Zamkatimu
Pa nthawi yomweyi atakhala mayi, ali ndi zaka 27, Valérianne Defèse adaganiza zopanga bizinesi yake yokonzekera ana: Kudikirira Mwana. Njira yokwaniritsira mwaukadaulo, mukusangalala ndi mwana wanu wamkazi. Mtsikanayu akutiuza momwe, posachedwapa, amasinthasintha pakati pa mabotolo odyetserako chakudya ndi nthawi yamakasitomala… ndi chisangalalo.
Kupezeka kwa kukonzekera kwa ana
Ndisanakhazikitse kampani yanga, ndimagwira ntchito ngati woyang'anira zochitika m'gulu la atolankhani. Ntchito yanga inali ndi malo enaake m'moyo wanga. Ndinadzipereka kotheratu, sindinawerengenso maola anga… Kenako, ndinatenga mimba ndipo ndinazindikira kuti uwu sunalinso moyo umene ndinkafuna. Ndinkafuna kupitiriza kugwira ntchito, ndikukhala ndi nthawi yochitira mwana wanga wamkazi. Ndinkachita mantha kuti anali namwino wa nazale kucreche yemwe adamuwona akuyamba kuyenda. Lingaliro loyambitsa bizinesi lidayamba pang'onopang'ono. Ndinkafuna kupereka mautumiki anga, koma sindimadziwa kwenikweni "chiyani". Tsiku lina, ndikuŵerenga magazini ya makolo, ndinapeza nkhani yonena za kulinganiza ana. Idadina. Pamene ndinali mayi wamng'ono kwambiri, dziko "lodabwitsa" la umayi linandikopa kale, ndinapeza kuti ndilokoma. Kenako mlongo wanga anatenga mimba. Ndinamutsogolera kwambiri panthawi yomwe anali ndi pakati pa kusankha zipangizo zofunika pa kubadwa kwa mwana. M’masitolo, akazi enawo anatchera khutu kumvetsera malangizo anga. Kumeneko, ndinadziuza kuti: “Ndiyenera kuyamba!” “
Kudikirira Mwana: ntchito yokonzekera kubwera kwa Mwana
Pamene tikuyembekezera mwana wathu woyamba, palibe amene amatitsogolera pa kugula zinthu zothandiza. Nthawi zambiri, timapeza kuti tikugula kwambiri, kapena molakwika. Timawononga nthawi, mphamvu ndi ndalama. Kudikirira Mwana ndi mtundu wa concierge kwa makolo amtsogolo, omwe amapereka kuwathandiza pakukonzekera kwawo konse. Ndikufuna kupatsa amayi apakati uphungu weniweni wothandiza komanso wakuthupi, kuti kubwera kwa mwana wawo kusakhale gwero lachisokonezo, koma mphindi yachisangalalo ndi bata.
Malingana ndi phukusi losankhidwa, ndimalangiza makolo amtsogolo pafoni, kutsagana nawo ku sitolo, kapena kutsata "wogula payekha", mwa kuyankhula kwina ndimawagulira ndikuwapatsa katunduyo. Ndikhozanso kusamalira bungwe la kusamba kwa ana kapena ubatizo, ndi kutumiza zilengezo! Kukonzekera kwa ana kumapangidwira akazi achangu, olemetsedwa ndi ntchito zawo, omwe alibe nthawi yosamalira zonse zomwe amagula kapena kugula Mwana asanabwere. Komanso kwa amayi amtsogolo omwe akuyembekezera mapasa kapena kugona pabedi pazifukwa zachipatala, komanso omwe sangathe kupita kukagula.
Moyo wanga watsiku ndi tsiku monga mayi komanso woyang'anira bizinesi
Ndimakhala mogwirizana ndi kamvekedwe ka mwana wanga wamkazi. Ndimagwira ntchito pogona kapena mpaka usiku. Nthawi zina izi zimabweretsa zinthu zoseketsa: ine, ndikulemba maimelo ndi chip changa pa mawondo anga kapena pafoni ndikunena kuti "shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! »… Hei inde, pa miyezi 20, amafuna kusamalidwa nthawi zonse! Nthawi zina ndimamusiya ku nazale kuti apume pang'ono ndikutha kusuntha, apo ayi sindidzatulukamo. Ngati ndidasankha kudzilemba ntchito, ndikuthanso kudzikonza momwe ndimafunira. Ngati ndikufuna kutenga maola awiri ndekha, nditero. Kuti ndisade nkhawa, ndimapanga "mndandanda wochita". Ndimayesetsa kukhala wokhwimitsa zinthu komanso wadongosolo.
Ndikadakhala ndi upangiri kwa amayi achichepere omwe akufuna kuyamba, ndikanawauza kuti ayesetse kufikira ena makamaka kulowa nawo ma network amalonda. “Akulu” akhoza kutsagana nanu, sitepe ndi sitepe. Pali mtundu wina wa mgwirizano womwe ukupangidwa. Ndiyeno, bokosilo litakhazikitsidwa, nkofunika kuti muzigwira ntchito bwino pakulankhulana kwanu, mwachitsanzo popanga mgwirizano ndi makampani ena.