Pambuyo pakukhala kwaokha, dziko silidzakhalanso chimodzimodzi

Kodi tikuyembekezera chiyani m'tsogolomu pambuyo pa kukhala kwaokha? Dziko silidzakhala lofanana, anthu amalemba. Koma dziko lathu lamkati silidzakhala lofanana. Psychotherapist Grigory Gorshunin amalankhula za izi.

Aliyense amene akuganiza kuti ayamba misala kukhala kwaokha akulakwitsa - kwenikweni, akubwerera m'maganizo mwake. Momwe ma dolphin tsopano akubwerera ku ngalande za ku Venice. Kungoti iye, dziko lathu lamkati, tsopano akuwoneka wamisala kwa ife, chifukwa tapewa kwa nthawi yayitali chikwi chimodzi njira zowonera mkati mwathu.

Kachilomboka kamalumikizana ngati chiwopsezo chakunja. Anthu amayika nkhawa zawo pa mliri, kachilomboka kamakhala chithunzi cha mphamvu yakuda yosadziwika. Malingaliro ambiri odabwitsa okhudza chiyambi chake amabadwa, chifukwa ndizowopsa kuganiza kuti chilengedwe chokha, ndi mawu akuti "palibe munthu", adaganiza zothetsa vuto la kuchuluka kwa anthu.

Koma kachilomboka, kuthamangitsa anthu kukhala kwaokha, mwa iwo okha, kumatipempha modabwitsa kuti tiganizire za chiwopsezo chamkati. Mwina chiwopsezo cha kusakhala moyo wake weniweni. Ndiyeno zilibe kanthu kuti ndikufa liti komanso kuchokera pati.

Kukhala kwaokha ndi pempho loti muyang'anizane ndi kupanda pake komanso kupsinjika maganizo. Kukhala kwaokha kuli ngati psychotherapy popanda psychotherapist, popanda kalozera kwa inu nokha, ndichifukwa chake zitha kukhala zosapiririka. Vuto si kusungulumwa ndi kudzipatula. Popanda chithunzi chakunja, timayamba kuona chithunzi chamkati.

Dziko silidzakhalanso chimodzimodzi - pali chiyembekezo kuti sitidzadzitaya tokha

Ndizovuta, pamene turbidity ikhazikika mu njira, kuti potsirizira pake mumve ndikuwona zomwe zikuchitika pansi. Dzikumaneni nokha. Pambuyo pa kukangana kwautali, ndipo mwinamwake kwanthaŵi yoyamba, kukumanadi ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Ndipo kuti mudziwe china chake chomwe kuli zisudzulo zambiri ku China tsopano atakhala kwaokha.

Ndizovuta chifukwa imfa, kutayika, kufooka ndi kusowa thandizo sizovomerezeka m'dziko lathu lamkati monga gawo la zochitika zachibadwa. Mu chikhalidwe chomwe chisoni choganizira ndi chinthu choipa, mphamvu ndi chinyengo cha mphamvu zopanda malire zimagulitsa bwino.

M'dziko labwino lomwe mulibe ma virus, chisoni ndi imfa, m'dziko lachitukuko chosatha ndi kupambana, palibe malo amoyo. M’dziko limene nthaŵi zina limatchedwa kufuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro, kulibe imfa chifukwa chakufa. Chirichonse chinali chozizira pamenepo, dzanzi. Kachilomboka kamatikumbutsa kuti tili ndi moyo ndipo tikhoza kutaya.

Mayiko, machitidwe azaumoyo amawulula kusowa kwawo ngati chinthu chamanyazi komanso chosavomerezeka. Chifukwa aliyense angathe ndipo ayenera kupulumutsidwa. Tikudziwa kuti izi sizowona, koma kuopa kuyang'anizana ndi choonadi ichi sikumatilola kuganiza mozama.

Dziko silidzakhalanso chimodzimodzi - pali chiyembekezo kuti sitidzadzitaya tokha. Kuchokera ku kachilombo ka imfa, komwe aliyense ali nako ndipo aliyense adzakhala ndi mathero ake adziko lapansi. Choncho, kuyandikana kwenikweni ndi chisamaliro kumakhala kofunikira, popanda zomwe sizingatheke kupuma.

Siyani Mumakonda