Zizindikiro 15 Kuti Wokondedwa Wanu Ndi Psychopath

M'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, ma psychopaths amatchedwa anthu okhala ndi kuphulika kapena kungoti eccentric. Koma kunena mosapita m'mbali, psychopathy ndi vuto la umunthu. Ndipo powerengera, ma psychopaths ambiri ndi amuna.

Atha kukhala okongola kwambiri, osangalatsa komanso ochezeka pamtunda, koma maubwenzi okhalitsa nawo amakhala oopsa kwambiri kwa anzawo.

Kodi tingamvetse bwanji kuti tikukumana ndi psychopath, osati munthu yemwe ali ndi khalidwe lovuta? Zoonadi, ndi katswiri yekha amene angadziwire matenda, koma apa pali zizindikiro zoopsa zomwe ziyenera kusamala.

1. Amakunyozerani.

A psychopath mwachindunji kapena mosadziwika bwino amagogomezera ukulu wake kuposa mnzake yemwe akuti amalephera kufika pamlingo wake: "Ndiwe opusa komanso osaphunzira", "Ndiwe wokhudzidwa kwambiri", "Ndiwe wonenepa komanso wodziwika bwino."

Pafupi ndi umunthu wa psychopathic, mnzakeyo amamva ngati "wamng'ono paudindo", wopanda pake komanso wopanda pake, yemwe ntchito yake ndi kusangalatsa ndi kusangalatsa fano lake.

2. Zolengeza zake za chikondi zimasinthidwa msanga m'malo ndi mphwayi.

Akhoza kukuyang'anirani mokongola, ndipo nthawi yanu yaukwati idzakhala yachikondi ... Ubale ndi psychopath uli ngati wodzigudubuza: amakonda kapena amadana, mikangano imasinthana ndi kuyanjanitsa kwamphepo. Kupanda ulemu kumasanduka chipongwe.

Kwa wozunzidwayo, izi zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni komanso zodzaza ndi kukhumudwa, neurosis, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena kuledzera. Ndipo mulimonse - pambuyo zoopsa syndrome.

3. Sadziwa kuvomereza kulakwa kwake

Iye alibe udindo pa zomwe zikuchitika ndi zochita zake - ena ali ndi mlandu nthawi zonse. Ngakhale kulakwa kwake kuli koonekeratu, amapotoza mochenjera ndikuwonetsa zomwe zidachitika ngati kulakwitsa kochitika kapena nthabwala. Kapena amatsimikizira kuti sanamvetsetsedwe. Kapena kuti mnzanuyo amangomvera chisoni kwambiri. Kunena zowona, amachita chilichonse kuti achepetse udindo wake.

4. Amagwiritsa ntchito chinyengo kuti akugonjetseni.

Kwa psychopath, chibwenzi ndi masewera kapena masewera chabe: amanyengerera ndi machenjerero achinyengo omwe sali ofunda kapena owona mtima. Kukoma mtima, chisamaliro, chisamaliro, mphatso, kuyenda ndi njira chabe kuti apeze zomwe akufuna. Amayembekezera kuti pambuyo pake, nthawi ya maswiti-maluwa ikatha, mnzakeyo adzalipira zonsezi ndi kumvera.

5. Wokondedwa mmodzi samukwanira.

The psychopath sadziwa momwe angapangire ubale wapamtima, wowona mtima, amatopa mwachangu ndikuyamba kufunafuna zatsopano. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti nthawi yomweyo amasiya wokhumudwitsayo - anthu otere amadziwa kuphatikiza mabuku angapo nthawi imodzi.

6. Amachita mwaukali akamadzudzulidwa.

Kunja, amapereka chithunzi cha munthu wopanda pake, wankhanza komanso wopanda mzimu yemwe sasamala za zomwe ena akumana nazo. Komatu iye amachita mwaukali ndi mwaukali chotani nanga pamene akudzudzulidwa, kufunsidwa kapena kunyalanyazidwa!

Chifukwa chake sichili chakuti iye sadzidalira kapena amafunikira chivomerezo cha ena. Ayi, mfundo yaikulu ndi yakuti amakhulupirira kuti iye ndi wapamwamba komanso wamphamvu kuposa ena. Chifukwa chake, sangapirire ngati wina anena zofooka zake kapena "molakwika" akulankhula naye.

7. Ndikofunika kuti adzimve ngati wopambana pa chilichonse.

M’malingaliro ake, dziko lagawanika kukhala opambana ndi olephera. Ndipo n’kofunika kwambiri kuti iye akhale woyamba pa chilichonse, ngakhale pa zinthu zazing’ono. Mkhalidwe umenewu ndi wosagwirizana ndi maunansi abwino amene amaphatikizapo mgwirizano, kulolerana, ndi kukhoza kulapa.

8. Pafupi ndi iye mumataya luso la kulingalira.

Ndi ubale wautali wokwanira, mnzake wa psychopath amayamba kukhala ndi vuto lachidziwitso: amatha kukhala ndi vuto la kukumbukira, kukhazikika, chidwi, kulimbikitsa, komanso kudzipanga okha. Amakhala wotanganidwa, sagwira ntchito bwino, ndipo nkhawa imamuchulukira.

9. Akufuna kulamulira

The psychopath amakonda kuchititsa manyazi, kulamulira ndi kuchotsera ena ulemu - umu ndi momwe amasonyezera mphamvu zake pa inu. Koma sangapirire ngati ayesa kumuwonetsa khalidwe lake, ndipo amakwiya. Komanso, amayesa kubwezera "wolakwira".

10. Nthawi zambiri amabisa chowonadi

Ichi ndi chisonyezero china cha zizoloŵezi zake zonyenga. Akhoza kukhala chete pa chinthu china kapena kunama pamaso pake. Komanso, bodza likhoza kukhudza zing'onozing'ono ndi zinthu zofunika kwambiri - mwana kumbali, bwenzi lokhalitsa kapena m'banja.

11. Iye alibe makhalidwe

Psychopath imakana miyambo ya chikhalidwe ndi malamulo amakhalidwe ndipo imadutsa mosavuta. Kubera kwamtundu uliwonse, kuba, kuzunza, kuwopseza, kubwezera chilango kwa iwo omwe aima m'njira yake - njira zake zonse ndi zabwino kwa iye.

12. Sangathe kukhala ndi malingaliro akuya.

Ndi bwenzi lapamtima, iye akhoza kukopa ndi kusonyeza chifundo, chimene iye sangakhoze kwenikweni. Pochita ndi mlendo, psychopath ikhoza kukhala yabwino kwambiri kuposa momwe amachitira ndi mnzanu - makamaka ngati akufunikira kukondweretsa munthu wamphamvu kapena kuyambitsa kaduka.

13. Akudzinenera kuti ndi wozunzidwa

Uwu ndi mtundu wamba wonyenga pamene ma psychopaths amalankhulana ndi munthu wamba yemwe ali wachifundo. Amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zathu zachifundo ndi chifundo, kudziwonetsera okha ngati ozunzidwa - ndi kulandira chikhululukiro pa zolakwa zilizonse. Izi zimawathandiza kupewa kulakwa ndi udindo ndikukwaniritsa zolinga zawo.

14. Kukoma mtima ndi ulemu n’zachilendo kwa iye

Iwo alibe lingaliro lotukuka lachifundo, chotero mnzawoyo amakakamizika nthaŵi iriyonse kumfotokozera mwatsopano mmene angachitire ndi anthu ena mwaumunthu ndi zimene iye amayembekezera ponena za iye mwini: “Musalankhule nane chotero! Chonde siyani kunama! N’chifukwa chiyani ukundichitira nkhanza chonchi?”

15. Mumaona ngati simudzakhala bwino mokwanira.

The psychopath amakonda kuimba mlandu, kudzudzula, ndipo potero amanyoza mnzake: "Unavala ngati woyenda! Simunayeretse m'nyumba bwino! Ndiwe wosayankhula! Osanena mawu kwa inu! Ganizirani momwe angavutike! Zokwiyitsa bwanji!” Amatanthauzira zopempha zilizonse kapena zofuna za mnzake ngati kuyesa kumuwongolera ndikuwona mwaudani.

Za wolemba: Rhonda Freeman ndi katswiri wazachipatala wa neuropsychologist.