Psychology

Nthawi zina timalephera kuthetsa vuto, ngakhale titayesetsa bwanji kuganiza moyenerera. Pamene dziko lamanzere lakumanzere lilibe mphamvu, ufulu wolenga umabwera kudzapulumutsa. Imodzi mwa njira zothandiza kwambiri zogwirira ntchito naye ndi nthano zamatsenga. Ndi njira yanji komanso momwe imathandizira kuthetsa vuto lomwe likuwoneka kuti silingathetsedwe, akutero katswiri wa zamaganizo Elena Mkrtychan.

Poyamba, chinali gwero lalikulu la chidziwitso, chinalola kusamutsa chidziwitso cha moyo, kusunga mbiri. Kenako chinakhala chida chothandizira ana kukula mogwirizana, m’maganizo ndi m’maganizo. M'nthano, munthu angapeze kufotokozera malamulo a thupi, ndi archetypes a anthu otchulidwa, ndi mitundu yonse ya mikangano ndi zochitika m'banja, ndi mitundu ya makhalidwe mwa iwo.

Ngati mwana wadumpha "zochititsa chidwi" gawo la maphunziro, moyo wake aligorivimu si kupangidwa, ndipo maganizo ake pa moyo amayamba kutengera makhalidwe akuluakulu, nthawi zambiri subjective.

Ana amene sanawerengedwe nthano ali mu «ngozi» gulu. Akukula, amayesa kuthetsa vuto lililonse moyenera, momveka bwino, pogwiritsa ntchito kusuntha ndi njira zokhazikika ndikunyalanyaza kuthekera koyenera kwa hemisphere, kuthekera kochita mwaluso, motsogozedwa, mwachidwi. Sakhala moyo, koma ngwazi kugonjetsa chinachake nthawi zonse.

Dziko lakumanzere likuyang'ana kufotokozera kwa chirichonse ndipo silizindikira zozizwitsa. Ndipo ufulu umazindikira - ndikuwakopa

Sapereka ufulu ku malingaliro, ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, chirichonse chomwe chingaganizidwe ndi kuganiziridwa chikhoza kukwaniritsidwa. Ndipo osati m'malingaliro, koma zenizeni. Dziko lakumanzere likuyang'ana kufotokozera kwa chirichonse ndipo silizindikira zozizwitsa. Ndipo dziko loyenera limazindikira. Ndipo, komanso, amadziwa momwe angawagwiritsire ntchito komanso ngakhale kuyitana ndi kukopa.

Dera lamanja limagwira ntchito ndi zinthu zopanda pake, kotero kuti kumanzere kulibe nthawi yoti muzitsatira ndikuzikonza. "Mwapanga bwanji?" - kumanzere kwa dziko lapansi kumadodometsa. "Ndi chozizwitsa!" - amayankha zolondola, ngakhale izi sizikufotokoza chilichonse. Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kukumana ndi zotsatira "zodabwitsa" za ntchito yoyenera ya hemispheric, yofotokozedwa kuchokera kumalingaliro a neurophysiology ndi psychology.

Bwanji kulemba nkhani yanuyanu

Tikabwera ndi nthano molingana ndi malamulo onse, mothandizidwa ndi zithunzi zomwe timazidziwa kuyambira tili ana, timayambitsa ndondomeko ya malingaliro athu, omwe amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zathu, malingaliro athu onse ndi malingaliro athu.

Lingaliro ili laperekedwa kwa ife kuyambira pa kubadwa, liri lopanda malingaliro omwe amaperekedwa ndi kulera, "akuluakulu" kulingalira, malingaliro a makolo, ndi miyambo. Poyambitsa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito algorithm iyi m'tsogolomu, timaphunzira kutuluka m'malo opanda moyo.

Kumbukirani: ndithudi inu kapena abwenzi anu mudagwerapo mubwalo loyipa. Ngakhale kuyesetsa konse, zolephera zingapo sizinayime, zonse zidabwerezedwa mobwerezabwereza ...

Chitsanzo chodziwika bwino ndi pamene "onse anzeru ndi okongola" amasiyidwa okha. Kapena, mwachitsanzo, zonse zofunika, ndi malingaliro, ndi maphunziro, ndi luso, zikuwonekera, koma n'zosatheka kupeza ntchito yoyenera. Ndipo wina mwangozi amakhala pa nthawi yoyenera pamalo oyenera, amakumana ndi mnzake wa m'kalasi mukhonde - ndipo thandizo limachokera kumbali yosayembekezereka komanso popanda khama lalikulu. Chifukwa chiyani?

Izi zingatanthauze kuti timakonda kusokoneza zinthu, kulola anthu osafunikira m'miyoyo yathu, kuyesetsa mosayenera.

Awo amene achita tsoka amadandaula kuti: “Ndikuchita zonse bwino! Ndikuchita zomwe ndingathe! » Koma kungoti "batani" lofunikira muubongo silinatsegulidwe, ndipo ngakhale kuchita "zonse zili bwino", timaphonya china chake, sitimachikanikiza ndipo chifukwa chake sitipeza zomwe tikufuna.

Ngati vuto silikuthetsedwa pamlingo wamalingaliro, ndi nthawi yoti mutsegule gawo loyenera. Nthano yomwe talemba imavumbula ma code, mabatani ndi ma levers omwe ubongo umagwiritsa ntchito pogonjetsa zopinga, kuthetsa mavuto, pomanga maubwenzi. Timayamba kuwona mipata yambiri, kusiya kuyiphonya, kutuluka m'bwalo loyipa kwambiri. Algorithm iyi imayamba kugwira ntchito mosazindikira.

Timayimba nambalayo - ndipo chitetezo chimatseguka. Koma chifukwa cha izi, code iyenera kusankhidwa bwino, nthanoyo imalembedwa mogwirizana, momveka bwino, popanda kusokoneza.

Ndizovuta kuchita izi, makamaka nthawi yoyamba. Nthawi ndi nthawi timagwera m'maganizo, kutaya ulusi wa nkhaniyi, kubwera ndi zilembo zachiwiri zomwe sizigwira ntchito yapadera. Ndipo timayatsanso mfundozo nthawi zonse, timayesetsa kufotokozera zomwe ziyenera kukhala zamatsenga.

Izi zitha kutanthauza kuti m'moyo weniweni timakonda kuwonetsa mochulukira, kusokoneza chilichonse, kulola anthu osafunikira m'miyoyo yathu, ndikuchita khama zosafunikira.

Koma nthano ikawulula zonsezi, ndizotheka kale kugwira nawo ntchito.

Kulemba nthano: malangizo kwa akuluakulu

1. Bwerani ndi nkhani ya nthano, kusinthasintha kwake komwe kudzakhala komveka kwa mwana wazaka 5-6.

Iyi ndi nthawi yomwe kuganiza kosawoneka sikunakhazikitsidwe, mwana amazindikira zambiri za dziko lapansi kudzera muzithunzi. Ndipo amaimiridwa bwino mu nthano, chifukwa chomwe mtundu wa "banki" wa zochitika za moyo umapangidwa, chithunzi chofunikira cha dziko.

2. Yambani ndi mawu apamwamba ("Kale panali ...", "Mu ufumu wina, dziko linalake"), kuyankha funso la omwe ali m'nkhaniyi.

3. Sungani zilembo zanu kukhala zosavuta: ayenera kukhala oimira zabwino kapena zoipa.

4. Tsatirani ndondomeko ya chitukuko cha chiwembu ndi mayanjano oyambitsa. Zoipa zikachitika m’nthano, zidziwike kuti ndani, motani, ndi chifukwa chiyani. Kugwirizana koyenera kwa chiwembucho kumagwirizana ndi kugwirizana kwa machitidwe athu amalingaliro. Ndipo tikakwaniritsa, tidzakwaniritsa zolinga zathu za moyo.

5. Kumbukiranikuti imodzi mwa injini zazikulu za chiwembu chanthano ndi matsenga, chozizwitsa. Musaiwale kugwiritsa ntchito chiwembu chopanda nzeru, chopanda nzeru, chodabwitsa: "mwadzidzidzi nyumba inakula kuchokera pansi", "iye anagwedeza ndodo yake yamatsenga - ndipo kalonga anakhala ndi moyo." Gwiritsani ntchito zinthu zamatsenga: mpira, chisa, galasi.

Ngati mwana angamvetsere nthano yanu, kodi angapirire muluwu watsatanetsatanewu? Ayi, angatope n’kuthawa

6. Gwirani chithunzi pamaso panu. Pofotokoza nkhani, onetsetsani kuti mphindi iliyonse iwonetsedwe ngati chithunzi chowoneka bwino. Palibe abstraction - zenizeni zokha. Mawu akuti "mwana wamkazi wa mfumu adachita chidwi" ndi nthano chabe, "mwana wamkazi adagwa wamoyo kapena wakufa" ndizowoneka.

7. Osasokoneza kapena kukulitsa chiwembucho. Ngati mwana angamvetsere nthano zanu, kodi angapirire zinthu zambiri zonsezi? Ayi, angatope n’kuthawa. Yesetsani kusunga chidwi chake.

8. Malizani nkhaniyo ndi mawu omveka bwino, koma osati pomaliza komanso osati ndi chikhalidwe cha zomwe zinanenedwa, koma ndi "cork" yomwe imatseka nkhaniyo: "Awa ndiye mapeto a nthano, koma ndani anamvetsera ...", "Ndipo adakhala mosangalala mpaka kalekale.”

9. Perekani mutu wa nkhaniyo. Phatikizani mayina a zilembo kapena mayina azinthu zinazake, koma osati ziganizo zosamveka. Osati "Za chikondi ndi kukhulupirika", koma "za mfumukazi yoyera ndi duwa lakuda."

Polemba nthano, m'pofunika kuganizira za thupi. Mukuyamba kuchita nseru? Kotero, ganizolo linasokonezeka, linapita kumbali. Tiyenera kubwerera pa chiyambi ndi kuyang'ana kumene kulephera kunachitika. Mwalimbikitsidwa, adrenaline "inasewera", mwathamanga? Muli panjira yoyenera.

Ngati chiwembu chanu sichinabadwe, mutha kutenga chimodzi mwazomwe zilipo ngati maziko - mudzafuna kusintha.

Ndipo lolani nthano yokhala ndi mathero osangalatsa ikhale gawo lanu loyamba kumoyo wachimwemwe!

Siyani Mumakonda