Kuchita Matsenga

Kuchita Matsenga

Chiyambi cha fetishism

Mawu oti "fetishism" amachokera ku Chipwitikizi spell kutanthauza kupangira, kulodza, kulodza. Zikuwoneka mu Chifalansa m'zaka za zana la XNUMX motsogozedwa ndi a De Brosses1. Wodabwitsidwa ndi zinthu izi zopembedzedwa ndi anthu aku Africa, otchedwa fetish, amayambitsa mawu oti ayenerere chipembedzo:

« Ndikupempha kuti aloledwe kugwiritsa ntchito mawuwa mwachizolowezi, ndipo ngakhale tanthauzo lake likugwirizana makamaka ndi zikhulupiriro za Anegro aku Africa, ndikuchenjeza pasadakhale kuti ndikufunanso kuti ndiwagwiritse ntchito. kuyankhula za fuko lina lirilonse lomwe anthu amalambiramo nyama kapena zinthu zopanda moyo zomwe zimalambiridwa; ngakhale polankhula nthawi zina za anthu ena omwe zinthu zamtunduwu ndizochepa kwa milungu yomwe amatchedwa choncho, kuposa zinthu zopatsidwa ulemu waumulungu, maula, zithumwa, ndi zithumwa zotetezera ".

Kumayambiriro kwenikweni kwa zaka za m'ma XNUMX, liwu loti "fetishist" silimatanthauzanso wotsatira wachipembedzo choyambirira, koma cha "Kupotoza" kwamakono, m'lingaliro la kusakhazikika, kusokonezeka kwa kugonana. Kuvomereza kwatsopano kwa mawuwa ndikodabwitsa, kuchitira umboni pamenepo zosowa zamatsenga zosatsutsika. Kugwiritsa ntchito "chinthu" chopatutsidwa ku cholinga chakugonana chidafotokozedwa kwa nthawi yayitali koma mpaka pano sichinatchulidwe mwachindunji. 

Kodi fetish ndi chiyani?

Wodziwika kuti ndi vuto lokonda kugonana mu International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Mavuto, "fetishism" imayikidwa pakati pa "sadomasochism" ndi chiwonetsero. Amadziwika ndi kutchulidwa koyambirira gawo limodzi la thupi la mnzake, chifukwa chakuthupi kapena kwamaganizidwe kapena pazinthu zopanda moyo, nthawi zambiri zovala. Nawu mndandanda wazinthu zodziwika bwino:

- Chifuwa, mphuno, manja, mphasa;

- tsitsi, utoto, kufooka, kununkhiza;

- mipango, nsapato, usiku, zikondamoyo zolira;

- Mapazi, pakamwa, yunifolomu, ndi zina zambiri.

- Mtundu wazinthu: chikopa, latex, ubweya.

Zinthu izi zimadzutsidwa, mwa kuyanjana, ziwonetsero zamphamvu za umunthu ndipo zitha kulimbikitsa mphamvu yakumverera kwachisangalalo chogonana chomwe chapezeka.

Kodi fetish ndi ndani?

Aliyense ndi "wachinyamata wocheperako" wachikondi malinga ndi Binet. Chifukwa chake amasiyanitsa "fetishism yaying'ono" ndi "fetishism yayikulu", yomwe ingakhale yovuta.

Khalidwe lamatenda limayamba pomwe "chikondi cha chilichonse" chimakhala chachikulu mpaka kufafaniza ena onse. Max dessoir ndi: « chikondi chachizolowezi chikuwoneka kwa ife ngati nyimbo yopanga mawu amitundu yonse. Zimachokera kuzisangalalo zosiyanasiyana. Ndiye, akupembedza milungu yambiri. Wamatsenga amadziwa kokha chida cha chida chimodzi; Zimapangidwa ndi chisangalalo chotsimikizika, ndizodalira Mulungu m'modzi. »

Zolemba zitatu zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kusinthana ndi matenda fetishism :

- Kukhazikika kwa mzere wozengereza: timasungira izi m'moyo wathu wonse.

- Kusasunthika kwa chikoka

- Khalidwe lokhalokha la chinthucho ndikukhutira ndi chiwerewere mpaka kuwonongeka kwathunthu. 

Kodi titha kuchiza zamatsenga?

Kuyambira pachiyambi pomwe (kuwonetsedwa makamaka ndi nkhani ya mwana wachikazi wodziwika bwino wa "nightcap" yemwe akuti adadabwitsa abambo ake ndi amayi ake usiku atakwanitsa zaka 5 ali pabedi), akatswiri azamisala akayikira ena “Zojambula paubwana Kumayambiriro kuti atenge gawo lalikulu pakukonzekera kwa fetish.

Zochitika zaubwana, makamaka pakati pa zaka 4 mpaka 6, zikuwoneka kuti zimathandizira pakuwonongeka kwachiwerewere. 

Kuchita zachiwerewere kumatha kukhala kovuta kwa wozunzidwayo komanso kwa mnzake yemwe nthawi zambiri amamva kuti sakondedwa kwathunthu. Miyambo yobwerezabwereza komanso yoletsa yomwe okonda feteleza amafuna amathanso kutopetsa okondedwa.

Pazifukwa izi, ena amapita kuchipatala, psychotherapy kapena chithandizo chazidziwitso. Izi zidzafunika kuti muyankhule kaye ndi akatswiri wamba kapena akatswiri. 

 

Mawuwo

«Palibe chokhumudwitsa pansi pano kuposa wachikazi yemwe amalakalaka nsapato ndipo ayenera kukhala wokhutira ndi mkazi wathunthu. » Karl Kraus, Le Flambeau (The Torch), June 5, 1908, p. 25, palibe 256.

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