Sikuti aliyense amapeza kukhala kosavuta kuyankhulana ndi anthu ambiri. Kodi muli ndi msonkhano waukulu kapena chochitika chamakampani? Kapena mwina abwenzi adaitanidwa ku chikondwerero, kapena ndi nthawi yoti mubwerere kuchokera ku dacha ndikulowa mumzindawu? Izi zingayambitse nkhawa. Tidzakuuzani momwe mungakonzekerere mwambowu.
Anthu ochuluka kwambiri
Anthu. Khamu lalikulu la anthu. Mu metro, paki, m'misika. Ngati mwakhala mukugwira ntchito kunyumba kwa nthawi yayitali kapena kukhala kumudzi, kupita kutchuthi, kapena osapita kumalo komwe kuli anthu ambiri pokhapokha ngati mukufunikiradi kutero, mwina mwasiya kuyamwa ndipo tsopano mumasangalala kwambiri mukakhala nokha. m’khamu la anthu.
Katswiri wa zamaganizo a bungwe Tasha Yurikh anakumana ndi vuto loterolo pamene amayi ake ndi abambo ake omupeza anamuitana iye ndi mwamuna wake kuti akacheze kumapeto kwa mlungu ku hotelo yakumidzi. Ali kale pa reception, Tasha, yemwe anali asanatuluke pagulu kwa nthawi yayitali, adagwidwa ndi chibwibwi.
Panali anthu kulikonse: alendo ankacheza pamzere woti alowe, ogwira ntchito ku hotelo anadutsa pakati pawo, akunyamula katundu ndi kubweretsa zakumwa zoziziritsa kukhosi, ana akusewera pansi ...
Kwa anthu ena, kufunikira kwa ulendo uliwonse kumalo opezeka anthu ambiri kumayambitsa nkhawa.
Mmenemo, chithunzi ichi adamulowetsa «nkhondo kapena kuthawa» mode, monga zimachitika pangozi; psyche adayesa zomwe zikuchitika ngati chiwopsezo. N’zoona kuti palibe cholakwika ndi chizolowezi chochita chizoloŵezi choterechi kamodzi. Komabe, kwa anthu ena, kufunikira kwa ulendo uliwonse kumalo opezeka anthu ambiri tsopano kumayambitsa nkhawa, ndipo izi zikhoza kukhala ndi zotsatira zoipa pa thanzi komanso thanzi.
Zotani pankhaniyi? Tasha Yurich watha zaka ziwiri akufufuza momwe kupanikizika kungatipangire kukhala olimba. Atachira ali zii m’chipinda cha hotelo, anakumbukira chida chimodzi chimene chingathandize pamikhalidwe yoteroyo.
Kusokoneza kumapambana kupsinjika
Kwa zaka zambiri, ofufuza akhala akuyang'ana njira yochepetsera kupsinjika maganizo. Njira yotsatirayi yasonyeza kuti ndi yothandiza kwambiri: kuika maganizo pa ntchito yomwe siili yokhudzana ndi gwero la kupsinjika maganizo kwathu. Mwachitsanzo, yesani kukumbukira kutsatizana kwa manambala — imene mumaiona pa bolodi kapena pachikuto cha magazini kapena kuimva pa wailesi.
Chinyengo ndi chakuti, poyang'ana kwambiri ntchitoyo, timayiwala zomwe zatikhumudwitsa kwambiri ... Chifukwa chake, timakhala achisoni kwambiri!
Mukhoza, ndithudi, kuyesa kudzidodometsa powerenga kapena kuwonera kanema, koma asayansi amanena kuti zotsatira zazikulu zimachitika pamene tiika maganizo pa ntchitoyo. Chifukwa chake, ngati kuli kotheka, m'malo mowonera makanema pa Tik-Tok, ndikwabwino kungoyerekeza mawu ophatikizika.
Mwanjira imeneyi, simungangokonzekera bwino ulendo wanu wotsatira, komanso yesetsani kudzimvera chisoni.
Kafukufuku akuwonetsa kuti zododometsa zimagwira bwino ntchito zikaphatikizidwa ndi kusinkhasinkha. Chifukwa chake, pokumbukira nambala kapena kungolingalira mawu ophatikizika, dzifunseni:
- Kodi ndikumva bwanji pakali pano?
- Nanga n’chiyani kwenikweni chimene chinandilowetsa m’mavuto ngati amenewa? Chovuta kwambiri chinali chiyani?
- Kodi ndingachite bwanji mosiyana nthawi ina?
Mwanjira imeneyi, simungangokonzekera bwino ulendo wanu wotsatira, komanso yesetsani kudzimvera chisoni. Ndipo ili ndi luso lofunikira lomwe limatithandiza kupirira kupsinjika ndi kulephera, komanso kupirira mosavuta zovuta zomwe zimagwera pamavuto athu.