Psychology

Genius mu malingaliro a anthu amagwirizanitsidwa ndi chitukuko choyambirira. Kuti mupange chinthu chodabwitsa, muyenera kuyang'ana dziko lapansi ndi mphamvu zomwe zimakhala mwa achinyamata. Wolemba mabuku Oliver Burkeman akufotokoza mmene ukalamba umakhudzira chipambano m’moyo.

Kodi ndi nthawi yanji yoti musiye kulota za kupambana kwamtsogolo? Funso limeneli limakhudza anthu ambiri chifukwa palibe amene amadziona kuti ndi wopambana. Wolemba mabuku amalota kuti mabuku ake afalitsidwe. Wolemba mabuku akufuna kuti akhale ogulitsa kwambiri, wolemba wogulitsa kwambiri amafuna kuti apambane mphotho yolemba. Kuphatikiza apo, aliyense akuganiza kuti m'zaka zingapo adzakalamba.

Zaka zilibe kanthu

Magazini ya Science inafalitsa zotsatira za phunziroli: akatswiri a zamaganizo aphunzira za chitukuko cha akatswiri a sayansi ya 1983 kuyambira XNUMX. Iwo anayesa kudziwa kuti ndi nthawi iti mu ntchito zawo zomwe adapeza zofunika kwambiri ndikutulutsa zolembedwa zofunika kwambiri.

Onse achinyamata ndi zaka zambiri sizinachitepo kanthu. Zinapezeka kuti asayansi anapanga mabuku ofunika kwambiri pachiyambi, pakati, ndi kumapeto kwa ntchito yawo.

Zaka zambiri zimawoneka ngati chinthu chachikulu pa moyo wabwino kuposa momwe zilili.

Kuchita bwino kunali chinthu chachikulu chopambana. Ngati mukufuna kufalitsa nkhani imene idzakhala yotchuka, simudzathandizidwa ndi changu cha unyamata kapena nzeru za zaka zapitazo. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kufalitsa nkhani zambiri.

Kunena zowona, nthawi zina zaka zimafunikira: masamu, monga masewera, achinyamata amapambana. Koma pakudzizindikiritsa nokha mu bizinesi kapena zaluso, zaka sizolepheretsa.

Matalente achichepere ndi ambuye okhwima

Zaka zomwe zimabwera bwino zimatengeranso mikhalidwe ya umunthu. Pulofesa wa zachuma David Galenson adazindikira mitundu iwiri ya akatswiri opanga zinthu: malingaliro ndi kuyesa.

Chitsanzo cha katswiri wamalingaliro ndi Pablo Picasso. Anali wanzeru wachinyamata talente. Ntchito yake ngati katswiri waluso idayamba ndi ukadaulo waluso, The Funeral of Casagemas. Picasso adajambula chithunzichi ali ndi zaka 20. M'kanthawi kochepa, wojambulayo anapanga ntchito zingapo zomwe zinakhala zazikulu. Moyo wake ukuwonetsa masomphenya wamba anzeru.

Chinthu chinanso ndi Paul Cezanne. Mukapita ku Musée d'Orsay ku Paris, komwe kusonkhanitsa bwino kwambiri ntchito zake, mudzawona kuti wojambulayo adajambula zithunzi zonsezi kumapeto kwa ntchito yake. Ntchito zopangidwa ndi Cezanne pambuyo pa 60 ndizofunika nthawi 15 kuposa zojambula zojambula paunyamata wake. Iye anali katswiri woyesera yemwe anapindula mwa kuyesa ndi zolakwika.

David Galenson mu phunziro lake amapereka gawo laling'ono ku ukalamba. Atangochita kafukufuku pakati pa otsutsa olemba - adawapempha kuti alembe mndandanda wa ndakatulo 11 zofunika kwambiri m'mabuku a US. Kenako adasanthula zaka zomwe olembawo adawalembera: zaka 23 mpaka 59. Olemba ndakatulo ena amapanga ntchito zabwino kwambiri kumayambiriro kwa ntchito yawo, ena zaka makumi angapo pambuyo pake. Galenson sanapeze ubale uliwonse pakati pa zaka za wolemba ndi kutchuka kwa ndakatulo.

focus zotsatira

Kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti zaka zambiri sizimakhudza kupambana, komabe tikupitirizabe kudandaula nazo. Mphoto ya Nobel ya Economics a Daniel Kahneman akufotokoza kuti: Timagwa m'manja ndi zomwe tikuyang'ana. Nthawi zambiri timaganizira za msinkhu wathu, choncho zimaoneka ngati chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wathu kuposa momwe zilili.

Zofanana ndi zimenezi zimachitika m’zibwenzi. Timadandaula ngati wokondedwayo ayenera kukhala ngati ife kapena, m'malo mwake, zotsutsana zimakopa. Ngakhale izi sizimathandiza kwambiri kuti ubalewu ukhale wabwino. Dziwani zolakwika zachidziwitso izi ndipo musagwere nazo. Mwayi sikunachedwe kuti muchite bwino.


Za wolemba: Oliver Burkeman ndi mtolankhani komanso wolemba The Antidote. Chithandizo cha moyo wosasangalala ”(Eksmo, 2014).

Siyani Mumakonda