Kulephera kukumbukira zinthu, kuvutika kulankhula, kusokonekera kwa nthawi ndi malo… Poona izi ndi zizindikiro zina za dementia mwa abambo kapena amayi okalamba, ana awo amalandira chizindikiro chakuti banja latsala pang’ono kusintha kwambiri. Choyamba ndi chachikulu chomwe ndi kasinthasintha wa maudindo.
Kutenga udindo wonse wa moyo wa makolo okalamba… nthawi zina timasowa chochita. Kuwonongeka kwa kukumbukira, kuganiza, khalidwe - kusokonezeka kwa ubongo pang'onopang'ono kumasintha umunthu wa wachibale wachikulire ndikusintha moyo wa banja lonse mozondoka.
“Kuzindikira ndi kuvomereza chenicheni chakuti kholo silingathenso kusankha mmene lingakhalire ndi kumene lingakhale, njira yochiritsira ndi amene angachiritsidwe nkovuta,” anatero Karine Yeganyan katswiri wa matenda a maganizo a okalamba. - Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta chifukwa cha kukana kwa wodwalayo. Ambiri a iwo amateteza ufulu wawo ndipo amakana kulandira thandizo, ngakhale kuti sangathe kulimbana ndi moyo watsiku ndi tsiku: amaiwala kudya ndi kumwa mankhwala, kuzimitsa gasi, akhoza kutayika kapena kupereka ndalama zonse m'sitolo."
Ana akuluakulu sangangobweretsa abambo kapena amayi awo kwa dokotala, komanso kukonza ndondomeko ya chisamaliro kwa zaka zambiri.
Sakani kugwirizana
Ndizovuta kusinthana maudindo ndi adad omwe dzulo adakudzudzula kuti wabwerera kunyumba mochedwa, ndizosatheka kuyimirira pamaso pa mayi wamphamvu yemwe adazolowera kuyendetsa pakhomo.
"Chiwawa sichingawonetsedwe," akukhulupirira Karine Yeganyan. "Poyankha kukakamizidwa, timakhala olimba mtima chimodzimodzi. Kutengapo mbali kwa katswiri, dokotala, wogwira ntchito zachitukuko kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo kudzakuthandizani apa, amene adzachita monga mkhalapakati, kupeza mikangano kuti abambo anu avomereze kukaonana ndi namwino, ndipo amayi anu samakana kuvala chibangili cha geolocation pamene kutuluka.”
Pamene wachibale wanu akulephera kudzitumikira yekha, muyenera kuchita mwanzeru, koma motsimikiza
“Kutengera wodwala kunyumba kapena kupanga chosankha motsutsana ndi chifuniro chake, ana achikulire amakhala ngati makolo amene amaika malamulo kwa mwana wamng’ono: amasonyeza chisoni ndi kusonyeza kumvetsetsa, koma amaimabe, chifukwa ali ndi thayo la moyo ndi thanzi lake. «.
Tilibe kuyenera kwa kulamula kwa atate kapena amayi okalamba kuti: “Chitani monga ndanenera,” koma ndi ulemu wonse tiyenera kuumirira pa ife tokha, pomvetsetsa kuti tili ndi pamaso pathu munthu wosiyana ndi malingaliro ake, ziweruzo; ndi zokumana nazo. Ngakhale umunthu uwu ukuwonongedwa pamaso pathu.
Pemphani chithandizo
Zidzakhala zosavuta kwa ife kuyanjana ndi wachibale amene ntchito zake zachidziwitso zikuchepa ngati timvetsetsa bwino zomwe zikuchitika.
Karine Yeganyan anati: “Zimene munthu wachikulire amanena kapena kuchita sizigwirizana ndi mmene amakuonerani. - Kukwiyitsidwa, kulakalaka, kusinthasintha kwamalingaliro, kukuneneza ("simuyimba foni kawirikawiri, sukonda"), malingaliro onyenga ("mukufuna kundithamangitsa, kundipha, kundibera ...") nthawi zambiri amakhala zotsatira za dementia. . Chithunzi cha dziko lake chikusintha, kumverera kwa bata, kulosera komanso kumveka bwino kumatha. Ndipo izi zimapangitsa kukhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse mwa iye.
Nthaŵi zambiri ana amakonda kudzipereka kotheratu posamalira okondedwa awo, pokhulupirira kuti udindo wawo wamakhalidwe abwino ndi wodzipereka kotheratu.
Mkhalidwe woterowo ndi wotopetsa mwakuthupi ndi m’maganizo ndipo umawononga kwambiri maunansi abanja.
“Kufunafuna chithandizo n’kofunika kuti mupirire kuyezetsako m’kupita kwa nthaŵi,” dokotala wa matenda a maganizo okalamba akuumirirabe. - Yesetsani kusunga moyo wanu ndi zokonda zanu komanso nthawi yaulere. Gawani maudindo anu momwe mungathere: anamwino - ndi akazi, abwenzi ... «
Kupyolera muchitetezo cha chikhalidwe cha anthu, mutha kuyika amayi kapena abambo m'gulu losamalira ana kapena kuwatumiza kumalo osungirako okalamba kwa mwezi umodzi - iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yochira. Funsani madokotala, werengani mabuku. Pezani gulu la anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro ofanana pa intaneti: omwe amasamalira achibale adzagawana zomwe akumana nazo ndikupereka chithandizo panthawi zovuta.