Zamkatimu
Timadziwa maphunziro a sukulu m'mabuku achi Russia, talemba zolemba zambiri. Koma psychology ya zochita zina zomwe otchulidwawa amachita sizikudziwikabe. Tili ndi mafunso kwa akale. Kuyang'ana mayankho kwa iwo.
N'chifukwa chiyani Onegin anagwa m'chikondi ndi Tatiana pa mpira, amene poyamba anakana?
Onegin ndi mwamuna yemwe ali ndi kalembedwe kosagwirizana. Zikuwoneka kuti makolowo sanakondweretse mwana wawo: adaleredwa koyamba ndi Madame, kenako ndi Monsieur. Choncho, Eugene anakhala «wasayansi» mu enieni makampani - «sayansi wachifundo chilakolako» ndi chikondi, amene anayesa kupeza m'banja, ndiyeno mu maubwenzi okondana.
Mnyamatayo amazolowera kupeza chilichonse chimene akufuna. Cholowa cha amalume chinamupangitsa kukhala wolemera, wachikondi - wosayanjanitsika. Komabe, mipira ndi ulendo wachikoka anakhala wotopetsa, chifukwa Eugene sanapeze maganizo - mpheto ndi masewera. Kenako anakumana ndi Tatiana. Kudzinamiza ndi kwachilendo kwa iye, ndipo amavomereza chikondi chake kwa Eugene. Koma Onegin anapha chiyembekezo mu moyo wake, osadzipatsa mwayi wa ubale wina, osakhulupirira kuti zingakhale zosiyana.
Chifukwa chiyani, atakumana ndi Tatiana pa mpira, adakhala wofunika kwambiri kwa iye? Kodi "amayatsa" maganizo ake? Choyamba, kusafikirika kwake. Tsopano akuzizira naye, ndipo Eugene akuyesera kusungunula mtima wa mtsikana yemwe poyamba ankakondana naye ndikulemba mndandanda wa zipambano.
Eugene amayendetsedwa ndi kaduka osazindikira komanso umbombo. Tatiana Free sanali chidwi kwa iye, mlendo ali ndi maganizo ake onse
Kachiwiri, Eugene amathera mphamvu zake zonse kufunafuna zomverera zatsopano. Kutopa, dzanzi m'maganizo, kugwedezeka «idealization - devaluation» - izi ndi mbali ya narcissist. Vuto lake ndi kupanda chifundo. Kugonjetsa kwa Tatyana ndiko kuyesa kudzimva kuti ali ndi moyo. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, amanyalanyaza malingaliro a mtsikanayo, samawona ululu wake ndi kuzunzika kwake, ataphimbidwa ndi chigoba chopanda chidwi.
Chachitatu, Eugene amayendetsedwa ndi kaduka osazindikira komanso umbombo. Tatiana Free sanali chidwi kwa iye, mlendo ali ndi maganizo ake onse.
Vuto la khalidwe la bukuli ndilolephera kukonda. Imagawanika: gawo limodzi likufuna ubale, linalo limatsitsa chilichonse. Timamumvera chisoni, pozindikira kuti ichi si vuto la Onegin, koma tsoka la Onegin. Pali malo oundana m'moyo wake, amafunikira chikondi chapakati kuti asungunuke. Koma iye anasankha yekha. Timachotsa Tatyana ndi mitima yathu yonse: mkuntho ukuwomba mu moyo wake, iye anavulala ndi wosungulumwa, koma anayenera kukwatira, ndipo ulemu ndi wamtengo wapatali kuposa chikondi.
Kodi zingakhale zosiyana?
Ngati Eugene adakhulupirira kuti ubale weniweni unali zotheka, ngati sanakane Tatiana, banjali likanakhala losangalala. Iye, wozama komanso wowerenga bwino, wachikondi komanso wowona mtima, amagawana zokonda ndi zokonda za Onegin. Akhoza kukhala bwenzi lake, wokonda, mwamuna, mphunzitsi - ndipo iye mwini angasinthe, kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wake, podziwa kuti ubwenzi weniweni ndi chiyani.