Banja: munganyenge bwanji wokondedwa wanu tsiku ndi tsiku?

Banja: Yambani inu

Mwaganiza zomuseweretsa kumeneko, pompano, pompano? Chifukwa chake musazengereze, khalani otsimikiza za inu nokha, dziuzeni kuti ndinu osatsutsika monga momwe Scarlett Joanson ndi Jennifer Lopez adalumikizana! Mwambi wanu ndi "pamene ndikufuna kumene ndikufuna", musalole kukayikira kulikonse kuipitsa malingaliro anu. Chotsani maganizo oipa ngati "Amakonda kuyang'ana masewera a mpira kuposa ine", "Iye sakuwoneka mumaganizo", "Chilakolako cha zoyamba chathawa". Zotsutsa zokhumudwitsa zonsezi sizingakulepheretseni kuyatsanso moto wa chikhumbo m'diso lake ngati mukufunadi kutero. Ndiwe mbuye wamasewera. Ngati mungadikire mpaka ataganiza zokupsopsonani mwachikondi, zingatenge nthawi ... 

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Choncho musazengereze kuchitapo kanthu, sangalalani, tsegulani, putani. Cholinga ndi kukweza chikhumbo. Mpsompsoneni pakhosi, mumusisita, gwedezani khutu, pamene akukonzekera kubafa, asanatuluke (zoipa kwambiri ngati mwachedwa ndi anzanu), mu elevator, m'galimoto, mwachidule, sonyezani. ndiwe wolimbikitsidwa komanso wokonda kukopana monga momwe mudakumana koyamba ...

Muzimva kukongola m'maso mwake

Kuti unyenge mwamuna uyenera kudzinyengerera kaye. Dzipezereni mawonekedwe achigololo, dzichitireni zodzikongoletsera, zowonjezera, zovala zomwe zimakulitsa thupi lanu. Zovala zachikazi, kugwetsa khosi, zonse zimatengera zinthu zomwe mukufuna kuti mukope chidwi chake. Amuna amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zokopa zowoneka, amakonda nsapato zazitali, nsapato zokulunga phazi ngati mwala… Ndipo, ndithudi, ganizirani za kukonzanso zovala zanu zamkati kuti mudzutse chilakolako chake. Palibe chifukwa chobvala, valani corset yakuda ya satin ndi masitonkeni ngati sichinthu chanu. Mutha kukhala achigololo kwambiri mu zingwe zoyera ndi zokongoletsera zamakope. Kumbukirani Madonna mu "Monga namwali" ... Chofunikira ndichakuti mukumva kukongola mutavala mawonekedwe achigololo omwe amakuyenererani. Zokambirana ziyenera kukhala zoona. Pamene mwamuna wanu akuwoneka wokongola kwambiri m'maso mwanu, m'pamenenso amakumverani kukunyengererani! Musangalatseni, muwonetseni kuti mumamuganizira pomupatsa malaya apamwamba, majuzi. Sankhani pamodzi zovala zomwe zimagwirizana naye, konzani tsitsi lake, mwachidule, khalani ndi chidwi chenicheni mwa iye ndikumuthandiza kuti mupeze mawonekedwe atsopano ogwirizana ndi kukometsera. Adzasangalala kuona kuti mumanyadira kukhala ndi munthu wokonda kukopana woteroyo pambali panu. Pamene mumatsimikizira mwamuna za makhalidwe ake, luso lake komanso momwe amakukonderani, ndi masamu. Onetsani wokondedwa wanu kuti mumamukonda, kuti amakukopani .. Muuzeni kuti mumakonda khungu lake, fungo lake, pakamwa pake, manja ake, maso ake ... Chilichonse chimene mukufuna! Chofunika kwambiri n’chakuti adzimva kuti akufunidwa ndi mkazi amene ali pambali pake. Ngati sakupeza m'maso mwanu chidwi chosiyidwachi ndi chikhumbo chachikulu ichi, amaika pangozi kuyang'ana pamaso pa mkazi wina, kuti adzitsimikizire za mphamvu zake zachimuna zokopa ... Chenjerani!

Lankhulani naye ndi ... thupi lanu

Chilankhulo cha thupi ndi chofunika monga mawu. Osazengereza kutumiza mauthenga okhudza manja: kumwetulira, kuyang'ana, kukhudza, kulumikizana komwe amati mwamwayi, sewera ndi momwe kukhudzira kumabweretsa. Osataya mwayi, gwadirani kwa iye, gwadirani kuti mulankhule mawu achikondi m'khutu mwake. Mukumbatireni… Kuti mukope munthu, muyenera kumukopa. Yang'anani mwa iye, tsitsani maso anu nthawi ndi nthawi mokondwera, mupangitseni kuti azilankhula za iye ndipo koposa zonse, mumvetsere kwa iye, ndi mawonekedwe osilira omwe amalankhula zambiri ... Kumbukirani kuti fungo limakhalanso ndi mphamvu zoyambitsa maliseche, kudzutsa chikhumbo. Ndiloto madzulo kumasula mafuta onunkhira atsopano. Kudzuka kwanu kudzadzutsa chidwi chake, kudabwitsa ma cell ake onunkhira omwe nthawi yomweyo amatumiza kugwedezeka kudera la "chilakolako cha kugonana" muubongo wake.

Gwirani mafuta onunkhira anu atsopano kumbuyo kwa khutu, m'khosi, m'manja ndi m'mawondo, malizitsani ndi pschitt pakhosi lanu.. Amadziwa zonunkhiritsa zanu mwachizolowezi ndi mtima, ndi fungo latsopanoli, adzakhala ndi malingaliro oti ali ndi mkazi wina, zomwe zimakondweretsa kwambiri chibadwa chake chosaka ...

Muzimudabwitsa nthawi zonse

Mwawonadi filimuyo "Hitch" momwe Will Smith akutifotokozera njira yosalephera yonyenga. Kodi katswiri wonyengerera amachita chiyani kuti aphwanye nyama yake? Amachita kafukufuku wake kaye ndikupatsa mkazi wosiyidwayo mphatso yodabwitsa yomwe ndizomwe akufuna., ngati kuti amamudziwa kale, ngati kuti amamuganizira. Gwiritsani ntchito njira yodabwitsayi pobwera ndi malingaliro amphatso zapang'ono zapadera kwa mwamuna wanu. Sizokhudza mtengo wamsika wamakono, palibe chifukwa chodziwonongera nokha, koma phindu lamalingaliro ndi malingaliro. Mwachitsanzo malo ochitira konsati ya maloto ake, wotchi (kapena chinthu china chilichonse) chomwe amachikonda komanso kuti adataya mtima kuti ataya zomwe mwapeza pa ebay. Chofunikira ndikugwera pachikhumbo chake, adzagwa ndithu! Khalani mfumukazi ya improvisation. Sitinapezepo china chabwino kuposa kuvina kwapang’onopang’ono kapena kuvina kolimba kosonkhezera chilakolako cha mwamuna. Ngati sapanga malingaliro ake kukuitanani kuti muvine, musazengerezenso, yambani inu, valani CD ya gulu lachilatini lomwe limakulimbikitsani ndikulodza ndi mayendedwe anu owonetsa m'chiuno. Mphamvu zonse zimatenga nawo mbali pakunyengerera, kuona, kugwira, kumva, kununkhiza komanso kulawa.

Musaiwale kusangalatsa kukoma kwa wokondedwa wanu. Zakudya zokometsera, zakumwa zabwino, zotsekemera zazing'ono, mbale zoyeretsedwa, tulukani kuti musangalatse m'kamwa mwake ndikukhutitsa gourmand wamkulu yemwe wagona mwa iye. Sitigwiranso ntchentche ndi vinyo wosasa, koma timagwira amuna ndi zakudya zabwino. Ndi njira yachikale yomwe yatsimikiziridwa kwa mibadwomibadwo ...

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