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Momwe mungakhalire bwino ndi moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku ndi ana amapasa: malangizo athu!
Kukhala makolo a mapasa sikophweka nthawi zonse. Ndi chipwirikiti chachikulu m'banja. Kodi kusamalira tsiku ndi tsiku ana ake awiri kotero mmodzi ndi fusional? Ena amayankha ndi Émilie, amayi a Inès ndi Elsa, mapasa azaka zisanu ndi chimodzi masiku ano, ndi Clotilde Avezou, katswiri wa zamaganizo komanso katswiri wamapasa.
Makolo amapasa amadziwa kuti moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ukhoza kukhala wovuta kwambiri ndi awiriwa omwe amawasamalira nthawi imodzi. Momwe mungakonzekere bwino tsikulo kuti musaiwale chilichonse? Ndi malangizo ati kuti zonse ziyende bwino? Timakuuzani zonse ...
Khalani ndi bungwe la "quasi-military".
"Lamulo nambala 1 mukakhala mayi wamapasa: kukhala ndi gulu lopanda usilikalie! Sitingathe kusiya malo osayembekezereka. Komanso, timamvetsetsa mwamsanga! », Akutero Émilie, amayi a Inès ndi Elsa. “Makolo a ana amapasa amene amabwera kudzacheza nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi ana azaka 2-3. Ino ndi nthawi yopeza ufulu wodzilamulira, ndipo sizikhala zophweka nthawi zonse, "akufotokoza Clotilde Avezou, katswiri wa zamaganizo, katswiri wa mapasa. Kwa iye, ndizodziwikiratu kuti zonse ziyenera kuwerengedwa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi kholo. Pambuyo pake, malingana ndi mmene ana amapasawo anabalidwira, amayi angalole kapena angakane kupempha thandizo kwa mnzawo. ” Ngati mapasawo anabadwa mwachibadwa, amayi awo adzatha kusonyeza kutopa kwawo ndi kufunsa mwamuna kapena mkazi wawo, kapena agogo, kulanda mosavuta. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, amayi amene anabereka mapasa mwa njira ya IVF nthaŵi zambiri samadzilola kunena kuti atopa, ” akufotokoza motero katswiriyo.
Konzani zonse usiku watha
"Mukayenera kuyang'anira" kawiri "tsiku lakutsogolo, ndi bwino kuchita usiku watha." Timakonzekera matumba, zovala za tsiku lotsatira, kuti tiwononge nthawi yochepa m'mawa ", amatchula amayi a mapasa. Lingaliro lina labwino: “Ndimayika pambali menyu onse akusukulu. Ndimasuntha masabata angapo ndipo ndimalandira kudzoza kuchokera pazakudya zomwe zakhazikitsidwa kuti ndikonzekere chakudya cha sabata, pasadakhale, kuyambira kumapeto kwa sabata ndikapita kokagula. Zimandipulumutsa nthawi yambiri. Ana anga aakazi atasamalidwa ndi wolera, ndinalemba kope limene ndinalembapo chilichonse chowakhudza. Zomwe ndidakonzera chakudya chamadzulo, mankhwala oti ndimwe… Mwachidule, zonse zomwe nanny amafunikira kudziwa tsiku ndi tsiku, ”akufotokoza motero.
Loweruka ndi Lamlungu, moyo wosinthika kwambiri
Kumbali ina, mosiyana ndi sabata yomwe zonse zidakonzedweratu. kumapeto kwa sabata moyo wabanja unali wosiyana kotheratu. Ndinayesa kufotokoza kusinthasintha kowonjezereka mogwirizana ndi sabata, makamaka chifukwa cha kayimbidwe kasukulu ka atsikana ndi maola anga ogwira ntchito, "akufotokoza motero mayi wa mapasa. Kuyambira pamenepo, ana ake aakazi akukula, zomwe tsopano zimalola amayi kukambitsirana nawo pasadakhale zomwe akufuna chakudya kapena kuphika limodzi, mwachitsanzo Loweruka.
Siyanitsani ma binoculars
“Pazochita zawo zakunja, poyamba, ndimafuna kuti ana anga aakazi alembetsenso kosi yamasewera yomweyi. Ndipotu patapita kanthawi Ndinazindikira kuti sankakonda zochitika za chikhalidwe chimodzi kapena zokambirana », Tsatanetsatane mayi. Ditto ku school! Kuchokera kusukulu ya ana aang’ono, Émilie ankafuna kuti ana ake aakazi akhale m’kalasi ina. “Ndikofunikira kusunga umunthu wa mapasa ofanana. Ndimakumbukira kuti nthawi zonse ndimavala mosiyana ndi izi kuyambira kubadwa kwawo. Mofanana ndi masitayelo atsitsi, iwo sanapangidwe mofanana! Iye akuwonjezera. Muyenera kumvera aliyense wa iwo, kuvomereza kusiyana, ndipo koposa zonse musafanizire iwo kwa wina ndi mzake! "Nthawi zonse ndimadziuza ndekha kuti ndi ana awiri omwe anabadwa tsiku limodzi, koma ndizo zonse, ngakhale kuti anali ofanana m'chilichonse," akuwonetsanso.
Pewani mpikisano
“Palinso mkangano waukulu pakati pa mapasawa. Ndipo popeza ndi ang'onoang'ono, ndimayesetsa "kuswa" awiriwa, makamaka chinenero chawo.. Patapita nthawi, mapasawo anali atapanga njira yolankhulirana mwapadera, zomwe sizinkawapatula makolowo. Ntchito yanga inali kukakamiza kuti azitha kulankhula m'njira yomwe aliyense angamvetse, "akutero amayi a Inès ndi Elsa. Ndi njira yolekanitsira awiriwa pokakamiza mawu a kholo, kwa ocheperako. “Kuti ndipewe mkangano uliwonse pakati pa ana anga aakazi, nthawi zambiri ndimaitanitsa misonkhano yabanja, komwe timakambitsirana zomwe zikuchitika kapena ayi,” akufotokoza motero. "Amapasa amakhala oyandikana ngati abale, koma nthawi zambiri amakhala paubwenzi wagalasi pomwe amapikisana kuti adzilimbikire ndikukulitsa. Musazengereze kuyika maziko omveka bwino komanso olondola. Izi zitha kukhala ndi chithunzi chachikulu, zizindikiro zamitundu zomwe zimasintha malinga ndi khalidwe la ana, "akutero katswiri wa zamaganizo.