Kuvala ngati mfumukazi? Sewerani ndi zidole? Khalani chitsanzo cha akatswiri ofuna kupanga zodzoladzola? Inde, mosavuta. Kupatula apo, chifukwa cha mwana wanu wamkazi wokondedwa, simungathe kupita kuzinthu zoterezi.

Ndizovomerezeka kuti amuna nthawi zonse amalota za ana amuna. Mtsikana anabadwa? Chabwino, tiyeni timulere mtsikanayo. Ndipo tidzayesetsa kubereka m'bale wake. Mwina amuna amatero. Koma zowona saganiza ngati izi. Chifukwa amangopenga za ana awo aakazi.

Mwachitsanzo, a Simon aku Oregon, abambo a atsikana anayi. Mwamunayo anali ndi mwayi waukulu kuti anali ndi mapasa kawiri. Nthawi zonse, monga mukudziwa, atsikana. Anthu opitilira 700 miliyoni amatsata zochitika zake pantchito yolera ana aakazi. Choyamba, chifukwa Simoni amakonda kuseka, zomwe zimamuthandiza kupulumuka atazunguliridwa ndi azimayi asanu. Chachiwiri, chifukwa ndi wokongola. Dziwonereni nokha.

Ndipo apa pali bambo wina wapamwamba m'chiwonetsero chathu - Michael Ray. Akulera mwana wake wamkazi Charlie yekha. Amayi anasiya banja, ndipo mtsikanayo anakhalabe ndi bambo ake. Michael alembanso blog yokhudza moyo wa bambo wopanda bambo. Mukudziwa, samawoneka wosasangalala konse. M'malo mwake, banjali limangowala. Michael satopa kuvomereza chikondi chake kwa Charlie. Kuti mtsikanayo azimva kuthandizidwa ndi abambo nthawi zonse, amalemba zolemba zawo zogwira mtima ndikuziika m'bokosi lake la nkhomaliro. Ndizabwino kwambiri!

Nate Denton ndi bambo wopanda bambo. Akulera ana awiri: mtsikanayo amatchedwa V, mnyamatayo ndi Dexter. Abambo amameta tsitsi la mwana wawo wamkazi m'mawa uliwonse, ndikumutumiza kusukulu. Inde, ndekha. Amayi kulibe, ndinayenera kudziwa zoyambira za tsitsi. Masitaelo amakono sangakhale abwino nthawi zonse, koma opanga kwambiri. Tsopano Nate ali ndi gulu lake la mafani: olembetsa pa Instagram pitani patsamba lake kuti mupeze malingaliro atsopano kwa ana awo aakazi.

Tidasankhanso kuphatikiza Jesse Neiji pamndandanda wathu. Komabe, iye si bambo, koma amalume. Koma adzakhalanso bambo tsiku lina, sichoncho? Kuphatikiza apo, mnyamatayo ali ndimakina. Adakhala wotchuka padziko lonse lapansi, atapita ndi mwana wa mchimwene wake Izzy kukayamba kujambula "Cinderella". Msungwanayo adasankha kuvala ngati mfumukazi, koma mphindi yomaliza anali wamanyazi: bwanji zikapezeka kuti ndi yekhayo amene anavala chonchi? Zidzakhala zochititsa manyazi. Chifukwa chake Jesse adaganiza zosiya kucheza naye. Ndipo adalowanso diresi la mfumukazi, adavala tiara ndikunyamula zowalamulira: "Ngati china chake chikupangitsa Izzy kukhala wosangalala, ndiye kuti ndimupangira, osaganizira kwa mphindi." Kuwombera.

Koma bambo uyu adasankha kuwononga thanzi lake kuti asangalatse mwana wawo wamkazi: adawonetsa mtolankhani akujambula lipoti lonena za mphepo yamkuntho. Ku USA pomwe Irma anali akulusa ndipo adayambitsa mavuto ambiri. Abambo sanakwere pachimake penipeni pa mphepo yamkuntho, koma adawonetsa motsimikiza kuti adali mkuntho weniweni.

Zachidziwikire, awa si abambo okhawo omwe amakonda ana awo aakazi. Tasonkhanitsanso zitsanzo zingapo zomwe zikutsimikizira kuti abambo atha kukhala achiwawa, koma osati zikawakonda. Apa tsegulani pazenera.

Siyani Mumakonda