Psychology

Ndi nkhani zaposachedwa zakugonana, nkhani yofunika kwambiri ya malire yakhala nkhani yofala kwambiri m'masukulu. Lingaliro ili lokha likuwonekera kwambiri mu hypostasis yake yakuthupi. Koma kuphwanya kapena kusunga malire a "thupi losaoneka" la munthu ndi vuto lovuta kwambiri kuposa funso la tactile kukhudzana, kupsompsona, kukumbatirana ndi kugonana, anatero philologist ndi mphunzitsi Sergei Volkov.

Sizodziwikiratu konse komwe malire osawonekawa amadutsa kwa munthu aliyense ndi momwe angawaswere. Chitukuko ndi gawo lolimbana ndi malire amunthu kuchokera mkati ndikukankhira kupitirira iwo. Kapena kwa ena a iwo. Pamene munthu akukula, malire ake amasintha. Ndipo ena sadzasintha. Zomwe zili zabwino.

Uphunzitsi uliwonse umakhala wophunzitsa za kuwukira, kuphwanya malire, kuyitana kuti upitirire iwo. Sangachite popanda kuwukiridwa ngati njira - ndipo kwinakwake kumakhala kulimbikitsa chitukuko, ndipo kwinakwake kumadzetsa kuvulala. Ndiko kuti, sizodziwikiratu kuti kuphwanya malire kulikonse ndi chiwawa ndi zoipa (ngakhale izi zikumveka zokayikitsa).

Tikamagwedeza ana ndi ntchito yadzidzidzi, timagwirizanitsa mfundo zodziwika bwino m'njira yachilendo, kutulutsa ophunzira kuti achoke m'maganizo kuti atuluke mu "mayendedwe" a phunzirolo (mwachitsanzo, kuvala nyimbo zomwe zimapanga maganizo abwino. , werengani kwambiri «charged» lemba, onetsani chidutswa cha filimu) — izi ndi kumunda wa kuswa malire. Dzukani, mverani, ganizani, yambani ntchito yamkati - kodi uku si kukankha, kugwedezeka, kuwukira?

Ndipo pamene Mwachitsanzo, yemweyo Zoya Alexandrovna, amene Olga Prokhorova m'zinthu za portal "Zinthu zotere" amakumbukira ngati mphunzitsi akuika mtanda wa choko pamutu pake (“Chotero tidzalemba zitsiru”), pamene Zoya analowa m’kalasimo n’kunena ndi mawu ochitira masewero, akuloza chala chake kwa wophunzira wina kuti: “Kungoti MUKUDZIWA mmene mawu akuti intelligentsia amalembedwera molondola”, Kodi ankamva bwanji?

Munthu wamaliseche, yemwe nthawi yomweyo adayikidwa pagulu, wolekanitsidwa ndi misa ("Tiyeni tipite, chifukwa chiyani mukundilakwira?")? Kapena wonyamula chidziwitso chachinsinsi wodalitsidwa ndi chidwi, wamatsenga yemwe ali ndi mphamvu, ndipo amadziwadi kulemba mawu ovuta awa?

Ndipo pali chiyani chokhumba: zowonjezereka, zowonjezereka zamatsenga (pambuyo pa zonse, zinali chinyengo chabe chomwe chinamangidwa pa kusuntha kosayembekezereka, nthawi zambiri timasunga kalasi ndi zidule zotere) - kapena, m'malo mwake, konse ndi pachabe?

Timalanda malire a anthu ena, osati kungomukalipira kapena kumunyozetsa, komanso kumutamanda ngakhale pang’ono.

Timalowerera malire a anthu ena, osati kumangomukalipira mwanayo kapena kumuchititsa manyazi, komanso kumutamanda pamaso pa aliyense (ndikukumbukira kuchokera ku sukulu ya kindergarten kusokonezeka kwanga komanso kukhumudwa koopsa panthawiyi), mwachikondi kwambiri pa iye, ndikumuyitana pa bolodi ( sanasaine chilolezo choti tichite izi - kusuntha thupi lanu molingana ndi chifuniro chathu kupita ku malo ena mumlengalenga), ndikulipatsa gawo ...

Inde, ngakhale kuwonekera pamaso pake: amene adanena kuti malire ake sakuphwanyidwa ndi mtundu wa mtundu kapena kalembedwe ka zovala zathu, timbre ya mawu, mafuta onunkhira kapena kusakhalapo kwake, osatchula kalembedwe kapena malingaliro. kufotokoza? "Ndinkafuna kuchotsa mawu ake m'makutu mwanga ngati zidutswa zovunda" - izi ndizokhudzanso kuswa malire.

Ngati munthu atsimikiza mtima kuti asaphwanye malire a wina, ndikuwopa kuti angagone ndi kufa. Ngakhale ndi izi, mosakayikira adzaukira malire a wina.

Chifukwa chiyani ndikuchita izi? Kuti ngati mwadzidzidzi nkhaniyo itembenukira ku kukhazikitsidwa kwa zofunikira m'munda wa kuphwanya malire osawoneka (osavuta kuoneka), ndiye kuti njira zosavuta sizingapezeke pano. Ndipo inde, ndikumvetsa kuti ndi malembawa ndinaphwanyanso malire a ambiri, ndipo ndikupepesa chifukwa cha izi.

Siyani Mumakonda