Kulephera kudziwa ndendende tanthauzo la chisangalalo, titha kudziwa nthawi yabwino. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wina wachingerezi wofotokozera momwe timakhalira achimwemwe kutengera msinkhu, titha kukhala osangalala kwambiri pazaka 33. Chiwerengero chofunikira pakukula kwathu, 33 angakhale zaka zachimwemwe? Kusintha.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku yemwe adachitika ku England ndi tsamba la Friends Reunited pakati pa anthu opitilira 40, tidatha kudziwa zaka zomwe, makamaka, anthu amati akhala osangalala kwambiri.

Zotsatira zake ndizokhutiritsa: 70% mwa iwo adatsimikiza kuti sanafike pachisangalalo chenicheni mpaka zaka 33. Mwa 30% otsala, 16% amatchula ubwana kapena unyamata ngati nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri, komanso moyo wa ophunzira 6%.

Chosangalatsa, m'moyo wake wachikulire, banja lake, banja lake, kapena mwanjira yochepa chabe m'moyo womwe tidasankha. Chifukwa zaka 33 ndiye chiyambi cha zisankho zenizeni: zomwe nthawi zambiri tinkakana pazaka zathu makumi awiri, chifukwa osakhwima mokwanira kapena kudzidalira. Tatha tsopano kukhala opanda mlandu, naivety, koma ndife oyenera kuwona zonse zomwe tingathe, luso lathu, maloto athu kuti akwaniritsidwe ndikupezeka. Onse odziyimira pawokha komanso odziyimira pawokha, tinatha, zaka 33, kupanga zisankho zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala osangalala.

Ngati tasankha kukhala ndi ana, akadali achichepere kwambiri, ndipo kuwawona akukula kumatisangalatsa. Makolo, osadalira pa ife chifukwa cha ukalamba wawo, tiyeni tiimirire tokha. Ngati muli nokha, mumasangalala ndi moyo wanu poyenda, kutuluka, kukhala ndi moyo wabwino komanso anzanu ambiri, othandizira chisangalalo.

Pofotokoza kuyankha uku kwakukulu kofanana ndi zaka 33, omwe adayankha adayankha:

• 53% kuti anali osangalala kwambiri pazaka izi;
• 42% kuti anali ndi chiyembekezo chamtsogolo;
• 38% kuti sanapanikizike kwambiri;
• 36% kuti anali okondwa kukhala ndi ana;
• 31% kuti anali osangalala kukhala ndi banja limodzi;
• 21% adanenanso kuti akatswiri akuchita bwino panthawiyi.

IAtafunsidwa ndi Abwenzi Anagwirizananso, Donna Dawson, katswiri wamaganizidwe, amapereka tanthauzo la izi “M'badwo Wabwino”, akuwona zaka 20 zatsopano :

"Zaka za 33 ndi nthawi yayitali yokwanira kuti igwedezeke paubwana waubwana komanso chidwi chachikulu chaunyamata, osataya mphamvu ndi chidwi chaunyamata. Pamsinkhu uwu, kusalakwa kwatha, koma kuzindikira kwathu kwenikweni kwasakanizidwa ndi chiyembekezo champhamvu cha chiyembekezo, mzimu wa "chovuta", ndikukhulupilira bwino maluso athu ndi kuthekera kwathu. Sitinayambebe kukayikira komanso kutopa komwe kumadza ndi zaka zotsatira. ”

M'badwo uwu ulinso wophiphiritsira: nambala yopatulika ya Pythagoras, ndi nthawi ya Khristu pakumwalira kwake komanso kuchuluka kwa zozizwitsa zake, kuchuluka kwa mafupa amthupi mwa munthu komanso mulingo wapamwamba kwambiri wa franc. zomangamanga.

Komabe, kafukufuku wina wasonyeza zina zazitali kwambiri zachisangalalo ndi thanzi m'moyo wamunthu. Chifukwa chake ngati muli ndi zaka zopitilira 33 ndipo simunafike ku nirvana, musachite mantha.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa Hotmail (Microsoft) imelo, zaka za 55 zimawoneka ngati zabwino. Zowonadi, uwu ndi m'badwo womwe timapuma. Ana akula, iwe uli kumapeto kwa ntchito yako, umakhala ndi nthawi yocheperapo kuntchito koma zambiri umadzisamalira tsiku lililonse. Mumayenda maulendo ambiri ndikusangalala ndi moyo! Nkhani yabwino kwa makumi asanu asanafike pantchito.

Kwa anthu omwe nawonso opitilira 55, zonse sizinathe: kafukufuku wina wasonyezanso zaka zina zagolide, zopitilira apo! Kafukufuku wowululidwa mchaka cha 2010 adalankhula kale za zaka zomwe zinthu zokhala zosangalala zikwaniritsidwa: zinali kuwerengera zaka zakubadwa… Pakati pa zaka 70 mpaka 80!

Titha kunena kuti "chododometsa chaumoyo", popeza kuyambira zaka 65, timakumana ndi zovuta zamthupi komanso zamaganizidwe, popeza thupi limanyazitsa. Komabe, ukalamba umabweretsanso nzeru pamoyo, kudziwa bwino anthu komanso momwe akumvera.

Pali motero, mwamwayi, nthawi zosiyanasiyana m'moyo kuti muchite bwino kukhala osangalala.