Pamene ndinayamba kugwira ntchito ya ufulu wa moyo chaka chapitacho ndikuyesa kuyang'ana maloto anga, sindikanaganiza kuti ndidzakhala komwe ndili lero. Komabe, mutayang’ana moyo wanga zaka zitatu zapitazo, mukanawona munthu wina. Ndinali wokonda kwambiri ntchito, woyendetsa ndege wapamwamba yemwe ananyamuka mofulumira kuchoka pa manijala a ofesi kupita ku mutu wa ogwira ntchito ndi bizinesi yopambana yomwe ikukula mofulumira.
Ndinkakhala ndi malotowo, ndikumapeza ndalama zambiri kuposa zokwanira kuti nditsimikizire kuti ndingathe kugula chilichonse, ndipo potsiriza ndinapambana!
Koma nkhani ya lero ndi yosiyana kotheratu. Ndine woyeretsa. Ndimagwira ganyu masiku asanu ndi awiri pamlungu, kuyeretsa anthu ena. Ndimagwira ntchito ndi malipiro ochepa, ndipo tsiku lililonse, mwakuthupi.
Ndinaganiza kuti ndine ndani
Ndinkaganiza kuti sindingathe kupeza ntchito yabwino, malo abwino m’moyo, komanso mwayi wosonyeza dziko kuti ndakwanitsa kuchita zimenezi. Ndinapeza ndalama zambiri, ndinayendayenda padziko lonse ndikugula zonse zomwe ndinkafuna.
Ndinkaganiza kuti ngati ndingathe kukwaniritsa izi, ndikutsimikizira kwa aliyense, chifukwa ndimagwira ntchito ku London maola 50 pa sabata, ndidzalandira ulemu umene ndimayenera nthawi zonse. Anafotokoza bwino ntchito yake. Popanda ntchito, udindo ndi ndalama, sindikanakhala kanthu, ndipo ndani akufuna kukhala ndi moyo wotero?
Kotero nchiyani chinachitika?
Ndathana nazo. Tsiku lina ndinangoganiza kuti sizinali za ine. Zinali zamphamvu kwambiri, inali ntchito yolemetsa, yondipha kuchokera mkati. Ndinadziwa kuti sindinkafunanso kugwirira ntchito maloto a munthu wina. Ndinali wotopa ndi ntchito zolimba, ndinali pafupi kukhala wosakhazikika m’maganizo ndi kumva chisoni kotheratu.
Chofunikira chinali chakuti ndinali wokondwa, ndipo cholinga changa chinali chozama kwambiri kuposa kukhala pa desiki langa, mutu m'manja mwanga, ndikudabwa kuti gehena ndinali kuchita chiyani komanso chifukwa chiyani.
Ulendo wayamba
Nditangouyamba ulendowu ndinadziwa kuti siisiya chifukwa sindingakhutire. Chotero ndinayamba kufunafuna chimene chinandisangalatsadi, chimene ndimakonda kuchita, ndi mmene ndingachigwiritsire ntchito potumikira dziko.
Ndinkafuna kuchita nawo, kusintha, ndi kulimbikitsa ena kuti achite zomwezo. Zinali ngati kuti munali kuwala mu ubongo wanga. Ndinazindikira kuti moyo ndi zimene ndinkachita ndipo sindinkafunika kuchita zimene aliyense ankachita. Nditha kuyesa china chatsopano, kutuluka ndikukhala moyo wodabwitsa.
Nkhani yake ndi yakuti, ndinalibe ndalama. Nditasiya ntchito ndinalowa m’ngongole zambiri. Makhadi anga a ngongole anatsekeredwa, ndipo ndalama zimene ndinali nazo ndinayenera kuzigwiritsira ntchito kulipirira mabilu, kulipira lendi, ndi kulipirira ngongolezo.
Ndinkachita mantha kwambiri komanso ndinkada nkhawa chifukwa ndinkafuna kutsatira maloto anga ndi kufunafuna zinthu zofunika, koma ndinkafunika kukhalabe ndi moyo. Sindinabwerere, kotero ndinayenera kuvomereza kugonjetsedwa. Ndinayenera kupeza ntchito.
Ndicho chifukwa chake ndinakhala woyeretsa.
Sindingakunamizeni - sizinali zophweka. Mpaka nthawi imeneyo, ndinali mbalame yowuluka kwambiri. Ndinkanyadira kukhala wotchuka komanso wochita bwino komanso ndinkakonda kukhala ndi ndalama zomwe ndimafuna. Kenako ndinawamvera chisoni anthuwa ndipo sindinkaganiza kuti ndingakhale mmodzi wa iwo.
Ndinakhala chimene sindinkafuna kukhala. Ndinachita manyazi kuvomera kwa anthu, koma nthawi yomweyo ndinadziwa kuti ndiyenera kutero. Zachuma, zidachotsa kupsinjika. Zinandipatsanso ufulu wochita zomwe ndimakonda ndipo, koposa zonse, zidandilola kuzindikiranso maloto anga ndikugwira nawo ntchito.
Ntchito yanu sayenera kukufotokozerani.
Zinanditengera nthawi yaitali kuti ndizindikire kuti ntchito yanga siyenera kulongosola za ine. Chokhacho chinali choti ndithe kulipira ngongole zanga, chomwe chinali chifukwa chokhacho. Mfundo yoti anthu onse ankandiona kuti ndine munthu woyeretsa sinali kanthu. Amatha kuganiza zomwe akufuna.
Ndinali ndekha amene ndinkadziwa choonadi. Sindinafunikirenso kudzilungamitsa ndekha kwa aliyense. Ndiwomasula kwambiri.
Inde, palinso mbali zakuda. Ndili ndi masiku omwe ndimakwiya kwambiri moti ndimakhumudwa kuti ndiyenera kugwira ntchito imeneyi. Ndimatsika pang'ono ndi kutsika, koma nthawi zonse kukayikira kumeneku kukafika m'mutu mwanga, nthawi yomweyo ndimasintha kukhala chinthu chabwino.
Ndiye mungatani kuti muthane ndi mavutowa pamene mukuchita zinthu zimene si maloto anu?
Zindikirani kuti kumagwira ntchito ndi cholinga
Dzikumbutseni chifukwa chake muli pano, chifukwa chake mukuchitira ntchitoyi, ndi zomwe mukupeza kuchokera ku ntchitoyi. Kumbukirani kuti pali chifukwa cha izi, ndipo chifukwa chake ndikulipira ngongole, kulipira lendi, kapena kugula zakudya, ndizo zonse.
Sikuti ndinu wosamalira zinyalala kapena wotaya zinyalala kapena zomwe mumasankha kuchita pokwaniritsa maloto anu. Ndinu wokonzekera, munthu wopambana, ndipo ndinu olimba mtima kuti muchite zomwe zikuyenera kuchitika kuti maloto anu atheke.
Khalani othokoza
Zowona, ichi ndiye chinthu chofunikira kwambiri chomwe mungachite. Ndikakhala pansi, ndimakumbukira kuti ndili ndi mwayi ndipo ndikusangalala kuti nditha kugwira ntchito, kulipidwa, ndikukwaniritsa maloto anga.
Ndikadakhala ndi ntchito zisanu ndi zinayi mpaka zisanu, mwina sindikadakhala komwe ndili lero chifukwa ndikanatopa kwambiri. Ndikadakhala womasuka kwambiri ndi ndalama ndi ntchitoyo komanso kumasuka kwa zonsezi, ndiye ndikadakhalabe pamenepo.
Nthawi zina ndi bwino kugwira ntchito yotere chifukwa pali chinachake chimene mukufunadi kuchichotsa. Izi zidzakulimbikitsani kwambiri. Choncho nthawi zonse muziyamikira mwayi umenewu.
Khalani okondwa
Nthawi zonse ndikapita kuntchito, ndimaona anthu onse muofesi akuyang'ana pansi ndipo ali ndi nkhawa. Ndimakumbukira mmene zinalili kukhala pa desiki tsiku lonse ndikugwira ntchito imene sinandichitire zambiri.
Ndikufalitsa kuwala mozungulira ine chifukwa ndine mwayi kwambiri kuti ndatuluka mu mpikisano wa makoswe. Ngati ndingathe kupangitsa anthu ena kuona kuti kuyeretsa si momwe ine ndilili, ndiye kuti mwina ndingathe kuwalimbikitsa kuchita chimodzimodzi.
Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zikulimbikitsani ndikuwongolera njira yopita ku maloto ndi zolinga zanu m'moyo. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti musalole zomwe mumachita kuti zikhudze zomwe muli. Anthu ena adzakuweruzani ndi zomwe mukuchita, koma anthuwa sadziwa zomwe mukudziwa.
Nthawi zonse muzimva kuti ndinu wodalitsika komanso wolemekezeka kuti mutha kutsatira mtima wanu ndikukhala olimba mtima kuti muyende njira yomwe imakusangalatsani.
Ngati muli ngati ine, muli ndi mwayi - ndipo ngati mukufuna kutsatira maloto anu, yambani lero nthawi isanathe!