Kumapeto kwa chaka cha 2021, Karine Ferri akutulutsa buku ku Éditions Robert Laffont: Moyo wokhazikika. Tinakumana naye:
Hello Karine. Ngati mayi, mayi ndi mtsogoleri, mumakwanitsa bwanji “kusasankha”?
KF : Ndimakonda kwambiri zomwe ndimachita, mwaukadaulo, komanso m'moyo wanga waumwini komanso wabanja. Ndimayamika zowoneka bwino monga mtendere ndi chilengedwe. Ndakhala pamtendere kwakanthawi tsopano ndi "a Karine awiriwa" komanso kukhala mkazi wopepuka komanso wamthunzi.
Kuti muyanjanitse bwino awiriwa, komabe, Ndine wokonzeka kwambiri: ndandanda yamapepala, mndandanda wa zochita… Ndikukonzekera zonse! Ndimalekanitsanso nthawi yanga yaukadaulo komanso yanga momwe ndingathere, kotero kuti ndikafika, ndimayang'ana kwambiri ziwonetsero, koma ndikakhala kunyumba, ndimakhala wosafikirika, makamaka ndi meseji, kuti ndisunge banja. koko.
Bukhu lanu limatchedwa “A life in balance”, munalipeza bwanji lingalirolo?
KF : Ntchitoyi idabadwa pa kumangidwa koyamba, komwe tidasunga kuyandikira kwa anthu kudzera pamasamba ochezera. Kenako ndinamva chidwi zomwe ndimagawana pamoyo wanga watsiku ndi tsiku : maphikidwe anga, zithunzi zapadera… Bukhuli linamangidwa pamayendedwe omwewo, kotero kuti lizitha kupezeka kwa amayi onse, moyandikana komanso molimba mtima: Ndimagawana nawo mndandanda wamasewera ndi zakudya zomwe ndimakonda…
Unalinso mwayi wosonkhanitsa "malangizo ndi zidule" zomwe zinandithandizira pachipatala cha amayi oyembekezera komanso zomwe ndinkafuna kupitilira. Ndi bukhuli ndikuyembekeza kuti akazi adzavala kudziyang'anira kocheperako. Timayesetsa kuyanjanitsa moyo ngati mkazi, moyo wa amayi komanso moyo wantchito, tisamavutikenso kwambiri, makamaka popeza malo ochezera a pa Intaneti mwatsoka amasewera kale. Kwa ine, nthawi zonse ndakhala ndikusankha kumvera ndekha kaye osati kutsatira zomwe zachitika posachedwa.
Mumalimbananso ndi nkhawa yomwe imabwera nthawi imodzi ndi umayi, ndi chiyani?
KF : Zoonadi, kumverera uku ndi koopsa komanso kwanzeru… Zodabwitsa, chifukwa zikutanthauza kuti ndife odala kukhala makolo, komanso zoopsa chifukwa zimachotsa kupepuka kwina m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku! Tikakhala khanda m'moyo wathu, timaganizira ambiri, nthawi zambiri timadzifunsa ngati mwana wathu ali bwino, ngati tikuchita zonse bwino… Umu ndi momwe amayi anga adandiuza m'mbuyomu: "Mudzaona, mukakhala ndi ana, mudzagona mokwanira ”, ndiye anatenga tanthauzo lake lonse, kuyambira nthawi ya mimba.
Tsiku ndi tsiku, moyo wanu ndi wotani?
KF : Masewera ndi gawo lofunikira pazochitika zanga za tsiku ndi tsiku komanso zinali choncho ndili ndi pakati. Komabe, Sindine wokhwima kwambiri pazakudya, ndimakonda kusangalala ndipo ngati ndisintha, ndimalipiritsa tsiku lotsatira mwa kukhala wololera pang’ono kapena poseŵera maseŵera.
Mumagawana nawo zamasewera m'buku lanu, munazikulitsa bwanji?
KF : The reflex yoyamba kukhala, kaya ndinu tsogolo kapena mayi wamng'ono, ndi pemphani chilolezo cha dokotala wanu kuti muzichita masewera. Ndiye, lingaliro silopita muzochita koma m'malo mokonza mawonekedwe akuthupi ndi amalingaliro. Zochita zolimbitsa thupi zonse zidapangidwa limodzi ndi mphunzitsi wanga wamasewera, Xavier Ritter, yemwe wakhala akunditsatira kwazaka zambiri. Ndimagawananso malingaliro osinkhasinkha kuti njira yaumoyo ikhale yokwanira.
Ndi malangizo (a) ati omwe ali kwa inu omwe mumakonda kwambiri pakati pa omwe adagawira?
KF : Kwa amayi omwe angozindikira kumene kuti ali ndi pakati koma akufuna kudikira mpaka miyezi ingapo itatha kuti alengeze kwa omwe ali nawo pafupi, ndimakonda nsonga iyi yomwe ili ndi m'malo vinyo ndi madzi amphesa pamisonkhano yabanja, ma aperitif ndi abwenzi kapena ma cocktails akatswiri, zidandiyendera bwino kwambiri!
Apo ayi, kamodzi mwana alipo pakati pathu, mfundo ya kuika angapo pacifiers pabedi zinali zothandiza kwambiri kwa ife pa kudzuka kwa usiku: zimakhala zosavuta kwa iye kupeza pacifier wake yekha ndi kugona kachiwiri.
Mumaphatikizanso, zikuwoneka, kufunikira kwina kwa kudzutsidwa kwa mphamvu?
KF : Inde, mwachitsanzo, nyimbo zimakhalapo m’moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku, monganso kuzindikira kukhudza, kumene kumaphatikizapo mwana kutikita minofu, pambuyo kusamba. Ndimatenga nthawi yosinthana ndi ana anga panthawiyo kuwasisita, kulankhula nawo ...
Funso limodzi lomaliza: Kodi mumakwanitsa bwanji kudzipulumutsa nthawi yopuma?
KF : Ndikufunadi mphindi za chete kotero kuti ndikhoza kupezeka, kwa banja langa komanso mwaukadaulo, pagulu. Kenako ndimachita monga momwe makolo ambiri amachitira, ndimawaganizira mozama: ana akamagona, akakhala kusukulu… Awa sikuti ndi nthawi yayitali, mphindi khumi ndi zokwanira koma kuti zizichitika nthawi zonse. Ndiye tikhoza kupeza “Malo othaŵirako” zomwe tikhala tikuziganizira, momwe timamvera komanso momwe tingathere kumasuka.
Zikomo Karine!