Psychology

Mukondana wina ndi mzake, koma chosowa chanu cha ubwenzi ndi chachikulu kuposa mnzako. Momwe mungakhalire muzochitika izi ndipo ndizotheka kuthetsa mkangano wovutawu?

Palibe munthu

Kusiyana kwa mtima kumakhala kofala kwa mabanja ambiri. Ndipo ngakhale malingaliro anu amakanidwa nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe amadzutsa chidwi cha wokondedwa wanu, ndi bwino kudzikumbutsa nthawi zambiri kuti izi, nthawi zambiri, sizikukhudzana ndi kutaya chidwi mwa inu.

Vuto likhoza kukhala mu mawonekedwe a physiology: mwachitsanzo, kusowa kwa mahomoni ena. Zitha kukhalanso zovuta zamaganizidwe zomwe zimawonekera pakusoweka kwaubwenzi. Mwayi mnzanu nayenso akuvutika. Kupatula apo, angafunenso kupereka zomwe mukusowa kwambiri, ndipo, kumbali yake, amadzimva kuti alibe ndalama komanso wolakwa. Ngakhale salankhula.

Samalani ndi maubwenzi a platonic

Ngati ndinu mwamuna ndipo wokondedwa wanu akusowa chikondi chochepa kuposa inu, yesani kumuzungulira ndi chisamaliro chapadera ndi chisamaliro. Kwa amayi ambiri, izi zimagwirizana mwachindunji ndi kukopa kwakuthupi.

Yesetsani kuchita momwe mungathere pazomwe zimamupangitsa kukhala wosangalala ndikumupangitsa kumva kuti amakondedwa komanso otetezedwa: imbani kapena tumizani mauthenga pafupipafupi kunena kuti mumamuganizira. Yambitsani maulendo ophatikizana kumalo omwe amakonda, tumizani maluwa modabwitsa.

Zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi maanja zimandilola kunena kuti: chidwi ndi aphrodisiac yabwino kwambiri.

Mosakayikira mumaona ngati akumanidwa ngakhalenso kukuperekedwani. Chifukwa chake, pazonsezi mudzafuna kuyankha kuti chinthu chomaliza chomwe mungathe tsopano ndikukoma mtima ndi chisamaliro. Komabe, ichi chingakhale chinsinsi chopangitsa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kukopekanso.

Muli ndi njira ziwiri zokha: kuchoka kwa mnzanuyo, kumulanga ndi kuzizira, kapena, m'malo mwake, khalani omvetsera kwambiri. Zonse zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi maanja zikuwonetsa kuti chidwi ndi aphrodisiac yabwino kwambiri.

Njira yomweyi idzagwira ntchito ngati ndinu mkazi ndipo mukufuna kuti ubale wanu wogonana ndi wokondedwa wanu ukhale wolimba kwambiri. Kudandaula ndi kudzudzula kumakhala ndi zotsatira zoipa zokha. Iye sangayankhe kalikonse, koma amadzimva kuti ali ndi mlandu ndipo amayamba kukunyalanyazani osati pazochitika zogonana, komanso m'maganizo.

Ndiye bwanji osayesa kuona zinthu mwanjira ina? Yesetsani kukhala okoma mtima kwa wokondedwa wanu. Lankhulani mawu osangalatsa nthawi zambiri, perekani chiyamikiro, zikomo chifukwa cha mawonekedwe ang'onoang'ono a chidwi. Ndipo musamafulumire kutsutsa. Ngati zinthu zikuyenda bwino, mutha kuyambitsa kukambirana, koma mosamala kwambiri. Ndipo ndikofunika kuti tiyambe osati ndi mfundo yakuti simulinso okhutira pabedi, koma kufunsa ngati chinachake chikumupondereza? Muuzeni kuti ndinu wokonzeka kumvetsera ndi kupereka chithandizo.

Ganizirani za chinthu china

Siyani kuyambitsa zogonana ndipo nthawi zambiri muwonetse chidwi chodziwika mbali iyi yaubwenzi. Nthawi zina zimangotengera mnzanu nthawi yochulukirapo kuti amvenso chosowacho. Mpatseni mwayi woti ayambe kuchitapo kanthu. Komanso, kudzakhala kosavuta kuchita izi atangomva kuti kukakamiza kumbali yanu kwatha. Kuthamangitsidwa kwanu kosayembekezereka komanso kumverera kwaufulu komwe mnzanuyo angakumane nako kungadzutse chikhumbo.

Azimayi amafuna kukumbatira ndi kupsopsona kunja kwa chipinda chogona, osati panthawi yogonana.

Samalani zokonda zanu. Mwachionekere, mwakhala mukuyang’ana kwambiri mavuto a m’banja mwanu kotero kuti munaiwala za dziko lanu. Yambitsaninso masewera, kukumana ndi anzanu pafupipafupi. Mnzako wachikondi, pakapita nthawi, ayamba kusowa kukhalapo kwanu ndipo akufuna kukhala gawo lonse la moyo wanu kachiwiri.

kuyang'ana mmbuyo

Kodi mutakumana koyamba, kodi kugonana kunali kosangalatsa komanso pafupipafupi? Kumbukirani zomwe wokondedwa wanu ankakonda kwambiri panthawiyo, ndipo yesetsani kuzipanganso.

Kukhudza kopanda kugonana

Malangizowa ndi a amuna. Azimayi nthawi zambiri amadandaula kuti okondedwa amawona kukhudza ngati gawo lachiwonetsero. Azimayi amafuna kukumbatira ndi kupsopsona kunja kwa chipinda chogona, osati panthawi yogonana. Ngati izi zikufanana ndi banja lanu, yesani kukhala tcheru paziwonetserozi. Chachikulu ndikuti mumaphwanya machitidwe omwe alipo, omwe wina amafuna, ndipo winayo amateteza. Kufuna kufikira moyo wake kudzathandiza kudzutsa thupi lake.

maliseche

Ngati machitidwe a thupi sakufanana, theka lanu silidzatha kukwaniritsa malingaliro anu ogonana ndi zokhumba zanu. Chitengeni ngati njira ina yogonana.

Ngati malangizowa sakugwira ntchito, khalani oona mtima

Zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi maanja zikuwonetsa kuti ngati maphwando sapeza kumvetsetsa ndikukhalabe m'maudindo odzudzula ndi kuteteza, ndiye kuti mnzanuyo ali ndi khalidwe lapamwamba la kugonana amayamba kusintha kapena kuthetsa chiyanjano. Kukumananso kosangalatsa pambuyo pa magawo oterowo kumakhala kosowa. Musanasankhe pa muyeso uwu, onetsetsani kuti mnzanuyo amvetsetsa zomwe zidzachitike ngati simupeza kusagwirizana.

Osawopsyeza munthu wokondedwa mkangano, osaimba mlandu kapena kudzudzula, koma nenani kuti kusakhutira kwanu kosalekeza kumakupangitsani kukhala osasangalala ndipo kumakukakamizani kuchita zomwe simukufuna. Fotokozani kuti uku si kuwopseza, koma kuvomereza moona mtima, ndi kuti mukufuna kupeza kugwirizana. Funsani mnzanu kuti akuthandizeni.


Za wolemba: Michelle Weiner-Davies ndi katswiri wazamisala wabanja komanso katswiri wazogonana.

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