Psychology

Amakhulupirira kuti akazi amakhudzidwa kwambiri. Ndi zoona? Malingaliro awa okhudza kugonana akukambidwa ndi akatswiri athu, akatswiri ofufuza za kugonana Alain Eril ndi Mireille Bonyerbal.

Alain Eril, psychoanalyst, sexologist:

Lingaliro ili mwina limachokera ku chikhalidwe chathu, koma limakhalanso ndi zifukwa za neurophysiological. Zitha kuwoneka, mwachitsanzo, kuti mpweya wamphepo, womwe umamveka ndi khungu, umadziwika ndi akazi kwambiri kuposa amuna. Kuchokera pa izi tikhoza kunena kuti ma receptor a khungu amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi amayi.

Izi zitha kufotokozedwa ndi chisinthiko chamunthu: munthu adakula kudzera muzochita zolimbitsa thupi, pomwe khungu lake lidakhala lolimba komanso losasunthika, zomwe zidapangitsa kuti asakhudzidwe. Nthawi zambiri timazindikira kuti amuna sakonda kukhudzidwa - zimakhala kuti kugonana kwawo kumangokhala kumaliseche.

Koma amuna akamaopa kusonyeza mbali yachikazi ya chikhalidwe chawo, amapeza madera ambiri erogenous kuwonjezera maliseche. Amapeza chimene chiri chodziŵikiratu kwa akazi—kuti thupi lawo lonse ndi chiŵalo chakumva ndipo angathe kukhala ndi phande m’kugonana mwachipambano.

Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist:

Pakugawa madera a erogenous, zinthu za neuroanatomical zimagwira ntchito yofunika kwambiri, chifukwa mwa amuna ndi akazi magazi amagawidwa mosiyana m'thupi lonse panthawi yodzuka. Kwa amuna, kuthamanga kwa magazi kumachitika makamaka kumaliseche, pamene mwa amayi magazi amathamangira kumadera osiyanasiyana a thupi.

The erogenous zones mwamuna zambiri anaikira mu maliseche, nthawi zina pachifuwa m`dera.

The erogenous zones mwamuna zambiri anaikira mu maliseche, nthawi zina pachifuwa m`dera. Izi zimachitika chifukwa chakuti kamnyamatako kamakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana ndi chiwalo chake chokha, chifukwa ali m'maso ndipo amatha kugwidwa.

Msungwana wamng'onoyo samawona maliseche ake; akazigwira, nthawi zambiri amakalipiridwa chifukwa cha izo. Choncho, popanda kudziwa za iwo, iye m'malo osangalala ndi maonekedwe anaponyedwa pa thupi lake, chifuwa, tsitsi, matako, miyendo. Chiwalo chake chogonana ndi thupi lake lonse, kuyambira kumapazi mpaka kutsitsi.

Siyani Mumakonda