Wowoneka bwino, waluso, wachangu, chidwi chawo komanso chidwi chawo pabizinesi nthawi zambiri zimakwiyitsa omwe amalamulira mdziko la malamulo okhwima amakampani. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Fatma Bouvet de la Maisonneuve akufotokoza nkhani ya wodwala wake ndipo, pogwiritsa ntchito nkhani yake monga chitsanzo, amalingalira zomwe zimalepheretsa amayi kukwera makwerero a ntchito.
Unali msonkhano wathu woyamba, anakhala pansi nandifunsa kuti: “Dokotala, kodi mukuganiza kuti mkazi akhoza kuphwanyidwa ntchito chifukwa cha jenda?
Funso lake linandichititsa manyazi komanso lofunika kwambiri. Ali ndi zaka makumi atatu, ali ndi ntchito yabwino, ali wokwatira, ali ndi ana awiri. "Moyo wamoyo", umatulutsa mphamvu zomwe zimasokoneza miyoyo yogona. Ndipo pamwamba pa izo - icing pa keke - iye ndi wokongola.
Padakali pano, akuti wadutsa makoko a nthochi zomwe zidamuponyera kumapazi kuti asatere. Luso lake linagonjetsa miseche yonse. Koma posachedwapa, chotchinga chosagonjetseka chawonekera.
Ataitanidwa mwamsanga kwa abwana ake, mopanda nzeru anaganiza kuti amukwezetsa ntchito, kapena kumuyamikira chifukwa cha kupambana kwake kwaposachedwapa. Kupyolera mu luso lake lokopa, adakwanitsa kuitana bwana wamkulu wodziwika chifukwa chosafika ku semina ya kasitomala. "Ndinali mu chifunga cha chisangalalo: Ndidatha, ndidachita! Kenako ndidalowa muofesi ndikuwona nkhope zankhanza izi ... "
Bwanayo adamunamizira kuti adalakwitsa mwaukadaulo posatsata ndondomeko yokhazikitsidwa. “Koma zonse zinachitika mwamsanga,” iye akufotokoza motero. "Ndinkaona kuti tikulumikizana, kuti zonse zikhala bwino." Malinga ndi maganizo ake, zotsatira zake zokha zinali zofunika. Koma mabwana ake adaziwona mosiyana: osaphwanya malamulo mosavuta. Analangidwa chifukwa cha kulakwa kwake pomulanda zinthu zonse zimene anali nazo panopa.
Cholakwa chake chinali chakuti sanamvere malamulo okhwima a bwalo lotsekedwa, mwamwambo lachimuna.
"Ndinauzidwa kuti ndikuthamanga kwambiri ndipo si onse omwe ali okonzeka kuzolowera liwiro langa. Amandinena kuti ndine wosasangalala!”
Zotsutsa zomwe zimabweretsedwa pa iye nthawi zambiri zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi kugonana kwachikazi: ali wokonda, wophulika, wokonzeka kuchitapo kanthu. Cholakwa chake chinali chakuti sanamvere malamulo okhwima a bwalo lotsekedwa, mwamwambo lachimuna.
“Ndinagwa kuchokera pamalo okwera kwambiri,” iye akuulula kwa ine. Sindingathe kuchira ndekha ku manyazi otere. Sanazindikire zizindikiro zowopsa choncho sanathe kudziteteza.
Azimayi ambiri amadandaula za kupanda chilungamo kwamtunduwu, ndimamuuza. Osewera omwewo komanso zochitika zomwezo. Amphatso, nthawi zambiri mwanzeru kuposa akuluakulu awo. Amalumpha zochitika zazikuluzikulu chifukwa amatengeka ndi zotsatira. Amayesetsa kuchita zinthu molimba mtima zomwe zimangokwaniritsa zofuna za abwana awo.
Palibe zizindikiro zochenjeza pamayendedwe a wodwala wanga. Anangobwera kuti apeze womvetsera wabwino. Ndipo ndinayankha funso lake motere: “Inde, palidi tsankho kwa akazi. Koma zinthu zikuyamba kusintha tsopano, chifukwa ndizosatheka kudzimana matalente ambiri mpaka kalekale. "