Kodi galu wanu amafunadi kucheza nanu osati ndi munthu wina? Aliyense amakonda kuganiza kuti ndi choncho, koma kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti zinthu zimakhala zovuta kwambiri.
Kafukufuku watsimikizira kale kuti pamaso pa mwiniwake, agalu amayanjana kwambiri ndi zinthu ndikufufuza chipinda kusiyana ndi kukhalapo kwa mlendo. Ndipo, ndithudi, mwawona kuti pambuyo pa kupatukana, ziweto zimapatsa eni ake moni motalika komanso mwachidwi kuposa alendo.
Komabe, kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti momwe agalu amachitira eni ake ndi alendo akhoza kukhala okhudzidwa ndi chilengedwe.
Ofufuza aku Florida adachita zoyeserera pomwe adawona omwe agalu apakhomo angakonde kulankhulana nawo munthawi zosiyanasiyana - ndi eni ake kapena mlendo.
Gulu limodzi la agalu limayenera kuyankhulana ndi mwiniwake kapena mlendo pamalo omwe amadziwika bwino - m'chipinda m'nyumba yawo. Gulu lina linasankha pakati pa kucheza ndi mwiniwake kapena mlendo pamalo osadziwika. Agalu anali ndi ufulu wochita chilichonse chimene akufuna; ngati afika kwa munthu, ankawasisita nthawi imene akufuna.
Zotsatira zake ndi zotani? Zinapezeka kuti agalu amatha kupanga zosankha zosiyanasiyana malinga ndi momwe zinthu zilili!
Mwini ali pamwamba pa zonse
M'malo osadziwika, agalu amathera nthawi yambiri ndi mwiniwake - pafupifupi 80%. Komabe, pamalo odziwika bwino, monga momwe kafukufuku adasonyezera, amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yawo yambiri - pafupifupi 70% - akucheza ndi alendo.
Kodi muyenera kukhumudwa kuti simukhala pamalo oyamba pachiweto chanu? Mwina ayi, anatero wolemba wotsogolera kafukufuku Erica Feuerbacher, yemwe tsopano ndi wothandizira pulofesa wa khalidwe la ziweto ndi umoyo wabwino ku Virginia Tech.
"Galu akakumana ndi zovuta, m'malo osadziwika, mwiniwake ndi wofunika kwambiri kwa iye - kotero kuti chiweto chanu chikhalebe nambala wani."
Julie Hecht, Ph.D. pa City University of New York, ananena kuti kafukufukuyu “amaphatikiza chidziŵitso chochuluka ponena za mmene mikhalidwe ndi malo angakhudzire khalidwe la galu, zimene amakonda, ndi zosankha zake.”
“M’malo atsopano kapena panthawi yamavuto, agalu amakonda kufunafuna eni ake. Agalu akakhala omasuka, amatha kucheza ndi anthu osawadziwa. Anthu amene amakhala ndi agalu amatha kudzionera okha ziweto zawo n’kuona zimenezi!”
Mlendo si kwanthawizonse
Feuerbacher, mlembi wamkulu wa phunziroli, akuvomereza kuti pamalo odziwika bwino komanso pamaso pa mwiniwake, galu akhoza kumva kuti ali otetezeka komanso omasuka kuti asankhe kucheza ndi mlendo.
"Ngakhale sitinayese lingaliro ili, ndikuganiza kuti ndi mfundo yomveka," akutero Feuerbach.
Kafukufukuyu adawunikiranso momwe agalu ogona ndi agalu oweta amalumikizana ndi alendo awiri nthawi imodzi. Onsewa ankakonda mmodzi yekha mwa alendo, ngakhale akatswiri sakudziwa chifukwa cha khalidweli.
Kafukufuku wina anasonyeza kuti agalu ogona amayamba kuchitira munthu mosiyana ndi mlendo watsopano atangotha mphindi zitatu zokha za 10.
Chifukwa chake, ngati mungafune kutengera galu yemwe kale anali ndi mwiniwake wina, mulibe chodetsa nkhawa. Ngakhale kuti akumana ndi kulekanitsidwa kovutirapo ndi eni ake ndi kutayika kwa nyumba yawo, iwo amangokhalira kupanga maubale atsopano ndi anthu.
"Kupatukana ndi mwiniwake komanso kukhala m'malo obisalako ndizovuta kwambiri kwa agalu, koma palibe umboni wakuti agalu amaphonya akale awo akapeza nyumba yatsopano," akutero Feuerbach.
Musazengereze ngati mukufuna kutenga galu kuchokera kumalo ogona. Mudzakhala pafupi, ndipo iye adzakuonani inu monga mbuye wake.