Moni, owerenga okondedwa a tsambali! Lero tikambirana zomwe zimapanga mtundu wa umunthu wa hyperthymic. Timaphunzira mikhalidwe yake yayikulu, komanso zinthu zomwe ali nazo komanso zolephera.
Khalidwe lalikulu
Katchulidwe kake kameneka ndi kosangalatsa komanso kopatsa chiyembekezo pakati pa ena onse. Anthu oterowo amakhala okondwa nthawi zonse, amakhala okangalika komanso amalimbana ndi zovuta, zomwe amawona ngati mwayi wokhala amphamvu komanso olimba.
Nthawi zambiri amapeza bwino pantchito yawo, chifukwa amafunitsitsa kuchita zinthu ndikuyamba kuchitapo kanthu, amadziyesa okha ntchito zosiyanasiyana kapena kusokoneza ntchito zomwe apatsidwa.
Nthawi zambiri amakhala pakati pa chidwi, zimakhala zovuta kuti asazindikire munthu yemwe amatha kuchita zinthu zana nthawi imodzi masana, ndikutha kuyankhulana ndi aliyense amene amamutsatira.
Mwa njira, iwo ndi olankhulana bwino kwambiri, okhoza kukopa ndi kukambirana, kusangalala. Amadziwa nthabwala zambiri komanso amakonda nthabwala.
Koma si zonse zomwe zili bwino monga zikuwonekera poyamba. Mtundu wa umunthu wa hyperthymic ukhoza kuphwanya malamulo, malamulo, makhalidwe abwino, chifukwa sungathe kudziimba mlandu komanso kudzimvera chisoni.
Chikumbumtima sichimakula, chikhumbo chofuna kusangalala chimakhalapo, ngakhale zotsatira za zochita zitakhala zoopsa. Safuna kuganiza za zoipazo, choncho ndi wokonzeka kudziika pangozi popanda chifukwa.
Kuganiza kumathamanga, motero amakhala opupuluma, olankhula. Kusangalala kwambiri nthawi zina kumataya okondedwa awo, omwe udindo wonse umagwera, zomwe zimanyalanyazidwa ndi hyperthyms. Malingaliro amalumphira, samatha kukhala pamutu umodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, pokhapokha chifukwa amatopa.
Mtundu uwu umadziwikanso chimodzimodzi m'magulu a ma accentuations a khalidwe, malinga ndi Leonhard ndi Lichko. Zitsanzo zoonekeratu: khalidwe lalikulu la filimu "Truffaldino Bergamo", amene anakwanitsa nthawi imodzi ganyu wantchito anthu awiri, komanso kukonza moyo wake. Kapena Jimm Carrey, kuwonjezera pa kukhala umunthu wa hyperthymic mwa iyemwini, adawonetsanso bwino makhalidwe a psychotype mu mafilimu a Mask ndi Ace Ventura.
Ubwana
Ana ndi aphokoso komanso ankhanza. Kumbuyo kwawo mukufunikira diso ndi diso, popeza sachita manyazi komanso kuti adziwane ndi akuluakulu, akungofuna kusinthanitsa mawu ochepa.
Ana asukulu amakonda kudumpha makalasi, chifukwa amapita ku sukulu tsiku lililonse, chifukwa m'pofunika - iwo sangathe.
Ngakhale kuti kuphunzira n’kosavuta kwa iwo, mfundo zatsopano amazigwira mwa ntchentche. Kodi mumadziwa nkhani za ophunzira omwe amayamba kuphunzira usiku wotsatira mayeso? Chifukwa chake, nthawi yomweyo, ma hyperthyms amatha kudutsa bwino.
Achinyamata amawoneka osasamala komanso osasamala, ngakhale kuti pa msinkhu wawo ayenera kukhala ndi maudindo ang'onoang'ono, ntchito. Ndipo ngakhale nthawi zonse amakhala osangalala, amathanso kukhala achisoni, amangoyesetsa kuti asawonetse ena.
Zoyesayesa za achikulire zowazoloŵera kulanga kapena kuchepetsa zofuna zawo zimathera m’mikangano yaikulu. Chifukwa, ngakhale amasangalala, amakhala okwiya msanga.
Iwo akhoza kukhala amwano, kufuula, kulankhula mokweza, koma kwenikweni pambuyo pa mphindi imodzi iwo amakhala chete. Ndiko kuti, saunjikana mikangano, samatonthola mwano.
Salola kusungulumwa, nthawi zonse amafunikira kulankhulana, osachepera ena. Kupanda kutero, mphamvu zomwe samamasula kunja zimayamba kuwononga thanzi lawo ndikukankhira kuchita zidzolo.
Mwachitsanzo, amachita zachiwerewere pochita zibwenzi. Kulumikizana ndi osadziwika mumsewu wakuda sizovuta kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi mawonekedwe awa. Saganiza n’komwe za mfundo yakuti ubwenzi woterowo ungakhale woopsa kwa iye.
Ludzu la ulendo, kulankhulana nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa mfundo yakuti wachinyamata woteroyo ali pakati pa anthu omwe amakhala ndi moyo wocheza nawo. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti kuyambira ali wamng'ono amayesa mowa, ndudu, mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Zowona, zosangulutsa zoterozo sizimakula kaŵirikaŵiri kukhala kumwerekera. Apanso, chifukwa ali ndi chidwi chofuna kuphunzira za dziko, ndichifukwa chake sakhala nthawi yayitali m'gulu limodzi kapena kampani imodzi.
Ntchito zamaluso
Ngakhale kuti ali ndi moyo wokangalika komanso kupambana komwe hyperthym imapindula chifukwa cha chikhumbo chofuna kuchita ndikukula, amakhalabe ndi chiopsezo chokhala ndi zovuta, mwachitsanzo, kubweretsa bizinesi yake ku bankirapuse.
Ndipo zonse chifukwa iye kawirikawiri amamaliza zinthu. Kawirikawiri amataya chidwi pakati pa njira, ndiyeno palibe chomwe chingamupangitse kuti agwire ntchito yomwe yakhazikitsidwa kale.
Chifukwa chake, zomwe apambana pa ntchito yake sizibwera chifukwa cha ntchito yake yolimba komanso yowawa, koma zomwe amalandira chifukwa cha kuopsa kwake. Zikutanthauza kuti akhoza kuyika chilichonse pachiwopsezo, ndikuyika pachiwopsezo chokhalabe pamsewu ngati atatayika. Koma, mutapambana, sikhala mwayi weniweni.
Sangathe kupereka moyo wake wonse ku ntchito imodzi, komanso, kumalo amodzi. Ataphunzira gawo limodzi, amasiya chidwi ndi izi ndipo nthawi yomweyo amasintha kupita kumakampani otsutsana nawo, ndikusankha kuyesa bizinesi yatsopano. Ndipo, chodabwitsa kwambiri, amatha kupeza zotsatira zomwe akufuna.
paubwenzi
Kwa moyo wabanja, anthu omwe ali ndi hyperthymic accentuation of character sasinthidwa kwambiri. Zomverera zimayamba nthawi yomweyo, m'masiku angapo amazindikira kuti adayamba kukondana ndipo akukonzekera ukwati, koma nthawi ina amazizira kwambiri ndikusinthana ndi munthu wina. Komanso kumva kuti amamukonda ndi mtima wanga wonse.
Moyo umawatopetsa, chifukwa chake, amatopa, amayesa kuyang'ana zosangalatsa, potuluka. Kawirikawiri, kuti mukhale ndi mnzanu m'banja, m'pofunika kuti muzitha kupanga zokopa kuti muwasangalatse kuti akhalebe pafupi.
A otsika mlingo wa udindo kumabweretsa chakuti iwo akhoza bwino kuiwala kukatenga mwana kusukulu kapena sukulu ya mkaka. Kapena, atapita ku golosale, ndipo atakumana ndi munthu wodziwika bwino, adzatayika naye kwa masiku angapo, osaganiza kuti banja silikumvetsa zomwe zinachitika.
Kotero, ndi iwo, ngakhale osakhazikika, koma osangalatsa. Ubale umapereka malingaliro ambiri abwino, msonkhano uliwonse ndi tchuthi. Amayang'ana mokongola, pamutu pawo pali malingaliro ambiri a momwe angapangire tsiku la banal lachilendo, kotero kuti mutu wawo ukuzungulira kuchokera kumaganizo ochuluka.
Iwo ndi mabwenzi abwino, chifukwa adzabwera kudzapulumutsa mosazengereza kwa sekondi imodzi. Ngakhale atawaitana pakati pausiku ndikuwapempha kuti abwere kumalo ena mumzindawo.
Nyumbayo nthawi zambiri imakhala yodzaza ndi alendo, omwe amakhala okonzeka kuwawona nthawi iliyonse ya tsiku. Izi nthawi zambiri zimabweretsa mikangano ndi mnzanu wapabanja. Sikuti aliyense amakhutira ndi mfundo yakuti alendo osawadziwa amabwera kunyumba kwake ndipo nthawi zina amakhala kwa nthawi yopanda malire, akukhala ngati mu hostel.
Ukawakhumudwitsa, Sangabise choipa. Adzangofotokoza zimene sanakonde, ndipo adzapitiriza kulankhula ngati kuti palibe chimene chachitika.
Mosavuta, mumangofunika kukambirana za ulendo wina, popeza adzanyamula kale zikwama zawo ndikuyimbira abwenzi kuti aziwasunga.
malangizo
- Perekani mwana wanu mwayi wotulutsa mphamvu. Ngati mabwalo osiyanasiyana amatopa ana ena, m'malo mwake, amapereka mphamvu ndi chilimbikitso kuti akule. Inde, ndipo adzachita zovuta zochepa ngati ali wokonda masewera ndi luso.
- Mupatseni iye nkhani za bungwe, mwachitsanzo, muloleni ajambule kanema woyamikira mmodzi wa mamembala a banja, pamene aliyense amene amamudziwa akunena zokhumba zabwino polemekeza tsiku lake lobadwa. Nthawi zambiri, simuyenera kumukakamiza kuti achite zomwe sakonda, zomwe ndi ntchito yolimbikira. Pangani zinthu kwa iye, momwe, m'malo mwake, adzatha kuzindikira zomwe angathe.
- Ngati muli ndi khalidweli, onetsetsani kuti mwalowa masewera, kusinkhasinkha, kusambira, kuthamanga. Ndikofunika osati kuzindikira mphamvu zomwe zasonkhanitsidwa, komanso kuphunzira kumasuka.
- Pezani kope lomwe mungalembemo malingaliro anu, mapulani anu ndi momwe mukumvera. Ndikofunika kuti pang'onopang'ono muzolowere kuwonetsera, ndiko kuti, kuchita nawo chidziwitso. Izi zidzakulitsa mlingo wa kudziletsa, kudziletsa.
akamaliza
Ndipo ndizo zonse za lero, owerenga okondedwa! Tikukulimbikitsani kuti mudziwe bwino mitundu yonse ya katchulidwe ka anthu kuti mudziwe kuti ndinu ndani.
Inde, ndipo chidziwitso choterocho chidzakuthandizani kukhazikitsa maubwenzi ndi anthu ena omwe ali osiyana ndi inu, zomwe nthawi zina zimayambitsa kusamvana ndi mikangano.
Mukhoza kuyamba, mwachitsanzo, ndi mawu otsutsana kwambiri ndi hyperthymic. Anthu oterowo, m'malo mwake, amakhala okhumudwa nthawi zonse komanso okhumudwa, chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri "amagwera" m'mavuto.
Dzisamalireni nokha ndikukhala osangalala!
Nkhaniyi inakonzedwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, Gestalt Therapist, Zhuravina Alina