Psychology

M'nyumba yachilendo komanso m'dziko losadziwika bwino ndizovuta. Nthawi ndi nthawi mumaopa kulakwitsa. Zomwe zimawonekera ndi zomwe zimatchedwa miyambo, koma sindimadziwa ...

M'zaka zake zazing'ono, Kostya anasintha ntchito zingapo. Osati chifukwa chakuti anali munthu wa mikangano - zinthu pamsika zinali kusintha mofulumira. Choyamba, mnzake wa m’kalasi anam’nyengerera mwa kukonza pa nyumba yosindikizira mabuku, imene iye ankatsogolera. Zinkawoneka ngati mwayi wosamveka - ubalewo ndi wabwino, kulandiridwa kwabwino kumatsimikizika. Poyamba, umu ndi mmene zinakhalira. Maphwando abanja, Loweruka ndi Lamlungu wamba.

Koma zinthuzo zinayamba kuipa. Iwo sanaone n’komwe mmene anasinthira kuchoka ku kusindikiza mabuku kupita ku kupanga timabuku, kenaka n’kupita ku mabaji a zikondwerero ndi misonkhano.

Panalibenso kuzolowerana kwabanja pantchito yotsatira, ngakhale kuti sitayelo yake ndi yademokalase. Ndi bwana, munthu wosakwana makumi asanu, aliyense anali pa «inu». Anagwira ntchito, ndi kukhumudwa, ndipo anatulutsa mawu otsika, ngati akuitana tiyi. Ndiye panali kampani yoopsa kwambiri, ndipo maubale mmenemo anali ovuta kwambiri, olamulira. Lamuloli, komabe, adalipidwa kwambiri.

Ndipo zonse zikhala bwino. Koma ndiye tsoka linakweza Kostya pa udindo wa mkulu wa dipatimenti ya kampani yaikulu. Anthu adabwera ndi zomwe adakumana nazo, kuphatikiza njira yolankhulirana yomwe idatengera ntchito yawo yakale. Makhalidwe onse atatu odziwika bwino abizinesi anali pano. Komabe, tsopano iye mwini anakhala woweruza. Kaya mungasankhe mtundu wotani, kunyozedwa mwachinsinsi ndi ena, kuchititsidwa manyazi ndi ena, kusamvetsetsana ndi ena sikungapewedwe. Kukhala bwanji?

Muyenera kukhala wokhoza kusintha kwa aliyense, osaiwala za ubwino wa mlanduwo

Kalembedwe ndi kusinthasintha, payekha komanso mwambo nthawi yomweyo.

Ndikoyenera kuyankha kuyembekezera kwa wina, osati kudzitaya nokha ndikukwaniritsa cholinga chanu. Pokhala mfulu, mwa njira, Pushkin anachita ntchito yabwino kwambiri ndi izi.

M'makalata, iye mwaluso anazolowera njira ya interlocutor, kukumbukira bwalo la zofuna zake, anakumbukira zokonda zake ndi predilections. Ndipo ngati kuli kofunikira, ponena za udindo wake wa anthu. Amalankhula ndi bwenzi lake lapamtima Nashchokin: "Moni, wokondedwa Pavel Voinovich ..."

Kwa mkazi wake: "Iwe, mkazi wanga, ndiwe wosasamala kwambiri (ndinalemba mawu mokakamiza)." Amasaina kalata yopita kwa Benckendorff, akuyang'ana mafanizo onse, koma kutsanzira kuwona mtima: "Ndikumva kulemekeza kwambiri ndi kudzipereka kochokera pansi pamtima, ndili ndi mwayi wokhala, mfumu yachisomo, Wolemekezeka, mtumiki wodzichepetsa kwambiri ..." ndi choncho pa. Nthawi iliyonse, amawona mwanzeru ndi muyeso, sagwera m'chizoloŵezi kapena kudzipereka, ndi wopepuka, wozama komanso waubwenzi. Pa nthawi yomweyo, kulikonse - iye, Pushkin.

Izi zimafunika ndi ubale uliwonse, kuphatikiza bizinesi. Sikoyenera kuyang'ana pa stereotypes (ngakhale utoto kapena tsatanetsatane ukhoza kukhala wothandiza pa chitsanzo chilichonse), koma tulukani nokha, kuchokera kumaganizo anu kwa anthu. Kukumbukira ubwino wa chifukwa.

Siyani Mumakonda