Ana mosadziwa amabwereza zolembedwa za makolo awo ndikupereka zowawa zawo kuchokera ku mibadwomibadwo - ichi ndi chimodzi mwa malingaliro akuluakulu a filimuyo "Loveless" ya Andrei Zvyagintsev, yomwe inalandira mphoto ya jury pa Cannes Film Festival. Ndi zomveka ndipo zagona pamwamba. Psychoanalyst Andrey Rossokhin amapereka malingaliro osakhala ang'onoang'ono a chithunzichi.
Okwatirana achichepere Zhenya ndi Boris, makolo a Alyosha wazaka 12, akusudzulana ndipo akufuna kusintha kwambiri miyoyo yawo: kupanga mabanja atsopano ndikuyamba kukhala ndi moyo kuyambira pachiyambi. Amachita zomwe akufuna, koma pamapeto pake amamanga ubale ngati momwe amathamangira.
Ngwazi pachithunzichi sangathe kudzikonda okha, kapena wina ndi mzake, kapena mwana wawo. Ndipo zotsatira za kusakonda kumeneku ndi zomvetsa chisoni. Izi ndi zomwe zinanenedwa mu filimu ya Andrei Zvyagintsev Loveless.
Ndizowona, zokhutiritsa komanso zozindikirika. Komabe, kuwonjezera pa dongosolo lachidziwitsoli, filimuyi ili ndi dongosolo lopanda chidziwitso, lomwe limayambitsa kuyankha kwakukulu kwamaganizo. Pamlingo wosazindikira uwu, kwa ine, zomwe zili zazikulu siziri zochitika zakunja, koma zochitika za wachinyamata wazaka 12. Zonse zomwe zimachitika mufilimuyi ndi chipatso cha malingaliro ake, malingaliro ake.
Mawu aakulu pachithunzichi ndi kufufuza.
Koma ndi kusaka kwamtundu wanji komwe zokumana nazo za mwana wazaka zosinthira zimatha kulumikizidwa?
Wachinyamata akuyang'ana "I" wake, amafuna kupatukana ndi makolo ake, kuti adzitalikitse mkati
Akuyang'ana "I" wake, akufuna kupatukana ndi makolo ake. Kudzipatula nokha mkati, ndipo nthawi zina kwenikweni, mwakuthupi. N'zosadabwitsa kuti pa msinkhu uwu ana makamaka nthawi zambiri amathawa kunyumba, mu filimu amatchedwa "othamanga".
Kuti asiyane ndi atate ndi amayi, wachinyamata ayenera kuwanyalanyaza, kuwachepetsa. Lolani kuti musamangokonda makolo anu, komanso musawakonde.
Ndipo chifukwa cha izi, ayenera kumverera kuti samamukondanso, ali okonzeka kumukana, kumuthamangitsa. Ngakhale ngati zonse zili bwino m’banja, makolo amagona pamodzi ndi kukondana wina ndi mnzake, wachinyamata angakhale wotalikirana naye, kukhala wotalikirana naye. Zimamupangitsa kukhala wamantha komanso wosungulumwa kwambiri. Koma kusungulumwa kumeneku n’kosapeŵeka m’kati mwa kupatukana.
Panthawi yaunyamata, mwanayo amakumana ndi zotsutsana zotsutsana: akufuna kukhalabe wamng'ono, kusamba m'chikondi cha makolo, koma chifukwa cha izi ayenera kukhala womvera, osati modzidzimutsa, kukwaniritsa zoyembekeza za makolo ake.
Ndipo kumbali ina, pali kufunikira kokulirapo mwa iye kuwononga makolo ake, kunena kuti: “Ndimakuda” kapena “Amadana nane”, “Sandifunikira, koma sindikuwafunanso. ”
Ulunjikitse zaukali pa iwo, lowa m'mtima mwanu kusakonda. Iyi ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri, yomvetsa chisoni, koma kumasulidwa ku lamulo la makolo, kulera ndi tanthauzo la kusintha.
Thupi lozunzika limenelo lomwe timaliwona pawindo ndi chizindikiro cha moyo wa wachinyamata, womwe umazunzidwa ndi mkangano wamkati. Mbali ina ya iye imayesetsa kukhalabe m’chikondi, pamene ina imamatira ku kusakonda.
Kudzifunafuna, dziko loyenerera la munthu kaŵirikaŵiri kumakhala kowononga, kungathe kutha ndi kudzipha ndi kudzilanga. Kumbukirani momwe Jerome Salinger adanena m'buku lake lodziwika bwino - "Ndayima m'mphepete mwa phompho, pamwamba pa phompho ... Ndipo ntchito yanga ndikugwira ana kuti asagwere kuphompho."
Ndipotu, wachinyamata aliyense amaima pamwamba pa phompho.
Kukula ndi phompho lomwe muyenera kulowamo. Ndipo ngati kusakonda kumathandizira kulumpha, ndiye kuti mutha kutuluka muphompho ili ndikukhala pa kudalira chikondi chokha.
Palibe chikondi popanda chidani. Maubwenzi nthawi zonse amakhala osagwirizana, banja lililonse lili ndi zonse ziwiri. Ngati anthu asankha kukhalira limodzi, chikondi chimakhalapo pakati pawo, ubwenzi - ulusi womwe umawalola kumamatirana kwakanthawi kochepa.
Chinthu china ndi chakuti chikondi (pamene chiri chochepa kwambiri) chikhoza kupita patali "kumbuyo" kwa moyo uno kuti wachinyamata sadzamvanso, sangathe kudalira, ndipo zotsatira zake zingakhale zomvetsa chisoni. .
Zimachitika kuti makolo kupondereza kusakonda ndi mphamvu zawo zonse, kubisa izo. "Tonse ndife ofanana, ndife gawo limodzi ndipo timakondana wina ndi mnzake." Sizingatheke kuthawa m'banja lomwe nkhanza, kukwiya, kusiyana zimakanidwa kotheratu. Ndizosatheka chotani nanga kuti dzanja lidzilekanitse ndi thupi ndikukhala moyo wodziyimira pawokha.
Wachinyamata woteroyo sadzapeza ufulu wodziimira ndipo sadzakondana ndi wina aliyense, chifukwa nthawi zonse adzakhala wa makolo ake, adzakhalabe mbali ya chikondi cha banja chogwira mtima.
Ndikofunika kuti mwanayo aonenso kusakonda - mwa mikangano, mikangano, kusagwirizana. Pamene akuwona kuti banja lingathe kupirira, kupirira, kupitiriza kukhalapo, amapeza chiyembekezo chakuti iye mwini ali ndi ufulu wosonyeza nkhanza pofuna kuteteza maganizo ake, "Ine" yake.
Ndikofunika kuti kuyanjana kumeneku kwa chikondi ndi kusakonda kuchitike m'banja lililonse. Kotero kuti palibe kumverera kobisika kuseri kwa zochitika. Koma pa izi, okondedwa akuyenera kuchitapo kanthu kena kofunikira pa iwo eni, pa maubwenzi awo.
Ganiziraninso zochita zanu ndi zochitika zanu. Izi, kwenikweni, amafuna chithunzi Andrei Zvyagintsev.