Psychology

Ndakhala ndikukumana ndi mavuto ambiri moyo wanga wonse. Kunena zowona, mawu akuti "vuto" amagwiritsidwa ntchito m'banja mwathu nthawi zambiri. Awa anali mavuto osiyanasiyana, nthawi zambiri akuluakulu komanso ofunika kwambiri. Kenako mkate umatha, kenaka nyale zamoto zimayaka, kenako mathalauza amang'ambika, kenako galimoto ya abambo idawonongeka ... Unali ubwana wovuta, zovuta zambiri ...

Nditakumana ndi mwamuna wanga wam'tsogolo, nthawi zambiri kukambirana kwanga ndi iye kumayamba ndi mawu akuti "Ndili ndi vuto." Ndipo kachiwiri, awa anali mavuto aakulu kwambiri. Kuperewera kwakukulu kwa ayisikilimu m'thupi, kusowa kwa vitamini D, ndikofunikira kupita kumayiko otentha, mwamuna wokondedwayo sanakumbatire kwa theka la ola, galimoto sinayambe, kugona chifukwa cha ntchito ... ndizovuta kwambiri. Patapita nthawi, mwamuna wanga anayamba kuona kuti ndinali ndi mavuto okhaokha. Ndipo zidachokera kwa mwamuna wanga pomwe ndidamva koyamba mawu akuti "Ili si vuto, iyi ndi ntchito." Ndinkakonda kwambiri mawuwa, ndinayamba kuwagwiritsa ntchito nthawi zambiri m'mawu anga. Ntchito zanga zakhala zovuta zakale zomwe zimatha kuthetsedwa mwachangu komanso mosavuta. Ndipo mavuto omwe amafunikira zochitika ndi mitsempha adatsalira. Panalinso chizolowezi chongodandaula za vuto ukafuna kupempha chinachake.

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