Kodi ndife osiyana kwambiri mu izi, kapena kusiyana kumeneku nkwakutali? Akatswiri athu, ofufuza za kugonana Alain Eril ndi Mireille Bonyerbal amakambirana malingaliro ena okhudza kugonana.
Alain Eril, psychoanalyst, sexologist:
Izi ndi zoona komanso zabodza. Ndiko kulondola, ngati tikuyang'ana pa chikhalidwe cha azungu, pali kachitidwe kaukali. Gulu la makolo akale linalera anyamata omwe mbolo imayimira mphamvu zachimuna ndi mphamvu. Chidwi chonse chinali pa iye - kuwononga thupi lonse. Nthawi zambiri mnzako akamasisita ziwalo zina za mwamuna, zimamukwiyitsa.
Koma tsopano tikuwona chisinthiko chikuchitika ndi ena a m’nthaŵi yathu.
Mwachitsanzo, pali maanja omwe amaphatikizapo kutikita minofu ya ziwalo zosiyanasiyana za thupi pamwambo wawo wapamtima, chifukwa chomwe mwamuna ali ndi mwayi wowonera chikhalidwe chake mosiyana, popanda tsankho.
Makoma a zimbudzi za anthu nthawi zambiri amakongoletsedwa ndi kutsekeka kwa mbolo, koma thupi la mkazi nthawi zambiri limakokedwa lonse.
Mosiyana ndi amuna oterowo, omwe amakhala, kunena kuti, akazi ambiri, ena, mosiyana, amasonyeza kubwereranso ku malingaliro apamwamba a amuna, ku machismo, kusonyeza mantha awo osadziwa.
Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist:
Kuyang'ana zithunzi zomwe zimakongoletsa zitseko za ma elevator ndi makoma a zimbudzi za anthu, mukhoza kuona kuti m'malo mwa mwamuna, nthawi zambiri pamakhala pafupi ndi mbolo, koma thupi la mkazi nthawi zambiri limakokedwa lonse. ! Izi mwachionekere sizinangochitika mwangozi.
Mzimayi amakonda kusisita paliponse, chifukwa thupi lake lonse limatha kusangalala - mwinamwake chifukwa chakuti mkazi amazindikira mofulumira kwambiri kuti thupi lake ndi chida chokopa.