Amisiri ndi osonkhanitsa ndi mitundu iwiri yotsutsana ya umunthu. Kumayambiriro kwa chitukuko cha anthu, anthu ankatha kudzidyetsa okha mwa kusonkhanitsa, kufunafuna mizu yodyera ndi zipatso. Patapita nthawi, kuwonjezera pa osonkhanitsa, amisiri adawonekera: omwe sanayang'ane okonzeka, koma adalenga zofunikira ndi manja awo. Zaka zambiri zapita, koma mitundu ya umunthu idakalipo. Kwa osonkhanitsa, kanjedza nthawi zambiri imakhala yolunjika, zala zimakhala zowongoka kapena zopindika, zokongola. Amisiri ali ndi kanjedza koonekera bwino kutali ndi iwo eni. Amisiri ndi osonkhanitsa ali ndi chinenero chosiyana, ndipo polankhula nawo, izi ziyenera kuganiziridwa.
Mwachitsanzo, pamene Sinton anayamba kupanga mayeso kuti athandize anthu mwamsanga kuphunzira zolinga zawo, anayenera kusankha mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya chinenero cha amuna ndi akazi, chinenero cha amisiri ndi chinenero cha osonkhanitsa. Kutsatsa kumagwira ntchito bwino akamalankhula chilankhulo cha ogula. Amuna sangasankhe yankho lopangidwa m'chinenero cha osonkhanitsa, akazi sali pafupi ndi mayankho omwe amafuna kuti achitepo kanthu. Kulankhula za zomwe zili zofunika kwa iwo, amuna adzati «Phunzirani kulenga mokondwera maganizo okha», akazi — «Dzipezeni nokha, kupeza chimwemwe chochuluka m'moyo."
Mwamva? - Amuna ali okonzeka kulenga, akazi akufunafuna mwayi wopeza zomwe akufunikira.
Poganizira zomwe akufuna m'mabanja, amuna amasankha yankho - «Kuwongolera maubwenzi m'banja», akazi - «Onani zomwe ndikuchita zolakwika mu maubwenzi ndi amuna.»
Zindikirani: abambo amalemba zomwe ali okonzeka kuchita, amayi amayang'ana mkati mwawo kuti amvetsetse ndi zolakwika zawo.
"Pangani zolinga zanu, dziwani zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri" - mawuwa ndi achimuna. "Pezani zomwe ndikufuna kwenikweni" ndi mawu achikazi. Onani Input Test for Synthon.doc
Akazi ndi osonkhanitsa. Akuyang'ana zonse zokonzeka, ndipo, monga lamulo, amayang'ana mwa iwo okha. Amuna ndi amisiri, nkosavuta kuti mwamuna abwere ndi kuzichita kusiyana ndi kuyang'ana chinachake chomwe chiripo kale kwinakwake.
Mmisiri amapanga, amapanga china chatsopano ndipo, m'lingaliro limeneli, chochita kupanga, ndiye mlengi wa teknoloji ndi zamakono, pamene njira yachikazi ndiyo kugwiritsa ntchito zomwe zilipo kale, zachilengedwe↑.
Chilimwe. Amayi ndi mwana wamkazi adzapita kunkhalango mwachangu, kukatenga bowa ndi zipatso. Pa nthawiyi, mwamunayo akukhala pa kompyuta, akumaliza ntchitoyo kuti agule zonse zomwe akufuna pamsika ndi ndalama zomwe wapeza.
Ngati mkazi akukumana ndi funso la malangizo a moyo wake, iye akufuna kupeza izo mwa iye yekha: "Ndikufuna chiyani kwenikweni?" Mwamuna yemwe ali mumkhalidwe wofananawo amayang'ana kunja ndikusankha zomwe zikufunika, zomwe angachite ndi zosangalatsa zokwanira.
Ndizokwera mtengo kwambiri ngati pafupi ndi inu pali munthu wokondedwa komanso wapafupi kwa inu, bwenzi lanu la moyo, mnzanu wapamtima, yemwe mumamvetsetsana naye. Munthu yemwe ali ndi psychology ya wosonkhanitsa akuyang'ana munthu woteroyo: "Kodi iyeyo kapena ayi?", Munthu yemwe ali ndi psychology ya wamisiri amadziphunzitsa yekha ndi munthu wapafupi naye kuti akhale halves, akhale mizimu yapamtima.
Ngati mulibe maganizo, n'zovuta kupita patsogolo. Munthu yemwe ali ndi psychology ya wosonkhanitsa amadikirira kuti awonekere, kapena aziyang'ana mwa iye yekha. Mmisiri adzakumbukira momwe angadzipangire yekha maganizo abwino: masewera olimbitsa thupi? shawa? kumwetulira? - ndi kusintha maganizo anu.
Ndipo ochenjera kwambiri pakati pa amisiri ndi osonkhanitsa ndi mabwenzi wina ndi mzake. Ndi bwino kupanga kuchokera ku zomwe wina adapeza kale mosamala. Ndipo ngati mwapeza chinthu chabwino, ndizomveka kuchikonza, kuti chikhale chomwe mukufuna.