10 Zolemba Zaubwenzi Zomwe Simuyenera Kuzilemba pa Social Media

Anthu ena akamakuonani, moyo umakhala wofunika kwambiri. Ndikufuna kuwonjezera zambiri ndikugawana ndi owonerera othokoza. Pokhapokha wowonera, atakhala mumdima wa holoyo, sakuwoneka kwa ife ndipo nthawi zina timayiwala za iye. Pamene tiyiwala za komwe malire ali pakati pa apamtima, chimwemwe chathu komanso zomwe mlendo aliyense amene ali ndi laputopu kapena foni yamakono amaphunzira za ife ndi wokondedwa wathu.

1. Zolemba zokhudzana ndi okondedwa

Tonsefe timadziwa banja lotere: monga mbalame ziwiri zomwe zadzipangira chisa ndikukokera mmenemo kapena tsamba la udzu kapena chingwe, kotero iwo amakongoletsa mwachikondi masamba awo ndi mitima ndi ndakatulo. Awa ndi omwe akuyenera kutumiza chithunzi pa Facebook (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) kumayambiriro kwa tsiku ndi mawu akuti "Ndimakukondani. Ndikudikirira". Anzanu onse panyengo yam'mawa alandila nkhani zanu, pitani patsamba lanu ndikukhudzidwa. Mwina ena adzakwezabe maso awo kumwamba.

Katswiri wa zamaganizo Marcia Berger akunena kuti maanja omwe amafotokoza nthawi zonse za moyo wawo, poyang'anira uphungu wake, alibe maubwenzi abwino kwambiri, koma nthawi zambiri amapitiriza kudzitsimikizira okha ndi ena kuti akutsutsana.

2. Zithunzi zosindikizidwa popanda chilolezo

Mwachitsanzo, chithunzi dzulo phwando kumene bwenzi lanu amapanga «openga» maso. Tsatirani malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo Seth Meyers, amene analemba buku lakuti How to Overcome Relationship Rehearsal Syndrome and Find Love. Nthawi yomweyo funsani mnzanuyo kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi momwe amamvera poyika zithunzi zake patsamba lanu.

Mwinamwake mwamunayo watha kale kupanga chithunzi chokhwima pa tsamba lake - kuthamanga, kukwera maulendo, palibe chinanso. Ndiyeno mumamuika ali ndi mphaka m'manja mwanu ... Kapena chithunzi chake cha "mfumu ya vinyo ndi vodka ufumu" chimatulukira mosayenera pofunsira ntchito.

3. Nthabwala za zomwe adachita pazachuma komanso zolephera zake

Msuzi wake woyamba wamasamba kapena maso amantha ataona nyama ya nkhuku. Kwa anzanu komanso kwa inu, izi ndi zokumbukira zosaiŵalika. Koma musaiwale kuti si anzanu okha omwe amakonda malo ochezera a pa Intaneti.

Ngati simukuyika malire owonera, simudziwa kuti ndi angati ogwiritsa ntchito omwe angawerenge positi, atero Aaron Anderson, wothandizira mabanja pachipatala ku Denver. Zithunzi zokhala ndi karoti m'manja mwake ndi mawu akuti "Pulojekitiyi yatumizidwa kuti iwunikenso" kapena kudzikuza kwanu "M'nyumba mwathu, akazi samatsuka mbale" amapezeka kwa anzake ndi ogwira nawo ntchito, komanso kuti akwaniritse alendo.

4. Malipoti apompopompo kuchokera pamalopo

Analakwitsa dzulo. M’mawa munasiya uthenga pakhoma lake louza aliyense kumene anagona. Muli ndi nzeru, luso lochepetsera, ndipo mwapeza mfundo zomveka bwino.

Brenda Della Casa, katswiri wa maubwenzi, akukumbutsani zinthu ziwiri: choyamba, maganizo anu akuthamanga kwambiri pakalipano, ndipo mu chikhalidwe ichi ndi bwino kuti musasiye mauthenga olembedwa mopupuluma. Chachiwiri, musaiwale kuti mukulankhula pagulu pompano. Zikukhala bwino, ingodikirani.

5. Zolemba za umunthu wa bwenzi

Komanso zolemba za zithunzi kuchokera ku sitolo komwe mudamugulira zovala zogona zatsopano ndi zovala zamkati za silika kuchipinda chogona.

6. Ndemanga pamakalata ake ndi oyamba

Inde, izi ndi zoona - anthu ambiri akupitiriza kulankhulana pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi akale, chifukwa amakhalabe mabwenzi nawo. Tsiku lililonse amaphunzira nkhani za moyo wawo ndipo nthawi zina amalemberana makalata. Simuyenera kuzikonda. Koma ndi bwino kukambirana nkhani zoterezi pamasom’pamaso, anatero katswiri wa zaubwenzi Neely Steinberg. Ngati mungawoneke ndikusiya ndemanga yanu yachabechabe, sizabwino kwa inu, ngati zamwano zilizonse zomwe sizingapeze potuluka.

7. Tsatanetsatane wa mikangano ndi mikangano

Res ndi za mikangano, pambuyo pake mumasintha nthawi yomweyo kukhala "mwadzidzidzi wosakwatiwa" kapena kumuchotsa kwa abwenzi. Katswiri wa zabanja a Christine Wilke amalangiza kusunga zinthu zotere kuseri kwa zitseko zotsekedwa zogona komanso kusathamangira kuzipanga zinthu wamba. "Mukatulutsa mphaka m'chikwama, simungathe kuyibwezeretsa."

8. Zambiri Zambiri

Ndemanga zogonana ndi zabwino kwa mauthenga achinsinsi. Wokondedwa wanu adzasangalatsidwa powerenga pakhoma lake: "Ndikupsa mtima, bwerani posachedwa." Ndipo omwe ali pansi pake kapena mphunzitsi wa mwana wanu adzadabwa ...

9. Malangizo osawoneka bwino omwe aliyense amamvetsetsa

Mumawerenga nkhani yosangalatsa pa intaneti - nenani, pafupifupi mikhalidwe khumi ya apongozi oyipa - ndikusindikiza ulalo kapena kutumiza kwa abwenzi ndi ndemanga yakuti "Izi zimandikumbutsa munthu wina ..." Ngakhale mutatero kale. Kuletsa mwanzeru kupeza tsamba la apongozi anu, zambiri zonse zidzapeza njira zogawa…

10. Chikumbutso kugula mkaka

Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi chida chachikulu chosonkhanitsa anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi zinthu zomwezo, kugawana nthawi yomweyo nkhani zofunika, kapena kupeza ndalama zothandizira. Ndipo chikumbutso cha kugula mkaka, ndi bwino kuyitana. Dzisiyireni malo anu enieni kuti mulankhule.