“Zili kwa aliyense kuona pamene wakonzeka, koma ndi bwino kuti asachite mochedwa chifukwa chilengedwe sichitha nthawi zonse. Posachedwapa ndikhala ndi zaka 30 ndipo tikuyembekezerabe mwana wathu woyamba. Komabe, tinaganiza zokhala ndi mwana zaka 7 zapitazo ndipo posachedwapa tikhala ndi zaka 10 m’banja. Tiyenera kudutsa IVF, ndikuyamba yachiwiri mwezi uno. “ Alireza
"Chilakolako changa chokhala mayi chidabwera ndili wamng'ono kwambiri (zaka 15-16) ndipo nditangopeza mwamuna wanga, tinagwirizana nazo. Ndinali ndi ana anga ku 22, 24 ndi 26 (ndidzakhala 28 mwezi wamawa). Ndikufuna kukhala ndi wachinayi koma osati abambo (…). Sindimaweruza kusankha kwa amayi ena koma kukhala ndi mwana pambuyo pa zaka 45, ndimapeza mochedwa chifukwa pali chiopsezo chachikulu kwa amayi ndi mwana ndipo pamene ndidzakhala ndi msinkhu uwu, idzakhala nthawi yanga. ana kukhala makolo. Mayi anga anali agogo aakazi ali ndi zaka 45 ndipo zikanandivuta kukhala ndi mwana nthawi imodzi ndi ine… sindinadziikire malire. Chinthu chimodzi n’chakuti: Sindidzanong’oneza bondo kuti ndinali ndi ana anga aang’ono. ” Glouglou 1943
“Ndinakhala mayi kwa nthawi yoyamba ndili ndi zaka 29 ndipo kwachiwiri ndidzakhala ndi zaka 32. Kwa ine, 40 ndiye malire apamwamba. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi ana anga onse osapitirira zaka 36. Chofunika ndi kupeza munthu woyenera kuyamba naye banja. Tinatenga nthawi kuti mwana wathu woyamba ayambe, koma tonse tinali okonzeka. ” Evepey
Tengani nawo gawo mumkangano wachisanu wa Makolo!
Lachiwiri Meyi 3, ku Paris, kusindikiza kwachisanu kwa ” Makolo amakangana "Ndi mutu wakuti:" Mimba pa 20, 30 kapena 40: kodi pali zaka zabwino kukhala makolo? “. Kuti tikambirane nanu nkhaniyi, takuitanani: Catherine Bergeret-Amselek, psychoanalyst, ndi Mphunzitsi. Michel Tournaire, dokotala wa amayi oyembekezera komanso woyang'anira chipatala cha Saint-Vincent de Paul ku Paris. Astrid Veillon, mulungu wathu wolimba mtima, mwachionekere adzatiuza. Ngati mukufuna kutenga nawo mbali pamsonkhanowu, lembani podina apa: www.debats-parents.fr/inscription