Ntchito yatsatanetsatane imeneyi mwapang’ono imatikumbutsa ndemanga yatsatanetsatane ya sayansi ya mawu odziŵika bwino a aphorism: “Ambuye, ndipatseni mtendere wamaganizo—kuvomereza zimene sindingathe kuzisintha; kulimbika mtima kusintha zimene ndingathe, ndi nzeru kusiyanitsa wina ndi mzake.
Katswiri wa zamaganizo Michael Bennett amagwiritsa ntchito njira imeneyi m'mbali zonse za moyo wathu-ubale ndi makolo ndi ana, ndi ogwira nawo ntchito, komanso ife eni. Nthawi iliyonse, kusanthula vuto latsopano, akupanga momveka bwino, mfundo ndi mfundo: izi ndi zomwe mukufuna, koma simungapeze; nazi zomwe zingatheke / kusinthidwa, ndi momwemo. Lingaliro logwirizana la Michael Bennett ("kugoletsa" pamalingaliro olakwika, kupanga ziyembekezo zenizeni ndi kuchitapo kanthu) linaperekedwa ndi mwana wake wamkazi, wolemba pazithunzi Sarah Bennett, momveka bwino komanso mochititsa chidwi, mothandizidwa ndi matebulo oseketsa ndi zotchingira.
Alpina Wofalitsa, 390 p.