Zamkatimu
Luso lanu lamalingaliro silili lokayikitsa, ngakhale inu kapena iwo akuzungulirani. Ndinu wophunzira ulemu wakale komanso likulu laluntha la gulu lililonse. Ndipo komabe nthawi zina, pa nthawi yosayembekezereka kwambiri, mumapanga zolakwa zopanda pake ndi kupanga zisankho zopanda pake kotero kuti ndi nthawi yoti mugwire mutu wanu. Chifukwa chiyani?
Ndizosangalatsa komanso zopindulitsa kukhala ndi nzeru zapamwamba: malinga ndi ziwerengero, anthu anzeru amapeza zambiri komanso amakhala ndi moyo wautali. Komabe, mawu akuti "tsoka lochokera kwanzeru" nawonso alibe zifukwa zasayansi.
Shane Frederick, pulofesa ku Yale School of Management, adachita kafukufuku yemwe amafotokoza chifukwa chake kulingalira koyenera komanso luntha siziyendera limodzi nthawi zonse. Anapempha ophunzirawo kuti athetse mavuto osavuta amalingaliro.
Mwachitsanzo, yesani vuto ili: “Mpikisano wa baseball ndi mpira pamodzi zimawononga dola imodzi ndi dime imodzi. Mleme umawononga dola imodzi kuposa mpira. Mpira ndi wandalama zingati? (Yankho lolondola lili kumapeto kwa nkhaniyo.)
Anthu omwe ali ndi ma IQ apamwamba amatha kutulutsa yankho lolakwika popanda kuganizira mozama: "masenti 10."
Nanunso mukalakwitsa musataye mtima. Oposa theka la ophunzira ku Harvard, Princeton, ndi MIT omwe adachita nawo phunziroli adapereka yankho lomwelo. Zikuwonekeratu kuti anthu ochita bwino m'maphunziro amalakwitsa kwambiri pothetsa mavuto amisala.
Chifukwa chachikulu chophonya ndicho chidaliro chopambanitsa pa luso la munthu.
Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri sitikhala ndi nthawi yothetsa zovuta zamaganizo monga zomwe tazitchula pamwambapa, ntchito zamaganizo zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndi izi ndizofanana ndi zomwe timagwiritsa ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Chifukwa chake anthu omwe ali ndi ma IQ apamwamba nthawi zambiri amapanga zolakwa zochititsa manyazi kuntchito.
Koma chifukwa chiyani? Wolemba wanzeru zamalingaliro Travis Bradbury atchula zifukwa zinayi.
Anthu anzeru amadzidalira mopambanitsa
Tidazolowera kupereka mayankho olondola mwachangu ndipo nthawi zina sitizindikira kuti tikuyankha mosaganizira.
“Choopsa kwambiri pa zolakwa za anthu okhwima m’maganizo n’chakuti sakayikira n’komwe kuti akhoza kulakwitsa. Wopusa cholakwacho, ndizovuta kwambiri kuti munthu avomereze kuti adapanga, akutero Travis Bradbury. - Komabe, anthu ndi mlingo uliwonse wa luntha amadwala «akhungu mawanga» awo zomveka zomangamanga. Izi zikutanthauza kuti timazindikira mosavuta zolakwa za ena, koma osawona zathu.
Anthu anzeru zimawavuta kukhala olimbikira
Chilichonse chikakhala chosavuta kwa inu, zovuta zimawonedwa ngati zoyipa. Monga chizindikiro kuti simungakwanitse ntchitoyi. Munthu wanzeru akazindikira kuti ali ndi ntchito yambiri yoti agwire, nthawi zambiri amaona kuti watayika.
Chifukwa cha zimenezi, amasankha kuchita zinthu zina pofuna kutsimikizira kuti ndi wofunika. Pamene kuli kwakuti khama ndi kugwira ntchito, mwinamwake patapita nthaŵi, zikanam’bweretsera chipambano m’mbali zimene sanaperekedwe poyamba.
Anthu anzeru amakonda kuchita zambiri nthawi imodzi.
Amaganiza mwachangu motero amakhala oleza mtima, amakonda kuchita zinthu zingapo nthawi imodzi, amadziona ngati aluso kwambiri. Komabe, sizili choncho. Sikuti kuchita zinthu zambiri kumatipangitsa kukhala osapindulitsa, anthu omwe nthawi zonse "amabalalika" amataya iwo omwe amakonda kudzipereka kwathunthu ku ntchito imodzi munthawi inayake.
Anthu anzeru samayankha bwino.
Anthu anzeru sakhulupirira maganizo a ena. Ndizovuta kwa iwo kukhulupirira kuti pali akatswiri omwe angawawuze mokwanira. Sikuti izi sizimangopangitsa kuti ntchito zitheke, komanso zimatha kuyambitsa maubwenzi oopsa pantchito komanso pamoyo wanu. Chifukwa chake, ayenera kukulitsa luntha lamalingaliro.
Yankho lolondola ndi 5 cent.