Anthu onse osangalala ali ndi chinthu chimodzi chofanana: “zizoloŵezi zabwino” zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala osangalala. Ngati mukufuna kulowa nawo anthu otere, tikupangira kuti tiganizire za zizolowezi zomwe tikukamba. 1. Khalani gawo la zomwe mumakhulupirira Zitha kukhala chilichonse: kutenga nawo mbali pakudzilamulira wekha, kukhulupirira chipembedzo, mabungwe othandizira anthu, kukhudzika ndi ntchito yake, pomaliza. Mulimonsemo, zotsatira zake zimakhala zofanana. Iwo amatanganidwa ndi mfundo imene amakhulupirira moona mtima. Chilakolako ichi chimapereka chisangalalo ndi tanthauzo ku moyo. 2. Muzicheza ndi abale komanso anzanu Moyo wachimwemwe ndi moyo umene umaphatikizapo banja ndi mabwenzi. Ubale waumwini ukalimba kwambiri komanso nthawi zambiri kuyanjana kumachitika, munthuyo amakhala wosangalala. 3. Kuganiza bwino Nthawi zambiri anthu amangoyang'ana kwambiri zotsatirapo zoipa popanda kuzindikira kapena kudzipatsa mphoto chifukwa cha kupambana. N’kwachibadwa ndiponso kwachibadwa kuti munthu azingoganizira kwambiri za kuthetsa mavuto, koma kuganiza bwino n’kofunika. M’pofunika kuika maganizo pa zinthu zabwino n’kuchotsa zoipazo. Kondwerani zopambana zazing'ono ndi kupambana tsiku lililonse - mudzawona kupita patsogolo mumalingaliro anu. 4. Gwiritsani ntchito zonse zomwe mungathe Monga lamulo, munthu wamba amadabwa ndi maganizo osangalala a munthu wolumala. Ndi iko komwe, kodi mungakhale bwanji osangalala ndi mphamvu zopereŵera zakuthupi zoterozo? Yankho lagona mmene anthuwa amagwiritsira ntchito zinthu zomwe zilipo. Stevie Wonder analibe maso - adatha kugwiritsa ntchito makutu ake mu nyimbo, tsopano ali ndi mphoto za Grammy makumi awiri ndi zisanu. 5. Pangani mapeto osangalatsa ngati kuli kotheka Kufunika komaliza ndikokwera kwambiri. Kukwaniritsidwa kwa zochitika zilizonse zomwe zachitika kwa munthu zimakhudza kwambiri momwe zochitikazo zimaganiziridwa mwachisawawa. Mwachitsanzo, mukuwonera kanema wosangalatsa kapena kuwerenga buku losangalatsa. Tsopano lingalirani kuti kutha kwa chiwembucho “kwathedwa nzeru”. Ngakhale nkhaniyo ingakhale yosangalatsa mpaka kumapeto, kodi zomwe mukukumana nazo zingakhale zabwino? Kodi mungapangire mnzanu filimuyi? Anthu amakumbukira nthawi zonse mathero. Ngati mawu omaliza asiya chikoka chabwino, ndiye kuti chokumana nacho chonsecho chidzakhalabe chabwino m'chikumbukiro. Malizani pa cholemba chabwino momwe mungathere.
2022-11-11