N’chifukwa chiyani mwana wanu amakonda zidole zankhondo?

Tanki, ndege, helikoputala … Mwana wanga amakonda kuseweretsa msilikali ndi zidole zake zankhondo

Pakati pa zaka 2 ndi 3, pambuyo pa gawo lotsutsa, lopangidwa ndi "ayi!" »Kubwerezabwereza, mwana amayamba kusonyeza chidwi ndi zida ndi zidole zankhondo. Mpaka nthawi imeneyo alibe mphamvu pamaso pa munthu wamkulu yemwe amamuona ngati chimphona chopatsidwa mphamvu ya moyo ndi imfa, pamapeto pake amayesa kudzinenera yekha, akumva kuti ali ndi mphamvu. Ndipo masewera ankhondo amafanizira kulanda mphamvu uku, makamaka pakati pa anyamata aang'ono. Chifukwa china kawirikawiri: mphatso kwa ana nthawi zambiri zimakhala "zachikazi": mfuti kapena malupanga amaperekedwa mosavuta kwa mnyamata wamng'ono kusiyana ndi mtsikana. Chifukwa chake kukopa kwake kumasewera omwe amawawona ngati amtundu wake ...

Kupyolera mu masewerawa, mnyamata wamng'ono akuwonetsa zikhumbo zake zaukali wachilengedwe. Amapeza mphamvu zovulaza, komanso kuteteza. Ndi nthawi yomwe amazindikira zake umembala wa jenda : ali pamwamba pa amuna chifukwa ali ndi mbolo. Monga zizindikiro zophiphiritsira za phallus, sabers ndi pistols zimalola kamnyamata kakang'ono kuti awonjezere ku mbali ya virility. Ndi kukhala amene amateteza amayi ake.

Udindo wanu: thandizani mwana wanu kusiyanitsa pakati pa mphindi zongoyerekeza zamasewera ndi zochitika zenizeni pamoyo. Ndibwino, makamaka, kuwaletsa kutsata madera ofunikira (mutu, kuphulika) monga "woipa weniweni" angachitire: mu masewera, ngati mukuyang'ana munthu, ndi miyendo yapansi yokha.

Osaletsa zidole ndi ziwerengero zankhondo kwa mwana wanu

Ngati mnyamatayo amasula ukali wake kupyolera m’zoseŵeretsa zankhondo, sadzakhala wokhoterera kugwiritsira ntchito zibakera zake m’bwalo lamasewera. Komanso, ngati sichikulowetsedwa mu masewerawo, chizolowezi chake chaukali chidzakhalapo nthawi yayitali, m’njira yobisika: pamene akukula, akhoza kusunga nkhanza zina kwa ofooka, m’malo mowateteza ndi kuwateteza. Choncho nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuletsa mwana wanu kusewera ndi zidole zankhondo ... Ngati saloledwa kufotokoza, mwanayo akhoza kupondereza mwaukali wake. Kenako amakhala pachiwopsezo chongokhala chete. Pagulu, sangachite bwino kudziteteza ndipo atenga udindo wa scapegoat. Zikhumbo zake zaukali zimakhala ndi ntchito ina: ndi chifukwa cha iwo kuti mwanayo amatenga zovuta, amalowa mu mpikisano ndi ena, ndipo kenako adzapambana mpikisano, kupambana. Ngati iwo ali muzzled molawirira kwambiri, mwanayo adzakula mantha kuwunika, mwayi kupikisana ndi ena. Sadzakhala ndi kudzidalira kokwanira kuti atenge malo oyenera.

Udindo wanu: Osakana maseŵera osonyeza zachiwawa chifukwa choopa kuti munthu waukali ndi wopondereza adzakula mwa iye. Chifukwa chakuti kuli mwa kukana kumuona akuwongolera mkhalidwe wake waukali mwa maseŵero m’pamene munthu amaika upandu wa kusalinganiza umunthu wake.

Thandizani mwana wake kuthetsa chidwi chake ndi masewera ndi zida zankhondo

Kodi amawombera chilichonse chomwe chimayenda? Pa 3, njira yake yosewera nkhondo ndiyosavuta. Koma pakati pa zaka 4 ndi 6, masewera ake, olembedwa kwambiri, phatikizani malamulo okhwima. Kenako adzamvetsetsa, mothandizidwa ndi inu, kuti chiwawa chopanda phindu chilibe tanthauzo komanso kuti kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu kumangofuna kuteteza chifukwa choyenera, ponena za malamulo.

Kodi akufuna kukumana ndi abwenzi ake? Palinso madera ena kupatulapo chiwawa chakuthupi. Kupyolera mu masewera a bolodi kapena miyambi yosavuta, kamnyamata kakang'ono kakhoza kusonyeza kuti ndiye ngwazi pakuchita mofulumira, luntha, kuchenjera kapena nthabwala. Zili ndi inu kuti mumupangitse kumvetsetsa kuti pali njira zambiri zokhalira wamphamvu kwambiri. Amangotuluka ali ndi zida? Musonyezeni kuti pali njira zina zopezera ulemu. Ino ndi nthawi yoti muzimuuza tsiku ndi tsiku kuti mukasemphana maganizo, mumathetsa mikanganoyo pokambirana. Ndipo kuti sikuti wamphamvu kwambiri mwakuthupi ndi amene amapambana.

Udindo wanu: kawirikawiri, yesani kumvetsa chifukwa cha khalidwe lake ndi chidwi chake. Afotokozereni naye. Apatseni tanthawuzo ("makhalidwe" pang'ono samapweteka) ndipo ngati n'kotheka, perekani njira zochepetsera zachiwawa komanso zabwino.

Siyani Mumakonda