Zamkatimu
Kukumana ndi Carl Rogers ndiye kusintha kwa moyo wanga wonse. Palibe chochitika china mmenemo chomwe chinakhudza mwamphamvu komanso momveka bwino tsogolo langa laumwini ndi akatswiri. M’dzinja la 1986, pamodzi ndi anzanga 40, ndinatenga nawo mbali m’gulu la anthu olankhulana mozama, lomwe linachitidwa ku Moscow ndi woimira wamkulu wa zamaganizo aumunthu, Carl Rogers. Seminalayi idatenga masiku angapo, koma idandisintha, malingaliro anga, zomwe ndimakonda, malingaliro anga. Anagwira ntchito ndi gululo ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo anali ndi ine, anamva ndi kundiwona, anandipatsa mwayi wokhala ndekha.
Carl Rogers ankakhulupirira kuti munthu aliyense ayenera chidwi, ulemu ndi kulandiridwa. Mfundo izi za Rogers zidakhala maziko a chithandizo chake, "njira yake yokhazikika pamunthu" mwazonse. Chifukwa cha ntchito yake yozikidwa pa malingaliro ooneka ngati ophweka kwambiri ameneŵa, Carl Rogers anasankhidwa kukhala Mphotho ya Mtendere wa Nobel mu 1987. Nkhani ya zimenezi inam’fikira pamene anali chikomokere.
Ubwino waukulu waumunthu wa Carl Rogers, mwa lingaliro langa, uli mu mfundo yakuti adatha kuchita ndi umunthu wake ntchito yovuta yamkati yakukhala homo humanus - munthu waumunthu. Choncho, adatsegulira anthu ambiri "laboratory of humanism", yomwe aliyense amene akufuna kukhazikitsa choyamba mwa iyemwini, ndiyeno mu ubale wa anthu ena pax humana - dziko laumunthu limadutsa.
Masiku ake
- 1902: Anabadwira ku Chicago.
- 1924-1931: Maphunziro a zaulimi, zaumulungu, ndiye - MS, Ph.D. mu psychology kuchokera ku Teachers College, Columbia University.
- 1931: Katswiri wa zamaganizo achipatala ku Children's Help Center (Rochester).
- 1940-1957: Pulofesa ku Ohio State University, kenako ku yunivesite ya Chicago.
- 1946-1947: Purezidenti wa American Psychological Association.
- 1956-1958: Purezidenti wa American Academy of Psychotherapists.
- 1961: Mmodzi mwa omwe adayambitsa American Association for Humanistic Psychology.
- 1968: Anatsegula Malo Ophunzirira Anthu ku La Jolla, California. 1969: Zolemba zake za Journey in Self, za ntchito ya gulu la psychotherapy, wapambana Oscar.
- 1986: Amapanga magulu olankhulana kwambiri ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo ku Moscow ndi Tbilisi.
- February 14, 1987: anamwalira ku La Jolla, California.
Makiyi asanu oti mumvetsetse:
Aliyense ali ndi kuthekera
"Anthu onse ali ndi luso lomanga miyoyo yawo m'njira yoti asangalale komanso nthawi yomweyo amakhala olimbikitsa m'makhalidwe a anthu." Anthu amakonda kukulitsa njira yabwino. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti zidzakhala choncho, koma aliyense amabadwa ndi kuthekera koteroko. Ali mwana, Rogers adawona zambiri zamoyo wachilengedwe, makamaka, kukula kwa agulugufe. Mwina, chifukwa cha kusinkhasinkha pa kusintha kwawo, maganizo ake okhudza kuthekera kwaumunthu anabadwa, pambuyo pake anathandizidwa ndi machitidwe a psychotherapeutic ndi kafukufuku wa sayansi.
mverani kumva
“Zilibe kanthu kuti munthu akulankhula zozama kapena zachiphamaso chotani, ndimamvetsera kwa iye ndi chidwi chonse, ndi khama, zomwe ndingathe kuchita.” Timalankhula zambiri, koma sitimvetserana kapena kumva. Koma kudzimva kuti munthu ndi wofunika, kufunika kumadza chifukwa cha chisamaliro cha munthu wina kwa ife. Tikamamveka, zotchinga zimachotsedwa - chikhalidwe, chipembedzo, mtundu; pali kukumana kwa munthu ndi munthu.
Muzimvetsa munthu winayo
"Zomwe ndingazipeze ndingazipange motere: Ndinazindikira phindu lalikulu lolola kuti ndimvetsetse munthu wina." Chinthu choyamba chimene anthu amachita ndi kufuna kuwapenda. Nthawi zambiri sitilola kuti timvetsetse tanthauzo la mawu, malingaliro, zikhulupiriro za munthu wina kwa iye. Koma ndendende mkhalidwe umenewu umene umathandiza wina kudzivomereza yekha ndi mmene akumvera, kutisintha ife eni, kuwulula chinachake chimene poyamba sichinatichokere. Izi ndizowonanso muubwenzi wa psychotherapeutic: si njira zapadera zamaganizo zomwe zimakhala zovuta, koma kuvomereza kwabwino, chifundo chosatsutsika komanso kudziwonetsera kowona kwa wothandizira ndi kasitomala wake.
Kumasukirana ndikofunikira kuti pakhale ubale
Malinga ndi zimene ndinakumana nazo ndi ena, ndaona kuti m’mabwenzi anthaŵi yaitali palibe chifukwa chodziyerekezera kukhala munthu amene sindili. Palibe nzeru kunamizira kuti mumakonda ngati muli waudani, kuoneka wodekha ngati ndinu okwiya komanso osuliza. Maubale amakhala owona, odzaza ndi moyo ndi tanthauzo pamene tidzimvera tokha, timatseguka kwa ife eni, motero, kwa okondedwa. Ubwino wa maubwenzi aumunthu umadalira luso lathu lodziwona kuti ndife ndani, kudzivomereza tokha, osati kubisala kumbuyo kwa chigoba - kwa ife eni ndi ena.
Thandizani ena kukhala bwino
Kupanga malo omwe mungathe kufotokoza momasuka, malingaliro anu, ndiko kuti, abwino pa chitukuko chaumunthu, si ntchito ya akatswiri a zamaganizo okha. Ayenera kutumikiridwa ndi onse omwe amadziwa ntchito za chikhalidwe cha anthu, ayenera kulimbikitsidwa ndiumwini, banja, akatswiri - m'mawu, ubale uliwonse waumunthu. Aliyense wa ife angathandize kuwongolera munthu wina mogwirizana ndi zolinga ndi zolinga zake.
Mabuku ndi zolemba za Carl Rogers:
- Kuwona kwa psychotherapy. Mapangidwe a Munthu” (Progress, Univers, 1994);
- "Uphungu ndi Psychotherapy" (Eksmo, 2000);
- "Ufulu Wophunzira" (Sense, 2002);
- "Njira yokhazikika yamakasitomala mu psychotherapy" (Mafunso a Psychology, 2001, No. 2).