Cholinga: amakulolani kuzindikira mlingo wa kudalira mmodzi wa makolo kapena onse pamodzi.
Nkhani
“Mbalame zimagona m’chisa pamtengo: abambo, amayi ndi kamwana kakang’ono. Mwadzidzidzi kunadza mphepo yamphamvu, nthambiyo inasweka, ndipo chisacho chinagwa pansi: aliyense anathera pansi. Abambo amawuluka ndi kukhala panthambi ina, amayi amakhala pa ina. Kodi mwanapiye atani?"
Mayankho abwinobwino
- nayenso, adzawuluka ndi kukhala pa nthambi;
- adzawulukira kwa amayi ake, chifukwa anali ndi mantha;
- adzawulukira kwa abambo, chifukwa abambo ndi amphamvu;
- adzakhala pansi, chifukwa sangathe kuwuluka, koma adzapempha thandizo, ndipo abambo ndi amayi adzamuchotsa.
- Mayankho oterowo amasonyeza kuti mwanayo ali ndi ufulu wodziimira payekha ndipo amatha kupanga zosankha. Amakhulupirira mphamvu zake, akhoza kudzidalira yekha ngakhale pamavuto.
Mayankho oyenera kusamala:
- adzakhala pansi chifukwa sangathe kuwuluka;
- adzafa pa nthawi ya kugwa;
- adzafa ndi njala kapena kuzizira;
- aliyense adzayiwala za iye;
Wina adzaponda pa iye.
- Mwanayo amadziwika ndi kudalira anthu ena, makamaka makolo ake kapena anthu omwe amamulera. Sanazolowere kupanga zisankho zodziyimira pawokha, amawona chithandizo mwa anthu omwe amamuzungulira.
Ndemanga ya Psychologist
M'miyezi yoyamba ya moyo, kupulumuka kwa mwanayo kumadalira kwambiri omwe amamusamalira. Kuledzera kwa iye ndiyo njira yokhayo yopezera chikhutiro chachibadwa.
Kudalira kolimba pa mayi kumapangidwa pamene, pa kulira pang'ono, iwo atengedwa. Mwanayo amazolowera izi mwachangu, ndipo samakhazikika pansi pamikhalidwe ina iliyonse. Mwana woteroyo mwachidziŵikire amadzadziphatika kwa amayi ake, ndipo ngakhale atakula, iye mwachibadwa, mosadziŵa, adzafunafuna chitetezo ndi chithandizo kwa amayi ake.
Zambiri zimadalira ngati mwanayo wakwanitsa kukwaniritsa zosowa zake zamaganizo - m'chikondi, kukhulupirirana, kudziimira payekha komanso kuzindikira. Ngati makolo sanakane mwanayo kuzindikira ndi kukhulupirira, kenako amakwanitsa kukhala ndi luso la kudziimira pawokha ndi kanthu, zomwe zimatsogolera ku chitukuko cha kudziimira.
Chinthu chinanso pakupanga ufulu wodziyimira pawokha ndikuti kuyambira zaka 2 mpaka 3, mwana amakulitsa kudziyimira pawokha mwaluntha. Ngati makolo sachepetsa ntchito ya mwanayo, ndiye kuti ali ndi ufulu wodziimira. Ntchito ya makolo pa nthawi imeneyi ndi kulekana ndi munthu payekhapayekha mwana, amene amalola mwanayo kumva "wamkulu". Thandizo, chithandizo, koma osati kulera kuyenera kukhala chizolowezi kwa makolo.
Azimayi ena omwe ali ndi nkhawa komanso opondereza amaika ana kwa iwo eni mopanda dala moti amawachititsa kuti azidalira ana awo mopanda pake kapena mopweteka kwambiri. Amayi amenewa, chifukwa choopa kusungulumwa, amakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri kuposa mwanayo. Kukondana koteroko kumayambitsa kubadwa kwa khanda, kusowa ufulu wodziimira, ndi kusatsimikizika pa mphamvu ndi luso la mwanayo. Kuuma mopambanitsa kwa atate, amene samangophunzitsa, koma kuphunzitsa mwanayo, kufuna kumvera kosakayika kwa iye ndi kumulanga pa kusamvera pang’ono, kungayambitse zotsatira zofanana.
Kuyezetsa
- The Tales of Dr. Louise Duess: Mayeso Okonzekera Ana
- Tale-mayeso "Mwanawankhosa"
- Mayeso a nthano "chikumbutso chaukwati wa makolo"
- Tale-mayeso "Mantha"
- Mayeso a nthano "Njovu"
- Mayeso a nthano "Walk"
- Mayeso a nthano "Nkhani"
- Tale-mayeso "maloto oipa"