa mnyamata woyesa moyo uja, akuyang'ana mwachidwi yemwe anali wosokonekera. "Akakupatsani miliyoni, mungavomere kuponya galu wanu padenga?" — Mafunso a Leni anayesa makhalidwe anu, kapena, monga ananenera kusukulu, anakutengerani kodzionetsera. M’kalasi mwathu, iye anali munthu wotchuka, chotero anasangalala ndi chizunzo cha makhalidwe abwino cha anzake a m’kalasi mopanda chilango. Ndipo pamene adapitiriza kuyesa kwake kwaumunthu m'makalasi ofanana, ndiye kuti wina adamuwombera, ndipo kafukufuku wa Leni G. adakula kukhala mkangano wamagulu okhudza ophunzira akusekondale.
Nthaŵi yotsatira imene ndinayang’anizana ndi chosankha chopweteka chinali pamene ndinali kuphunzira kuchita maphunziro a zamaganizo. Tinali, mwa zina, maseŵera amagulu amene ankabweretsa mavuto a makhalidwe abwino. Tsopano, ngati mutasankha yemwe angapereke ndalama kuti achiritse khansa - wanzeru wamng'ono yemwe angadziwe momwe angapulumutsire anthu m'tsogolomu, kapena pulofesa wazaka zapakati yemwe akugwira ntchito kale, ndiye ndani? Ngati mukuthawa m'chombo chomwe chikumira, ndani angakwere bwato lomaliza? Cholinga cha masewerawa chinali, monga ndikukumbukira, kuyesa gulu kuti likhale logwira ntchito popanga zisankho. M'gulu lathu, mgwirizano ndikuchita bwino pazifukwa zina nthawi yomweyo unagwa - ophunzirawo adakangana mpaka adapsa mtima. Ndipo makamuwo adangolimbikitsa: mpaka mutasankha, sitimayo ikumira, ndipo wanzeru wachinyamata akufa.
- Nthawi yoti musankhe zochita
Zingaoneke ngati moyo pawokha ndi umene umachititsa kuti munthu asankhe choncho. Kuti muyenera kusankha amene angalole kupha - amayi kapena abambo. Kapena ndani amene angawononge ndalama kuchokera ku bajeti ya dziko limodzi lolemera kwambiri padziko lapansi. Koma apa ndikofunika kumvetsera: ndi mawu otani omwe moyo umayamba kulamulira mwadzidzidzi? Ndipo mawu awa ndi mapangidwe ake ali mwanjira yokayikitsa mofanana ndi momwe amakhudzira anthu. Pazifukwa zina, sizithandiza kuchita bwino, osafunafuna mwayi ndi malingaliro atsopano. Amachepetsa ziyembekezo, ndikutseka zotheka. Ndipo anthu awa ali osokonezeka ndi kuchita mantha, mbali imodzi. Ndipo kumbali ina, amaika anthu pa udindo wapadera womwe ungayambitse chisangalalo komanso chisangalalo - udindo wa amene amasankha tsogolo. Amene amaganiza m'malo mwa boma kapena umunthu, yemwe ali wofunika kwambiri komanso wofunika kwambiri kwa iwo - ana, akuluakulu, amayi, abambo, odwala kwambiri kapena akadali wathanzi. Kenako mikangano yamtengo wapatali imayamba, anthu amayamba kukhala mabwenzi ndi udani. Ndipo munthu amene amalamula kusankha, amati m'malo mwa moyo, amatenga udindo wa mtsogoleri mthunzi wotere - mwanjira ina imvi kardinali ndi Karabas-Barabas. Anakwiyitsa anthu ku malingaliro ndi mikangano, kuwakakamiza kuti atenge malo osagwirizana komanso okhwima. Kumlingo wina, zinali ngati kuti adazifufuza, kuziyesa zamtengo wapatali, zomwe zili - adazitenga pawonetsero.
Kusankha kowawa ndi chiwembu chongoyendayenda chomwe chimatsutsa zenizeni mwanjira inayake. Awa ndi magalasi omwe timatha kuwona njira ziwiri zokha, osatinso. Ndipo tiyenera kusankha imodzi yokha, awa ndi malamulo a masewera, omwe anakhazikitsidwa ndi amene anaika magalasi awa pa inu. Panthawi ina, katswiri wa zamaganizo Daniel Kahneman ndi anzake anachita kafukufuku wosonyeza kuti mawu amakhudza kusankha kwa anthu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati chisankho chiperekedwa - kupulumutsa anthu 200 mwa 600 ku mliri kapena kutaya anthu 400 mwa 600, ndiye anthu amasankha choyamba. Kusiyana kwake kuli m’mawu. Kahneman adapambana Mphotho ya Nobel chifukwa cha kafukufuku wake pankhani zachuma zamakhalidwe. N’zovuta kukhulupirira kuti mawu angakhudze mmene timasankhira zochita. Ndipo zikuwonekeratu kuti kufunikira kosankha kolimba kumanenedwa kwa ife osati mochuluka ndi moyo monga ndi mawu omwe tikulongosola. Ndipo pali mawu omwe mungakhale nawo mphamvu pamalingaliro ndi machitidwe a anthu. Koma ngati moyo ndi wovuta kufunsa mafunso ovuta kapena kukana, ndiye kuti n'zotheka kuti munthu amene amayesetsa kulamulira chinachake m'malo mwake.