Kodi mungakonde kukhala munthu wotani? Mwina amene amakopa maganizo ndi chidwi cha ena? Nawa makhalidwe a anthu otere.
1. Zachilengedwe
Tonsefe timakopeka ndi anthu amene samadziyerekezera kuti ndi munthu wina, savala zophimba nkhope, samadzinamizira kapena kuchita zinthu zoipa. Kukhala munthu wotero sikophweka, makamaka ngati mudakali wamng'ono ndipo mukuyesera kudzipeza nokha, koma ndi bwino kuyesa. Apo ayi, pali chiopsezo chachikulu kumapeto kwa moyo wanu kuti mumve chisoni kuti mulibe kulimba mtima kuti mukhale owona kwa inu nokha ndi maloto anu.
2. Kusagwirizana
Sizikutanthauza kukhwima, inertness wa maganizo, bulu «umakani» ndi kulephera kuyang'ana zinthu mbali ina. Ayi, tikukamba za kuthekera kosapindika muzochitika, kupirira nkhonya za tsogolo, popanda kusiya zilakolako zanu, mapulani, mfundo ndi makhalidwe, ngakhale kugwa ndi zolephera zonse.
3. Kukhoza kudzilamulira
Mwinamwake khalidweli liyenera kuikidwa pamalo oyamba, popeza silikhudza ife tokha, komanso iwo omwe ali pafupi nafe. Kodi mumadziwa kudziletsa - malingaliro anu, zomwe mumadya ndi kumwa, zomwe mumadya komanso kuchuluka kwa zomwe mumadya, zomwe mumawululira kudziko lakunja? Mwinamwake, palibe anthu omwe "anapunthwa" nthawi zina, koma cholinga chokha ndi chofunikira, komanso kufunitsitsa kubwerera ku njira yosankhidwa mobwerezabwereza.
4. Chidwi
Chidwi chosatha m'moyo sichikulolani kuti mutope, chimapangitsa moyo kukhala wosangalatsa komanso wodzaza ndi mwayi, kumathandiza kuphunzira. Chifukwa cha khalidweli, ena a ife timakhala ndi chochita, ndipo ena timakopeka ndi munthu woteroyo.
5. Chiyembekezo chenicheni
Kutha kuwona dziko lapansi ndi anthu momwe alili, koma nthawi yomweyo osataya chiyembekezo ndikukhala okondwa za mawa, kukhulupirira kuwala kumapeto kwa ngalandeyo, ngakhale sikunawonekere ... khalidwe lodabwitsa, eni ake omwe angathe kuchitiridwa nsanje (komabe , osati «kokha», komanso kuphunzira kwa iwo).
6. Kukoma mtima
Zatsimikiziridwa mwasayansi kuti kukoma mtima kwathu kumapangitsa kuti moyo wa anthu otizungulira ukhale wabwino, komanso moyo wathu. Kukoma mtima kwenikweni kumasonyezedwa osati kokha m’kufunitsitsa kuthandiza pamene tikupemphedwa, komanso m’kutha kuona kupyola malire athu, osaweruza ena, kuwachitira chifundo ndi kuwamvera chisoni, ngakhale ngati mavuto awo ali osamvetsetseka. ife.
7. Kukhoza kukonda
Osati kwenikweni okondedwa wanu - kaya muli naye kapena ayi, mutha kukonda anzanu, banja, ziweto, mzinda wanu ndi umunthu wonse. Munthu wachikondi amakopa ena, mukufuna kukhala pafupi naye, kusamba mu «mphamvu» wake.
Kukhala ndi mtima wotseguka sikophweka - ndithudi padzakhala anthu omwe amakupwetekani (osati anthu okha, komanso zochitika). Koma luso lachikondi limatilimbikitsa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndi bwino kukhulupirira dziko.