Pambuyo pa chisudzulo, timapeza okwatirana atsopano. Mwina iwo ndi ife tili kale ndi ana. Tchuthi chophatikizana pamenepa chingakhale ntchito yovuta. Kuthetsa, timapanga zolakwa. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Elodie Signal akufotokoza momwe angapewere.
Zambiri zimadalira kuti padutsa nthawi yochuluka bwanji kuchokera pamene banja latsopanolo linakhazikitsidwa. Mabanja amene akhala pamodzi kwa zaka zingapo amakhala ndi nkhawa zochepa. Ndipo ngati ili ndilo tchuthi lanu loyamba, muyenera kusamala. Musayese kuthera tchuthi chonse pamodzi. Mutha theka la nthawi yocheza ndi banja lonse ndipo theka n’kunyamuka kuti kholo lililonse likambirane ndi ana ake. Izi ndizofunikira kuti mwanayo asamve kuti akusiyidwa, chifukwa, pokhala ndi maholide ndi achibale atsopano, kholo silingathe kupereka chisamaliro chokha kwa mwana wake.
Aliyense amasewera!
Sankhani zochita zomwe aliyense angachitepo. Kupatula apo, ngati mutayambitsa masewera a paintball, achichepere amangoyang'ana, ndipo amatopa. Ndipo ngati mupita ku Legoland, ndiye kuti akulu ayamba kuyasamula. Palinso chiopsezo kuti wina adzakhala mu okondedwa. Sankhani zochita zoyenera aliyense: kukwera pamahatchi, dziwe losambira, kukwera maulendo, makalasi ophikira…
Miyambo ya mabanja iyenera kulemekezedwa. Anzeru safuna kugudubuza-skate. Anthu amasewera amatopa mumyuziyamu. Yesani kupeza mwayi woti mutengere njinga yomwe sifunikira luso lamasewera. Ngati mwana aliyense ali ndi zofuna zake, makolo akhoza kupatukana. M'banja lovuta, munthu ayenera kukambirana, komanso kulankhula za zomwe tataya. Chinthu china choyenera kukumbukira: achinyamata nthawi zambiri amakhumudwa, ndipo izi sizidalira momwe banja likuyendera.
Ulamuliro pa kukhulupirirana
Simuyenera kukhala ndi cholinga chofuna kuoneka ngati banja labwino. Tchuthi ndi nthawi yoyamba yomwe tili limodzi maola 24 pa tsiku. Chifukwa chake chiopsezo chokhuta komanso kukana. Perekani mwana wanu mwayi wokhala yekha kapena kusewera ndi anzake. Musamukakamize kukhala nanu pa mtengo uliwonse.
Perekani mwayi kwa mwana wanu kukhala yekha kapena kusewera ndi anzake
Timapitilira pamalingaliro akuti banja lovuta ndi abambo, amayi, amayi opeza ndi abambo opeza ndi abale ndi alongo. Koma m’pofunika kuti mwanayo alankhule ndi kholo, amene sali naye tsopano. Moyenera, ayenera kulankhula pa foni kawiri pa sabata. Banja latsopanoli likuphatikizaponso akazi amene analipo kale.
Kusagwirizana kumayikidwa pambali patchuthi. Chilichonse chimafewetsa, makolo amamasuka ndikulola zambiri. Amakhala omasuka kwambiri, ndipo ana amakhala aukali. Nthaŵi ina ndinaona mmene ana amasonyezera kusakonda amayi awo opeza ndipo amakaniratu kukhalabe naye. Koma kenako anakhala naye patchuthi kwa milungu itatu. Basi musamayembekezere kuti mnzanu watsopano apindule msanga ndi chikhulupiriro cha ana. Udindo watsopano wa kulera umaphatikizapo kusamala ndi kusinthasintha. Kugunda ndi kotheka, koma kawirikawiri, kukula kwa maubwenzi kumadalira wamkulu.
Mutha kukhulupilika ndi mwana pokhapokha mukukhulupirira..
Ngati mwanayo anena kuti, “Sindinu atate wanga” kapena “Sinu amayi anga,” poyankha ndemanga kapena pempho, mukumbutseni kuti zimenezi zadziŵika kale, ndipo ichi sichiri mwambo.
Abale ndi alongo atsopano
Nthawi zambiri, ana amakonda azichimwene ake atsopano, makamaka ngati ali ndi zaka zofanana. Izi zimawathandiza kuti azigwirizana kuti azisangalala ndi nyanja ndi dziwe. Koma ndizovuta kwambiri kuphatikiza ana ang'onoang'ono ndi achinyamata. Zimakhala bwino ngati pali achikulire omwe amakonda kucheza ndi achichepere. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti amalota za izo. Safuna kudzimana kulankhulana ndi anzawo. Ndi bwino kuti ana ang’onoang’ono azisamalidwa ndi abale awo.