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Extroverts amatsutsana ndi introverts. Makhalidwe awo akuluakulu amapezera mphamvu pokhudzana ndi ena komanso kukhala ofotokozera. Zolakwa zawo, kuphatikizapo kusakhala wotchera khutu, zimatha kukwiyitsa anthu omwe amangoyamba kumene. 

Kodi kukhala extrovert kumatanthauza chiyani?

Anali katswiri wa psychoanalyst Carl Gustav Yung yemwe adalongosola makhalidwe awiri: introversion, ndi extraversion. Ma introverts ali ndi mphamvu zoyang'ana mkati (malingaliro awo ndi malingaliro awo) ndipo owonetsa ali ndi mphamvu zowonekera kunja (anthu, zowona, zinthu). The adjective extrovert amatanthauza munthu aliyense wodziwika ndi extroversion (makhalidwe a munthu amene mosavuta amakhazikitsa kukhudzana ndi ena ndi mofunitsitsa kufotokoza maganizo). 

Waukulu makhalidwe a extroverts

An extrovert amangokhalira kulankhula, amalankhulana, amangofuna kudziwa, achangu, amamangirira…

Ma Extroverts mwachilengedwe amakhala okangalika, ofotokozera, achangu, ochezeka kuposa owonetsa omwe ali osungidwa, ochenjera kwa iwo. Amalumikizana mosavuta. M’chipinda chodzaza ndi anthu, amalankhula ndi anthu ambiri za zinthu zachiphamaso. Amafotokoza mosavuta zakukhosi kwawo. 

Anthu otuluka amasangalala kutenga nawo mbali pazochitika zamagulu, monga maphwando. Ndiko kukhudzana ndi ena omwe amakoka mphamvu zawo (pamene anthu osadziwika amatenga mphamvu zawo kuchokera kumaganizo, kusungulumwa kapena ndi achibale ochepa chabe). 

Amatopa mwachangu ndi phunziro ndipo amakonda kupeza ndikuyeserera zochitika zambiri. 

Zolakwa za extroverts

Anthu ochulukirachulukira amakhala ndi zophophonya zomwe zimatha kukwiyitsa omwe sali otuluka. 

Anthu otengeka mtima amakonda kulankhula kwambiri ndi kumvetsera ena pang'ono. Amatha kuchita zinthu kapena kunena zinthu mosaganizira ndipo zimenezi zingawapweteke. 

Akhoza kukhala osadziona okha ndipo amakonda kukhala achiphamaso.

Kodi ndi bwino bwanji kukumana ndi anthu okalamba?

Ngati mukukhala ndi munthu wokonda kucheza naye, dziwani kuti kuti iye akhale wosangalala, mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ayenera kukhala pafupi, kucheza ndi mabwenzi kapena ngakhale anthu osawadziwa, kuti amafuna kuchita zinthu zomuthandiza kuti adzimve kuti ali woyenerera. kukhala wanyonga, ndipo kukhala wekha kungatenge mphamvu zambiri.

Kulankhulana ndi anthu okalamba, 

  • Apatseni zizindikiro zambiri zozindikirika ndi chidwi (ayenera kumvetsera ndi kuzindikiridwa)
  • Yamikirani kuthekera kwawo kuyambitsa zochitika ndi zokambirana
  • Osamudula mawu polankhula, kuti athe kuthetsa mavuto ndi kumveketsa malingaliro awo
  • Pita uko ndi kukachita nawo zinthu
  • Lemekezani kufunikira kwawo kukhala ndi anzawo ena

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