Ambiri aife tikufuna "chilichonse nthawi imodzi." Poyambira chakudya, yambani ndi keke yomwe mumakonda. Chitani zomwe mumakonda poyamba ndikusiya zosasangalatsazo kuti mudzachite pambuyo pake. Zikuwoneka kuti ndi chikhumbo chachibadwa chaumunthu. Komabe njira yoteroyo ingativulaze, akutero katswiri wa zamaganizo Scott Peck.
Tsiku lina, kasitomala anabwera kudzaonana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Scott Peck. Gawoli linaperekedwa kwa kuzengereza. Atafunsa mafunso angapo omveka bwino kuti apeze gwero la vutolo, Peck adafunsa mwadzidzidzi ngati mayiyo amakonda makeke. Adayankha motsimikiza. Kenako Peck anafunsa momwe amadyera nthawi zambiri.
Iye anayankha kuti amadya zokoma kwambiri poyamba: pamwamba wosanjikiza zonona. Funso la akatswiri amisala ndi mayankho a kasitomalayo zidawonetsa bwino momwe amaonera ntchito. Zinapezeka kuti poyamba nthawi zonse ankagwira ntchito zomwe amakonda ndipo pokhapokha sakanatha kukakamiza kuchita ntchito yotopetsa komanso yotopetsa.
Katswiri wa zamaganizo adamuuza kuti asinthe njira yake: kumayambiriro kwa tsiku lililonse logwira ntchito, amathera ola loyamba pa ntchito zosakondedwa, chifukwa ola lachizunzo, ndiyeno maola 7-8 osangalatsa, ndi bwino kuposa ola lachisangalalo ndi 7- Maola 8 akuvutika. Pambuyo poyesa njira yochedwetsa yokhutiritsa mchitidwe, pomalizira pake anatha kuchotsa kuzengereza.
Kupatula apo, kudikirira mphotho kumangosangalatsa pakokha - ndiye bwanji osakulitsa?
Mfundo yake ndi yotani? Zimakhudza "kukonzekera" ululu ndi chisangalalo: choyamba kumeza mapiritsi owawa kuti otsekemera awoneke ngati okoma. Zachidziwikire, simuyenera kuyembekeza kuti fanizo la chitumbuwachi likusinthani nthawi yomweyo. Koma kumvetsetsa momwe zinthu zilili, ndizosavuta. Ndipo yesani kuyamba ndi zinthu zovuta ndi zosakondedwa kuti mukhale osangalala kwambiri ndi zotsatirazi. Kupatula apo, kudikirira mphotho kumangosangalatsa pakokha - ndiye bwanji osakulitsa?
Mwinamwake, ambiri amavomereza kuti izi ndizomveka, koma sizingatheke kusintha chirichonse. Peck akufotokozeranso izi: "Sindingathe kutsimikizira izi kuchokera kumalingaliro asayansi panobe, ndilibe data yoyesera, komabe maphunziro amatenga gawo lalikulu."
Kwa unyinji wa ana, makolo amakhala ngati chitsogozo cha mmene angakhalire, kutanthauza kuti ngati kholo lifuna kupeŵa ntchito zosakondweretsa ndi kupita kwa okondedwa awo, mwanayo amatsatira mkhalidwe umenewu. Ngati moyo wanu uli wosokonekera, mwachiwonekere makolo anu anali kukhala kapena kukhala m’njira yofananayo. Inde, simungawayike mlandu onse okha: ena aife timasankha njira yathu ndikuchita zonse monyoza amayi ndi abambo. Koma kupatula izi zimangotsimikizira lamulo.
Kuphatikiza apo, zonse zimadalira momwe zinthu zilili. Choncho, anthu ambiri amakonda kugwira ntchito molimbika ndi kupeza maphunziro apamwamba, ngakhale kuti sakufunadi kuphunzira, kuti apeze zambiri, ndipo, makamaka, amakhala ndi moyo wabwino. Komabe, anthu ochepa amasankha kupitiriza maphunziro awo - mwachitsanzo, kupeza digiri. Ambiri amapirira kusapeza bwino kwa thupi komanso ngakhale kupweteka panthawi yophunzitsidwa, koma si onse omwe ali okonzeka kupirira kusokonezeka kwa maganizo komwe kuli kosapeweka pamene akugwira ntchito ndi psychotherapist.
Ambiri amavomereza kuti azipita kuntchito tsiku lililonse chifukwa chakuti amafunikira kupeza zofunika pamoyo, koma ndi ochepa amene amayesetsa kuchita zambiri, kuchita zambiri, kupeza zina zawozawo. Ambiri amayesetsa kuti amudziwe bwino munthu ndikupeza munthu woti agonane naye mwa munthu, koma kuti azichita nawo ubale ... ayi, ndizovuta kwambiri.
Koma, ngati tilingalira kuti njira yoteroyo njachibadwa ndi yachibadwa kwa munthu, nchifukwa ninji ena amazengereza kupeza zosangalatsa, pamene ena amafuna chirichonse nthaŵi imodzi? Mwina omalizawo sakumvetsa kuti izi zingabweretse zotsatira zotani? Kapena amayesa kusiya mphotho, koma akusowa chipiriro kuti amalize zomwe adayambitsa? Kapena amangoyang’ana ena n’kuyamba kuchita zinthu “monga wina aliyense”? Kapena zimangochitika mwachizoloŵezi?
Mwinamwake, mayankho a munthu aliyense adzakhala osiyana. Zikuwoneka kwa ambiri kuti masewerawa sali oyenera kandulo: muyenera kuyesetsa kwambiri kuti musinthe chinachake mwa inu nokha - koma chiyani? Yankho lake ndi losavuta: kusangalala ndi moyo nthawi yaitali. Kusangalala tsiku lililonse.