Zamkatimu
Anyani a Bonobo amasiyanitsidwa ndi mtendere wawo. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, zizoloŵezi zawo sizingatchedwe zoyera: kugonana ndi kophweka kwa iwo monga momwe timachitira moni. Koma si mwambo kwa iwo kuchitira nsanje, kumenyana ndi kulandira chikondi mothandizidwa ndi mphamvu.
Anyani awa ndi otchuka chifukwa samatsutsana, ndipo mavuto awo onse amathetsedwa ... mothandizidwa ndi kugonana. Ndipo ngati bonobos ikanakhala ndi mawu, mwinamwake izo zikanamveka ngati izi - kupanga chikondi, osati nkhondo .. Mwinamwake anthu ali ndi chinachake choti aphunzire kuchokera kwa abale athu ang'onoang'ono?
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Kugonana kochuluka - ndewu zochepa
Kugwirira chigololo, kupezerera anzawo, ngakhalenso kuphanaāzimpanzi zili ndi zisonyezero zaukali zoterozo mādongosolo la zinthu. Palibe chonga ichi mu bonobos: pakangoyambika mkangano pakati pa anthu awiri, munthu mmodzi adzayesa kuzimitsa mothandizidwa ndi chikondi. āAnyani amagwiritsa ntchito chiwawa pofuna kugonana, pamene anyani amagwiritsira ntchito kugonana pofuna kupewa chiwawa,ā akutero katswiri wa nyamakazi Frans de Waal. Ndipo katswiri wa zamaganizo James Prescott, atatha kufufuza zambiri za maphunziro ambiri, adapanga mfundo yosangalatsa: zochepetsera zogonana ndi zoletsedwa m'gulu, mikangano yocheperapo mmenemo. Izi ndi zoona kwa madera a anthu.1.
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Feminism ndi yabwino kwa aliyense
M'dera la bonobo, palibe utsogoleri wodziwika bwino kwa mitundu ina yambiri: mphamvu imagawidwa pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Pali akazi amtundu wa alpha mu timu, omwe amadziyimira pawokha, ndipo sizichitika kwa wina aliyense kutsutsa izi.
Mabonobos alibe njira yolerera yokhwima: ana samadzudzulidwa, ngakhale atakhala ankhanza ndipo amayesa kutulutsa chidutswa mkamwa mwa munthu wamkulu. Pali mgwirizano wapadera pakati pa amayi ndi ana, ndipo udindo wa mwamuna mu utsogoleri umadalira mphamvu ya amayi ake.
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Umodzi ndi mphamvu
Kugonana mokakamizidwa ndikosowa kwambiri ku bonobos. Makamaka chifukwa chakuti akazi amatha kukana kuzunzidwa ndi amuna, kusonkhana m'magulu ogwirizana. Christopher Ryan, wolemba buku la Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality, Harper, 2010 anati: .
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Kugonana kwabwino sikufuna nthawi zonse kukhala ndi orgasm.
Kugonana kochuluka kwa bonobo kumangokhudza kugwirana, kusisita kumaliseche, ndikulowa mwachangu m'thupi la wina (kumatchedwanso Ā«bonobo handshakeĀ»). Panthawi imodzimodziyo, kwa iwo, kwa ife, chikondi ndi chofunikira kwambiri: amapsompsona, kugwirana manja (ndi miyendo!) Ndipo yang'anani m'maso pa nthawi yogonana.
Bonobos amakonda kukondwerera chochitika chilichonse chosangalatsa pogonana.
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Nsanje si chikondi
Kukonda kumatanthauza kukhala ndi? Osati za bonobos. Ngakhale amadziwa kumverera kwa kukhulupirika ndi kudzipereka, iwo safuna kulamulira moyo wogonana wa okwatirana. Pamene kugonana ndi masewera odzutsa chilakolako amatsagana ndi pafupifupi kulankhulana kulikonse, izo sizichitika kwa aliyense kuponya chipongwe mnzake amene waganiza kukopana ndi mnansi.
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Chikondi chaulere si chizindikiro cha kuchepa
Chizoloŵezi cha bonobos chogonana muzochitika zosiyanasiyana chikhoza kufotokozera kukula kwawo kwachitukuko. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, kutseguka kwawo, kuyanjana kwawo ndi kupsinjika kochepa kumasungidwa pa izi. Pamene tikukangana ndikuyang'ana zomwe timagwirizana, bonobos amakonda kupita kutchire ndikukhala ndi nthawi yabwino. Osati njira yoyipa kwambiri ngati mukuganiza za izo.
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M'moyo nthawi zonse mumakhala malo osangalatsa
Bonobos samaphonya mwayi wodzisangalatsa okha ndi ena. Akapeza chithandizo, amatha kukondwerera nthawi yomweyo chochitika ichi - ndithudi, kugonana. Pambuyo pake, atakhala mozungulira, adzasangalala ndi chakudya chamasana chokoma pamodzi. Ndipo palibe kumenyera nkhani - iyi si chimpanzi!
1 J. Prescott "Body Pleasure and Origins of Violence", The Bulletin of the Atomic Scientists, November 1975.