Kuyanjanitsa ntchito ndi mwana
Inde, sikophweka nthawi zonse kwa abambo kugwirizanitsa ntchito ndi mwana, koma zingawonekere, malinga ndi amayi ena, kuti.komabe abambo ambiri amabwera kunyumba usiku kwambiri kapena amangosamalira ana awo kumapeto kwa sabata! Monga Odile, ali ndi pakati pa miyezi 2,5 komanso mayi wa Maxime wazaka 3, yemwe mwamuna wake “Amaika ndalama zambiri pantchito, alibe ndandanda ndipo samadziŵa nthaŵi imene adzakhala kunyumba”, kapena Céline, yemwe amadandaula za a "Mwamuna kulibe kunyumba ... amangodzigudubuza pa sofa", kapena mayi wina amene alibe “Sindikuthandizidwa konse” ndi mwamuna amene sadziika yekha ndalama "Zambiri pa ntchito ya khanda. “ Abambo ambiri amathera theka la nthaŵiyo kuposa amayi ndi ana awo aang’ono!
Koma zinthu zikhoza kusintha!
Ngati mwamuna m'moyo mwanu sakugwirizana ndi Mwana momwe mungafunire, angafunike nthawi kuzolowera udindo wanu watsopano monga tate. Choncho pirirani.
Ndipo ngati, mosasamala kanthu za chirichonse, mukupitiriza kuganiza zonse nokha, musazengereze kumudziwitsa za vutoli, kumuuza kuti muyenera kupuma komanso kuti thandizo laling'ono lidzakuchitirani zabwino kwambiri. Sizovuta nthawi zonse koma, monga Anne-Sophie, mutha kuyesa nthawi zonse ndikuwona momwe zinthu zikuyendera: "Ndinamuopseza kuti ndimusiya yekha ndi TV yake, koma sindinayankhe. Ndinamusiya yekha ndi ana akukuwa kuti apite kukagula zinthu, sanasinthe matewera ndipo anangowamwetsa. Koma pamene ndinasewera khadi la anzanga omwe amathandiza ndi kutenga nawo mbali pa ntchito zapakhomo (ndimagwira ntchito nthawi zonse ndi maola awiri oyendayenda tsiku), akunyozedwa ndi chizoloŵezi chake chakale, anayamba kudzuka pang'ono. Ndi kufika kwachiwiri, akupita patsogolo: amasintha pee, amathandiza ndi kusamba ndi zakudya, ok osati motalika komanso osati ndi kuleza mtima kwakukulu, koma amathandiza (pang'ono). “