Zifukwa 5 Sitilankhula Za Chiwawa

Ochepa a ife sitinakumanepo ndi mphamvu yowononga ya nkhanza. Ndipo sizimangokhudza chilango chakuthupi kapena kugwiriridwa. Kuponderezedwa, kuzunzidwa, kunyalanyaza zosowa zathu paubwana ndi chinyengo zimaganiziridwa mosiyana "mitu" ya hydra iyi.

Alendo samatipweteka nthawi zonse: tikhoza kuvutika ndi zochita za anthu oyandikana nawo komanso odziwika bwino - makolo, abwenzi, abale ndi alongo, asukulu, aphunzitsi ndi ogwira nawo ntchito, mabwana ndi oyandikana nawo.

Zinthu zikafika poipa kwambiri ndipo tilibe mphamvu zokhala chete kapena kubisa zotulukapo zowopsa za nkhanza, akuluakulu a zamalamulo ndi anzawo amafunsa kuti: “Koma n’chifukwa chiyani simunalankhulepo zimenezi m’mbuyomu?” Kapena amaseka moseka kuti: “Chilichonse chikanakhala chovuta kwambiri, simukanangokhala chete kwa nthawi yaitali chonchi.” Nthawi zambiri timakhala mboni za machitidwe otere ngakhale pagulu la anthu. Ndipo sikotheka kuyankha chinthu chomveka. Timakonda kukumana ndi zomwe zidachitika kale - tokha tokha.

N’chifukwa chiyani anthu amabisa mfundo yoti zinthu zoopsa zinawachitikira? Mphunzitsi ndi mlembi Darius Cekanavičius amalankhula za zifukwa zisanu zomwe zimatipangitsa kukhala chete pazochitika zachiwawa (ndipo nthawi zina osavomereza tokha kuti takumana ndi zoopsa).

1. Kukhazikika kwachiwawa

Nthaŵi zambiri, zimene zimasonyeza kuti chiwawa chenicheni sichidziŵika kuti n’chotero. Mwachitsanzo, ngati m’chitaganya chathu kwa zaka zambiri kumenya ana kunali koyenera, ndiye kuti chilango chakuthupi kwa ambiri chidakali chinthu chodziwika bwino. Tinganene chiyani pamilandu ina, yosadziwika bwino: imatha kufotokozedwa m'njira mazana ambiri, ngati mukufunadi kupeza "chovala chokongola" chachiwawa kapena kungotseka maso anu kuti muwone.

Kunyalanyaza ndi chinthu chomwe chiyenera kulimbitsa khalidwe. Kupezerera ena kungatchedwe nthabwala yopanda vuto. Kuwongolera zidziwitso ndikufalitsa mphekesera kuli koyenera kuti: "Akungonena zoona!"

Chifukwa chake, zomwe zimachitikira anthu omwe amafotokoza kuti akuzunzidwa nthawi zambiri sizimaganiziridwa ngati zokhumudwitsa, akufotokoza Darius Cekanavičius. Ndipo milandu ya nkhanza imaperekedwa mwachiwonekere, ndipo izi zimapangitsa kuti wozunzidwayo amve moipa kwambiri.

2. Kuchepetsa udindo wa chiwawa

Mfundoyi ikugwirizana kwambiri ndi yapitayi - kupatulapo kang'ono kakang'ono. Tiyerekeze kuti munthu amene timamuuza kuti akuchitiridwa nkhanza amavomereza kuti zimenezi n’zoona. Komabe, sichichita chilichonse kuti chithandizire. Ndiko kuti, amagwirizana ndi ife, koma osati - osakwanira kuchita.

Ana nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi izi: amalankhula za kupezerera anzawo kusukulu, makolo awo amawamvera chisoni, koma samapita kukalankhulana ndi aphunzitsi ndipo samasamutsa mwanayo ku kalasi ina. Zotsatira zake, mwanayo amabwerera kumalo oopsa omwewo ndipo sakhala bwino.

3. Manyazi

Ozunzidwa nthawi zambiri amadziimba mlandu chifukwa cha zomwe zidawachitikira. Amatenga thayo la zochita za wochitira nkhanzayo ndipo amakhulupirira kuti iwo eniwo akuyenera: “Simunayenera kupempha ndalama kwa amayi anu atatopa”, “Munayenera kuvomerezana nazo zonse zimene ananena ataledzera.”

Ogwiriridwa amadziona kuti sali oyenereranso kukondedwa ndi kuchitiridwa chifundo, ndipo chikhalidwe cha anthu amene kuvulazidwa ndi kuchitiridwa nkhanza kwachipongwe kumawachirikiza mokondwera m’zimenezi. "Anthu amachita manyazi ndi zomwe akumana nazo, makamaka ngati akudziwa kuti anthu amakonda kusintha chiwawa," Cekanavichus anadandaula.

4. Mantha

Nthawi zina zimakhala zochititsa mantha kwambiri kwa omwe adachitiridwa nkhanza kuti afotokoze zomwe adakumana nazo, makamaka kwa ana. Mwanayo sakudziwa zomwe zingachitike ngati akulankhula za zomwe wakumana nazo. Kodi adzamukalipira? Kapena mwina kulangidwa? Nanga bwanji ngati munthu amene amamuchitira nkhanzayo avulaza makolo ake?

Ndipo sikophweka kwa akulu kunena kuti bwana wawo kapena mnzake amawapezerera, mphunzitsiyo akutsimikiza. Ngakhale tili ndi umboni - zolemba, umboni wa ena ozunzidwa - ndi zotheka kuti mnzako kapena bwana adzakhalabe m'malo mwake, ndiyeno mudzayenera kulipira mokwanira kwa «chidzudzulo».

Nthawi zambiri manthawa amatenga mokokomeza, koma kwa wozunzidwayo ndi zenizeni komanso zomveka.

5. Kusakhulupirika ndi kudzipatula

Ozunzidwa samalankhula za zomwe adakumana nazo chifukwa nthawi zambiri alibe munthu amene angamvetsere ndi kuwathandiza. Angathe kudalira omwe amawachitira nkhanza ndipo nthawi zambiri amadzipeza okha okha. Ndipo ngati asankhabe kuyankhula, koma amanyozedwa kapena osatengedwa mozama, ndiye kuti, atavutika kale, amamva kuti aperekedwa.

Komanso, izi zimachitika ngakhale tikafuna thandizo kuchokera kwa mabungwe azamalamulo kapena ntchito zachitukuko, zomwe mwalingaliro ziyenera kutisamalira.

Osavulala

Chiwawa chimavala masks osiyanasiyana. Ndipo munthu wa msinkhu uliwonse kapena mkazi akhoza kuchitiridwa nkhanza. Komabe, ndi kangati pamene ife, poŵerenga nkhani inanso yochititsa manyazi yogwiriridwa ndi mphunzitsi wa mnyamata wachichepere, timaikana kapena kunena kuti chimenechi n’chokumana nacho “chothandiza”? Pali anthu amene amakhulupirira kwambiri kuti mwamuna sangadandaule za nkhanza za mkazi. Kapena kuti mkazi sangavutike kugwiriridwa ngati womuchitira nkhanzayo ndi mwamuna wake…

Ndipo izi zimangowonjezera chikhumbo cha ozunzidwa kukhala chete, kubisa kuvutika kwawo.

Tikukhala m’dziko limene anthu amalolera kwambiri zachiwawa. Pali zifukwa zambiri zochitira zimenezi, koma aliyense wa ife akhoza kukhala munthu amene angamvetsere mwatcheru amene anabwera kudzathandiza. Omwe sangalungamitse wogwirirayo ("Chabwino, samakhala choncho nthawi zonse!") Ndipo khalidwe lake ("Ndangopereka mbama, osati ndi lamba ..."). Omwe sangafananize zomwe adakumana nazo ndi zina («Amangokusekani, koma adaviika mutu wanga m'mbale yachimbudzi…»).

Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti kupwetekedwa mtima sizinthu zomwe zingathe "kuyesedwa" ndi ena. Chiwawa chilichonse ndi chiwawa, monganso zoopsa zilizonse zomwe zimapweteketsa mtima, zimakumbutsa Darius Cekanavichus.

Aliyense wa ife amayenera kuchita zinthu mwachilungamo komanso mwachilungamo, mosasamala kanthu za njira imene anadutsamo.