Mayi woberekera

Mayi woberekera

Choletsedwa ku France, kugwiritsa ntchito mayi woberekera, wotchedwanso surrogacy, akukangana. Nkhaniyi sinayambe yakopa chidwi cha anthu monga momwe idakhalira lamulo lokhudza ukwati kwa onse. Kodi timadziwa kuti surrogacy ndi chiyani? Ganizirani za mayi woberekera.

Udindo wa mayi woberekera

Pofuna kuthandiza maanja amene ali m’mavuto, m’mayiko ambiri (monga ku United States kapena Canada), muli akazi okonzeka “kubwereka” chiberekero chawo kwa miyezi 9 kuti asamalire mwanayo chifukwa cha umuna wa m’mimba wa chiberekero. awiri, iwo ndi obereketsa. Azimayiwa chifukwa chake sakhala okhudzana ndi mwana. Amakhutira ndi kunyamula mluza ndiyeno mluza m’nthaŵi yonse ya kukula kwake ndiyeno nkuupereka kwa makolo ake “obadwa nawo” pakubadwa.

Komabe, palinso nkhani ina imene umuna umakhudza mwachindunji dzira la mayi woberekera. Choncho amalowetsedwa ndi umuna wa abambo ndipo amalumikizana ndi mwana. Milandu iwiriyi imadalira mwachindunji malamulo omwe akugwira ntchito m'mayiko osiyanasiyana omwe amavomereza machitidwewa.

Ngati mchitidwewu ukhoza kudabwitsa kapena kuyambitsa kusamvetsetsana pakati pa anthu ambiri a ku France, ndikofunikanso kukumbukira kuti ichi ndi sitepe yotsiriza ya nthawi yayitali kwa maanjawa omwe ali ndi chikhumbo champhamvu cha ana ndikukhala mu mkhalidwe wosabereka kapena wosakhoza kubereka. bereka. Choncho mawu akuti surrogacy akufanana ndi njira yachipatala yolera mothandizidwa m'mayiko onse omwe amavomereza.

Mayi woberekera ku France

Malinga ndi malamulo a ku France, ndizoletsedwa kugwiritsa ntchito njira yotereyi (kaya yolipidwa kapena ayi) kubweretsa mwana padziko lapansi. Lamulo lokhwima kwambirili komabe limadzetsa nkhanza komanso zokopa alendo ofunikira kwambiri m'maiko omwe amaloleza surrogacy (surrogacy).

Kaya okwatirana akukumana ndi kusabereka kapena ali gay, ochuluka akupita kunja kukalemba ntchito mayi woberekera. Maulendo amenewa atha kuthetsa vuto lomwe likuwoneka ngati lopanda chiyembekezo ku France. Potsutsana ndi malipiro komanso kulingalira kwa chithandizo chonse chamankhwala, mayi woberekera amalonjeza kubereka mwana wawo wosabadwa ndikuwapatsa mwayi wokhala makolo.

Modzudzulidwa kwambiri, kubereka kumabweretsa mavuto ambiri pamikhalidwe yabwino komanso kulemekeza thupi la mkazi, monganso pamalamulo omwe ali ndi udindo wosadziwika bwino wa khanda. Kodi kuzindikira filiation? Ndi mtundu wanji woti amupatse? Mafunso ndi ambiri ndipo ndi nkhani yotsutsana kwambiri.

Ana a surrogacy

Ana obadwa kwa amayi oberekera amavutika kwambiri kuti adziŵike ku France. Njirazo ndi zazitali komanso zovuta ndipo makolo amayenera kulimbana kuti ayesetse kukhazikitsa filiation yolondola. Choyipa chachikulu ndichakuti nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kupeza ziphaso zobadwira zaku France ndipo ambiri mwa ana awa, obadwa kwa mayi woberekera wakunja, sapeza dziko la France kapena pakangopita miyezi yayitali, ngakhale zaka.

Mkhalidwe wovutawu kwa ana osowa kuzindikirikawu ukhoza kuwongoleredwa m'miyezi ikubwerayi popeza dziko la France ndi boma lake likuwoneka kuti likufunitsitsa kuchita zinthu m'manja mwawo ndikukhazikitsa malamulo okhudza vutoli.

Lumikizanani ndi mayi woberekera wa mwana wake

Kwa iwo omwe amangodzutsa kukongola kwa thupi lachikazi ndi la makanda, maanja omwe adagwiritsa ntchito njira yoberekerayi amayankha mosiyana ndi momwe zimakhalira ndi chikondi. Kwa iwo siliri funso la “kugula” mwana koma la kutenga pakati ndi kukonzekera kufika kwake kwa miyezi kapena zaka. Iwo ndithudi ayenera kuthera nthawi yochuluka ndi ndalama, komanso kutsegulira ena ndikukumana ndi mkazi yemwe adzakhala gawo lofunika kwambiri la moyo wawo watsopano. Iwo akhoza, ngati akufuna, kupanga maubwenzi olimba a m'tsogolo. Zowonadi, nthawi zambiri, makolo, ana ndi mayi woberekera amalumikizana ndikusinthana pafupipafupi pazaka zotsatila.

Ngati mayi woberekera ali, poyang’ana koyamba, yankho loyenera kuperekedwa kwa okwatirana onse amene alibe mwayi wokhala ndi ana, komabe amadzutsa mafunso ambiri. Kodi mukuganiza chiyani za commodification ya thupi lachikazi? Kodi mungayang'anire bwanji mchitidwewu ndikupewa kutengeka koopsa? Kodi zimakhudza bwanji mwanayo ndi moyo wake wamtsogolo? Mafunso ambiri omwe gulu la ku France liyenera kuyankha kuti lipeze mayankho ndikusankha tsogolo la surrogacy.

Siyani Mumakonda