Zamkatimu
Pa february 2, Netflix adatulutsa zolembedwa "The Tinder Swindler" zonena za scammer waku Israeli yemwe adazunzidwa anali azimayi aku Central ndi Northern Europe omwe adakumana nawo pa Tinder. Zotsatira za mabwenzi awa kwa heroines nthawizonse zakhala zofanana - mtima wosweka, kusowa ndalama ndi mantha pa moyo wawo. Kodi tinganene chiyani m’nkhaniyi?
Motsogozedwa ndi Felicity Morris, filimuyi idatchulidwa kale kuti ndi mtundu wamakono wa Steven Spielberg's Catch Me If You Can. Amafanana kwambiri: otchulidwa kwambiri amadzinamizira kuti ndi anthu ena, amapeka zikalata, amalipira ndalama za munthu wina ndipo amakhalabe nthawi yayitali kupolisi. Pokhapokha sikutheka kumva chisoni ndi wakuba wa Israeli. Tikukuuzani chifukwa chake.
Munthu Wangwiro
Simon Leviev ndi mwana wa bilionea komanso CEO wa kampani yake yopanga diamondi. Kodi chimadziwika ndi chiyani za iye? Chifukwa cha ntchito yake, mwamunayo amakakamizika kuyenda maulendo ambiri - Instagram yake (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) lili ndi zithunzi zojambulidwa pamabwato, ndege zapadera komanso m'mahotela okwera mtengo. Ndipo amafuna kupeza wokondedwa.
Pamapeto pake, amamupeza pa Tinder - mwa munthu wa Norwegian Cecile Fellhol, yemwe anasamukira ku London. Atakumana ndi khofi, bamboyo anamuitanira ku Bulgaria, kumene iye ndi gulu lake ananyamuka kupita kuntchito. Ndipo patapita masiku angapo amakhala okwatirana.
Pokhala paulendo wamalonda nthawi zonse, Simon sankatha kuwona bwenzi lake nthawi zambiri, komabe ankawoneka ngati bwenzi lake labwino: nthawi zonse ankalankhulana, amatumiza mavidiyo okongola ndi mauthenga omvera, amapereka maluwa ndi mphatso zamtengo wapatali, ananena kuti amamuwona ngati wake. mkazi ndi mayi wa ana ake . Ndipo patapita miyezi ingapo, iye anadzipereka kuti azikhala limodzi.
Koma mu mphindi imodzi zonse zinasintha kwambiri
Adani - ochita nawo malonda a diamondi, omwe adaopseza Simon, adayesa kumupha. Zotsatira zake, mlonda wake anavulazidwa, ndipo wochita bizinesiyo anakakamizika kusiya ma akaunti ake onse ndi makadi aku banki - kuti asamupeze.
Choncho Cecile anayamba kuthandiza mnzakeyo ndalama, chifukwa ayenera kupitiriza kugwira ntchito, kuwuluka kukambilana zivute zitani. Adapereka khadi yaku banki yomwe idatengedwa m'dzina lake, kenako adatenga ngongole, yachiwiri, yachitatu ... ndi kubweza chirichonse.
Shimon Hayut, monga "millionaire" akutchedwa kwenikweni, ndithudi, sanabwezere kalikonse ndipo anapitiriza kuyendayenda ku Ulaya, kunyenga akazi ena. Komabe, adagwidwa - chifukwa cha ntchito yophatikizana ya atolankhani, apolisi ndi ena ozunzidwa, omwe nkhani zawo wotsogolera amatidziwitsanso.
Tinder ndi woyipa?
Ikatulutsidwa, filimuyo idakhala pamwamba pamndandanda wapasabata wa Netflix wama projekiti omwe amawonedwa kwambiri ndipo idakhala malo oyamba pamayendedwe aku Russia - masiku angapo apitawo idasamukira pamalo achiwiri chifukwa chamndandanda wokhudza wachinyengo waku Russia.
N’chifukwa chiyani amatchuka kwambiri? Nthawi yomweyo pazifukwa zingapo. Choyamba, nkhani za onyenga achikondi sizinali zachilendo zaka 10 zapitazo, ndipo tsopano. Bwanji ku Europe, ku Russia. Iyi ndi nkhani yowawa.
Kachiwiri, chifukwa nkhani ya aliyense wozunzidwa imayamba ndi mnzake pa Tinder. Mtsutso wokhudza chifukwa chake mapulogalamu a zibwenzi amafunikira komanso ngati n'zotheka kupeza wokondedwa mwa iwo akuwoneka kuti sadzatha.
Ndipo kanema yomwe idatulutsidwa idakhala mkangano watsopano kwa iwo omwe sakhulupirira mapulogalamu azibwenzi.
Komabe, ozunzidwawo samaimba mlandu wakuba wa Tinder konse - Cecile akupitilizabe kuzigwiritsa ntchito, popeza akuyembekezerabe kukumana ndi munthu yemwe ali pafupi ndi mzimu komanso zokonda. Chifukwa chake, simungathamangire kuchotsa pulogalamuyi. Koma mfundo zina, zozikidwa pa zimene akazi onyengedwawo ananena, n’zofunika kuzipanga.
Chifukwa chiyani chinyengocho chinagwira ntchito
Ma heroine a filimuyi anatsindika nthawi zambiri kuti Simon ankawoneka ngati munthu wodabwitsa. Malinga ndi iwo, ali ndi maginito achilengedwe kotero kuti pambuyo pa ola limodzi lakulankhulana zinkawoneka ngati adziwana kwa zaka 10. N’kutheka kuti anali choncho: ankadziwa kupeza mawu oyenerera, ankadziwa nthawi yoti asamuke kuti mnzakeyo atope komanso kuti azimukonda kwambiri. Koma anawerenga mosavuta pamene sikunali koyenera kukankhira - mwachitsanzo, sanaumirire pa chiyanjano, pozindikira kuti angapeze ndalama kuchokera kwa iye monga bwenzi.
Monga momwe katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi maubwenzi Zoe Clus akufotokozera, kutenga nawo mbali kwa Simon mu "kuphulika kwachikondi" kunathandiza kwambiri pa zomwe zinachitika - makamaka, adanena kuti akazi apite mwamsanga.
“Zinthu zikamayenda mwachangu kwambiri, chisangalalo chomwe timakhala nacho chimadutsa malingaliro athu ozindikira, oganiza bwino, komanso oganiza bwino ndikulowa mu chikumbumtima. Koma chikumbumtima sichingathe kusiyanitsa zenizeni ndi zongopeka - apa ndipamene mavuto amayambira, katswiriyo akuti. "Chotsatira chake, zonse zikuwoneka zenizeni. Izi zitha kukupatsirani zisankho zoyipa."
Komabe, pali zifukwa zina zimene akazi anakhulupirira woberayo mpaka komalizira.
Chikhulupiriro mu nthano
Monga ambiri a ife amene anakulira pa Disney ndi tingachipeze powerenga nthano za akalonga ndi mafumu, Cecile ankakhulupirira mu chozizwitsa mu mtima mwake - kuti munthu wangwiro adzaonekera - chidwi, wokongola, wolemera, amene «anaika dziko pa mapazi ake. » Zilibe kanthu kuti iwo ndi ochokera m’magulu osiyanasiyana. Cinderella akhoza?
Rescuer Syndrome
“Iye ndiye mtundu wa munthu amene akufuna kupulumutsidwa. Makamaka akakhala ndi udindo wotero. Gulu lonse linkadalira iye,” akutero Cecile. Pafupi naye, Simon anali womasuka, kugawana zomwe adakumana nazo, adawonetsa momwe amamvera komanso osatetezeka.
Akuti anali ndi udindo pakampani yayikulu, ya gulu lake, ndipo amamva kuti ali otetezeka pafupi ndi wokondedwa wake.
Ndipo Cecile ankaona ngati ntchito yake yomuteteza kapena kumupulumutsa. Choyamba muzimusonyeza chikondi chanu chonse ndi chichirikizo chanu chonse, ndiyeno kumuthandiza ndi ndalama. Uthenga wake unali wosavuta: "Ngati sindimuthandiza, ndani angamuthandize?" Ndipo, mwatsoka, si iye yekha amene ankaganiza choncho.
Ndipo komabe ife kubwerera ku mutu wa makalasi chikhalidwe. Simon sanasankhe akazi omwe, monga iye, amawuluka ma jeti apadera komanso omasuka m'malesitilanti apamwamba. Adasankha iwo omwe amalandila malipiro apakati ndipo amangokhala ndi lingaliro lauXNUMXbuXNUMXbmoyo wa "osankhika".
Chifukwa cha zimenezi, zinali zosavuta kuti aname. Lankhulani za zovuta zabodza mu bizinesi yabanja, musalowe mwatsatanetsatane zamaakaunti aku banki. Pangani nkhani zachitetezo. Ozunzidwa ake sanamvetsetse zomwe zingatheke ndi zomwe siziri kwa iwo omwe akukhala pamtunda wapamwamba. Sanadziŵe kalikonse ponena za kasamalidwe ka makampani, kapenanso mmene eni ake amachitira nthaŵi zambiri pakakhala ngozi. “Ngati munthu amene anabadwa ndi kukulira m’mikhalidwe imeneyi akunena kuti ziyenera kukhala choncho, ndiye ndingatsutse bwanji?”