Chifukwa chiyani timayika miyoyo yathu m'manja mwa olosera

Tsopano Alexander ali ndi zaka 60. Tsiku lina ali mnyamata, iye ndi mlongo wake anakhala pa mpanda n’kudya apulo wothira madzi. Amakumbukira bwino lomwe tsikulo, ngakhale zomwe adavala onse awiri. Mkulu wina anayenda m’njira n’kutembenukira kunyumba kwawo. Makolo ankalemekeza wapaulendoyo.

Zokambirana zinali zazifupi mokwanira. Mkuluyo adanena kuti mnyamatayo adzayenda panyanja (ndipo iyi inali mudzi wakutali wa ku Siberia, zomwe zinayambitsa kukayikira), kuti akwatire msanga, komanso kuti akhalebe mkazi wamasiye. Msungwanayo ananeneratu za tsogolo labwino: banja lolimba, chitukuko ndi ana ambiri.

Mnyamatayo anakulira ndipo anapita kukaphunzira mumzinda waukulu, kumene luso lake linali "mwangozi" lokhudzana ndi nyanja. Anakwatira msanga, mtsikana wochokera ku chipembedzo chosiyana. Ndipo wamasiye. Kenako anakwatiranso. Ndipo wamasiye kachiwiri.

Mlongoyo anapita m’njira yosiyana kotheratu: ukwati waufupi osati wa chikondi, chisudzulo, mwana mmodzi, kusungulumwa kwa moyo wonse.

matenda amisala

Kuyambira tili ana, takhala tikuzoloŵera kukhulupirira Santa Claus, nkhani zamatsenga, zozizwitsa.

Katswiri wa zamaganizo Anna Statsenko akufotokoza kuti: “Ana amatengera mosanyinyirika mauthenga a makolo ndi maganizo awo, n’kumatengera maganizo a dziko a anthu amene amakhala nawo pafupi,” akufotokoza motero katswiri wa zamaganizo Anna Statsenko, “mwanayo amakula. Poyang'anizana ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana za moyo, iye, kuchokera ku mbali yake yaubwana, amafuna kuti wina azitha kusankha: momwe angachitire, zomwe ziyenera kuchitika, momwe zidzakhalire bwino. Ngati palibe munthu m'deralo amene maganizo ake mbali ya mwanayo angakhulupirire kwathunthu, kufufuza kumayamba.

Ndiyeno iwo amene nthawi zonse ndi chirichonse amadziwa pasadakhale, molimba mtima kulosera zam'tsogolo, kubwera mu zochita. Onse omwe timawapatsa udindo wofunikira komanso wovomerezeka.

“Amapita kwa iwo kuti adzichepetse okha paudindo, kupsinjika maganizo chifukwa cha kuwopa kulakwa,” akupitiriza motero katswiri wa zamaganizo. - Kuti wina asankhe ndikukuuzani momwe mungachitire ndi zomwe mungachite kuti muchepetse nkhawa, kuti alandire kulimbikitsidwa. Ndipo kuti munthu wamkulu atsimikizire kuti: "Musaope, zonse zikhala bwino."

Zovuta panthawiyi zachepetsedwa. Chidziwitso chimatengedwa mopepuka. Ndipo pali kuthekera kuti munthu "adzadwala matenda amisala". Kuphatikiza apo, kuyambitsidwa kwa pulogalamu yachilendo nthawi zina kumachitika mosazindikira, pamlingo wosakomoka.

Timalankhulana pogwiritsa ntchito mawu, omwe ali ndi ma encoding, uthenga womveka komanso wobisika, akutero Anna Statsenko:

"Chidziwitso chimalowa mulingo wa chidziwitso komanso chikomokere. Kuzindikira kumatha kutsitsa chidziwitsochi, koma nthawi yomweyo, osazindikira amachotsa m'malembawo mtundu ndi chidutswa chomwe chingavomerezedwe kudzera muzochitikira zaumwini komanso mbiri yabanja ndi banja. Ndiyeno kufufuza njira zogwiritsira ntchito zomwe mwalandira kumayamba. Pali ngozi yaikulu yakuti m’tsogolo munthu adzachitapo kanthu osati chifukwa cha ufulu wake wosankha, koma zoletsedwa zolandiridwa kudzera mu uthengawo.

Momwe kachilombo ka uthenga kadzazika mizu mwachangu komanso ngati kachilombo ka uthenga kazika mizu kumadalira ngati pali dothi lachonde m'chimbulimbuli chathu kuti mudziwe zambiri. Ndiyeno kachilomboka kadzagwira mantha, mantha, zolephera zaumwini ndi zikhulupiriro, akutero Anna Statsenko.

Kodi moyo wa anthuwa ukanayenda bwanji popanda kuletsa zolosera? Kodi ndi nthawi yanji yomwe timasiya njira yathu, kusankha kwathu kowona, chifukwa cha kulosera? Pamene anali kukhulupirira nokha, anu apamwamba «Ine» anataya?

Tiyeni tiyese kulingalira ndi kupanga mankhwala mu masitepe asanu.

Mankhwala a virus

Khwerero 1: phunzirani kudalira udindo pochita zinthu ndi munthu wina: Ndine wamkulu ndipo Winayo ndi wamkulu. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kufufuza gawo lanu la akuluakulu.

Anna Statsenko akufotokoza kuti: “Mkhalidwe wachikulire ndi umene munthu amadziŵa ndipo amaunika mwanzeru kuopsa kwa zochita zake zilizonse, amakhala wokonzeka kutenga udindo pa zimene zikuchitika m’moyo wake. - Panthawi imodzimodziyo, amapanga njira zosiyanasiyana pazochitika zinazake.

M'chigawo ichi, munthu amasankha zomwe ziri zonyenga kwa iye, kumene akufuna kumanga nyumba ya ndege. Koma amaona zimenezi ngati kuti ali kunja, akumapeŵa kudzipatula kotheratu m’mabodza ameneŵa kapena m’ziletso za makolo.

Kufufuza gawo langa lachikulire kumatanthauza kufufuza ngati ndingathe kudzipangira ndekha, kutenga udindo pa zomwe zikuchitika kwa ine ndekha, kugwirizana ndi mantha anga ndi malingaliro ena, ndilole kuti ndikhale nawo.

Kodi ndingathe kuyang'ana winayo, popanda kuyerekezera kufunikira kwake, koma popanda kuwononga, kuchokera ku malo a I-wamkulu ndi Ena-Wamkulu. Kodi ndingasiyanitse zonyenga zanga ndi zenizeni?

Khwerero 2: phunzirani kutsutsa zomwe mwalandira kuchokera kunja. Zovuta - izi sizotsika mtengo, osati zonyoza, koma ngati imodzi mwamalingaliro omwe amafotokoza zochitikazo.

Ndife okonzeka kulandira chidziŵitso chochokera kwa ena, koma timachiwona monga chimodzi mwa nthanthizo, tikuchikana modekha ngati sichingafanane ndi kuunika.

Khwerero 3: kuzindikira ngati pempho langa kwa Wina pali chikhumbo chosadziwa kudzichotsera ndekha udindo. Ngati inde, bwererani ku malo akuluakulu.

Khwerero 4: zindikirani zomwe ndikufunika ndikukwaniritsa potembenukira kwa Zina. Kodi munthu amene ndamusankha angakwanitsedi kukwaniritsa zimenezi?

Khwerero XNUMX: phunzirani kudziwa nthawi yoyambira kachilomboka. Pa kusintha kwa boma. Mwachitsanzo, munangoseka ndipo munali ndi mphamvu, koma mutakambirana ndi mnzanu, kukhumudwa, kusakhulupirira nokha kudachuluka. Chinachitika ndi chiyani? Kodi ndi dziko langa kapena mkhalidwe wa mnzanga umene unasamutsidwa kwa ine? Chifukwa chiyani ndikuchifuna? Kodi panali mawu aliwonse muzokambirana omwe adamveka apadera?

Mwa kupitiriza kulankhulana ndi mbali yathu yauchikulire, tingatetezere ponse paŵiri mwana wamkati ndi ife eni ku maulosi okwaniritsidwa tokha ndi ngozi zina zothekera za mtundu umenewu.