Zamkatimu
Chaka chatsopano akufuna
N’cifukwa ciani zokhumba zimacitika? Kapena m’malo mwake, n’chifukwa chiyani zokhumba zina zimakwaniritsidwa, pamene zina sizichitika? Ndipo pali matsenga omwe amathandizira kuti "maloto akwaniritsidwe"?
Kuyambira ndili mwana, ndinadzifunsa mafunso amenewa, monga mmene mtsikana aliyense wachikondi amene amakhulupirira zozizwitsa. Komabe, yankho loyamba, kapenanso ngakhale YANKHO (ndi chilembo chachikulu), ndinakumbukira kwa moyo wanga wonse. Kuyambira pamenepo, mayankho adayamba kuwonekera ndikuphatikizana momveka bwino. Koma chochitikacho chinangondidabwitsa, “ndinandigwetsera pansi” ndi mphamvu yake… Chifukwa chimatsutsana kotheratu ndi chiphunzitso cha kuthekera… Ndipo mwina ngakhale kukonda chuma…
Ndinali ndi zaka 13, moyo wanga wonse unali wodzaza ndi nyimbo za gulu limene ndinkakonda kwambiri. Wofananira wachinyamata amakupiza, m'njira yabwino. Ndiyeno ine ndikupeza kuti konsati ophatikizana ikuchitika pa Olimpiysky, kumene gulu ndimaikonda kuchita. Usikuuno. Ndinaganiza: sindidzakhala ngati sindimenya! Kapena m'malo mwake, sindinaganize choncho: NDINANGODZIWA kuti ndikafika kumeneko! Chifukwa ndi uwu - mwayi wowona mafano anga ali moyo, apa pali loto - kutali kwambiri! Inde, kunali kosatheka kupeza matikiti, kuchepa kwathunthu kwa zaka makumi asanu ndi atatu, koma izi sizinandiletse: ndikuwombera tikiti, kuti ndilowemo - ndipo, ndikuphwanya banki ya nkhumba, ndikusonkhanitsa ndalama zonse za 50-kopeck, Ndinapita ku concert ...
Nditatsika m’sitima yapansi panthaka, kutsimikiza mtima kwanga kunayesedwa kwambiri: m’mphepete mwa msewu wopita ku nyumba yachifumu munali makamu a anthu opempha tikiti yowonjezereka. Lingaliro nthawi yomweyo lidayamba kuwerengera mwayi ... koma ... Mouma khosi ndinaganiza zopita kumalo komwe kunali konsati. Ndipo pano ndaima pagulu lalikulu, ndikuzizira mu jekete yopepuka kwambiri chifukwa cha nyengo yotere ... kwatsala mphindi khumi ndi zisanu kuti konsati iyambe ... ndingotsala ndi mphindi khumi ndi zisanu ... ndiye mwina ndidzagwetsa misozi kapena ndidzawapempha agogo a tikiti… Mukufuna tikiti?" Ndichiyembekezo nditembenuka, ndikuwona munthu akuthamanga kudutsa yemwe adanena izi. “Tiye nane,” akutero mosaima. Tatsala pang'ono kuthamanga, ndikudutsa agogo a tikiti, omwe samamufunsa iye kapena ine za chilichonse .... Timapita ku gawo pansi pa denga, amandiyika pa benchi yosavuta - ndikusiya! Popanda kukakamiza ndalama, popanda kuyesa kudziwana… monga choncho… wangobwera chifukwa cha mainjiniya omveka kapena mainjiniya owunikira… Chifukwa chake - pali chisangalalo! Ndili ku konsati - ndizowonjezera. Koma simungathe kuwona kalikonse, ndizokwera kwambiri - ndipo izi ndi zochepa. Gululo ladzaza ndi asilikali, ndipo mwadzidzidzi mmodzi wa iwo akundiuza kuti: "Kodi ukufuna kuchiwona chachikulu?" -ndipo amanyamula magalasi enieni. Zikuwonekeratu pang'onopang'ono, misozi yachisangalalo ikutsika m'masaya a wachinyamata ...
Chifukwa chake, mosiyana ndi chiphunzitso cha kuthekera ndi malingaliro atsiku ndi tsiku kuti muyenera kulipira chilichonse, ndidalowa m'maloto anga.
Ndikanati ndiganiziretu za kusatheka kwa chimwemwe chimenechi, sindikanayesera nkomwe, chifukwa zinali zoonekeratu kwa aliyense amene anaona khamu la anthu ali ndi ludzu lofuna tikiti… Koma—zinachitika… zinsinsi, chifukwa cha chidziwitso chomwe chikhumbo chilichonse chingachitike.
Zaka zingapo pambuyo pake, pamene ine, ndinali wophunzira kale, ndinachita nawo maphunziro (chinachake chonga “Kuganiza Bwino”), ophunzitsa anzeru anandiuza zinsinsi zimenezi. Koma panali esotericism yochuluka, ndipo panthawiyo ndinali wokonda chuma ... ” iwo anapereka. Kenako mphunzitsiyo anapereka kupanga "mayeso" chilakolako. Ndipo ndidaganiza zoyesera: kusukulu komwe ndidaphunzira, adayambitsa mayeso amodzi otsimikizira - tikiti iliyonse imakhala ndi mafunso 20 pamitu yonse yomwe yadutsa. Ineyo ndinali nditasankha kale njira ina ndipo ndinali pafupi kusiya makoma a alma mater, kotero sindinataye kalikonse. Nachi chifukwa choyesera! Pamene anzanga a m'kalasi anali kupenga, akuwerenga manotsi ndi mabuku, kuyesera kukumbatira zazikulu, ine ndinangopanga chikhumbo chopambana mayeso. Ndipo ndi uyu. Ndimatenga tikiti - ndikupeza kuti mwa mafunso onse omwe ndikudziwa mayankho a 2 okha. Chabwino, zili kuti zotsatira zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pogwiritsa ntchito teknoloji?! Ndipo mwadzidzidzi ... Tsoka linandiwonetsa yemwe anali bwana m'nyumbamo: mtsikana anakhala patsogolo panga, yemwe anzanga a m'kalasi sankamukonda, koma amene ndinali naye bwino. Poona kukhumudwa kwanga, adandifunsa nambala yanga ya tikiti ndikundipatsa tikiti yobweza ndalama zonse. Zinapezeka kuti mtsikanayo ankagwira ntchito nthawi yochepa ku ofesi ya dean, adasindikiza matikiti awa ndikugwira nawo ntchito zonse. Ndinamva zoipa - ndinaphimbidwa ndi mtambo waumulungu wa malingaliro a gulu. Apa ndi, chikhumbo changa, m'manja mwanga ... Panthawiyo, ndinazindikira, ngati si kuti lingaliro ndi lopatsa moyo, ndiye kuti «chinachake» - pali njira kukopa zochitika. Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, sindinayambe kugwiritsa ntchito lusoli, komanso kuti ndiphunzire kupyolera mu chidziwitso chonse cha psychology.
Luso la Kuganiza Mwadongosolo
Kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako ndiko luso la kulingalira mwadongosolo. Kuti chikhumbocho chikwaniritsidwe, ndikofunikira kudziwa dongosolo lazofunikira zanu komanso dongosolo lazosowa zanu. Zoona zake n’zakuti nthawi zambiri timakonda kunyenga osati anthu ena okha n’kumanamizira kuti sitili mmene tilili, komanso kudzinyenga tokha. Kumbukirani «Stalker»… Ndi kangati timamva kubuula kwa anzathu: "Sindingathe kupuma, ndimagwira ntchito molimbika, palibe nthawi yopumula, ndipo ndikufuna kukapumula." Imani. Kodi anthu amenewa amafunadi kumasuka? Amakhala ndi maloto ofunikira ofunikira, osasinthika - chifukwa chake chikhumbochi chimakwaniritsidwa. Tonsefe timadziwa bwino lomwe kuti anthu amene amafunsa mokwiya kuti: “N’chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kukuchitirani chilichonse?” - monga lamulo, izi ndizo zomwe akufuna, ndipo ndi khalidwe lawo amakwiyitsa ena ku khalidwe losasamala. Munthu akakhala ndi zilakolako zingapo, champhamvucho chimakwaniritsidwa. Ngati mukufuna kukhala wosasinthika, sipadzakhala mpumulo. Ngati, komabe, mumalakalaka kupumula, mwayi wake udzabwera, ndipo, mwina, kuchokera komwe simukuyembekezera ...
Ndipo nayi nsonga ina: musachepetse njira zomwe zotsatira zomwe mukuyembekezera zingabwere kwa inu. Tangoganizani kuti muli ndi maloto - kupita ku Thailand. Kodi chofunika n’chiyani kuti malotowo akwaniritsidwe? Osati kungofuna, koma kufuna kuti zikhale bwino. Lamulo loyamba ndi lakuti sitiyenera kudziyendetsa tokha m’kanjira kakang’ono ndi zoletsa zimene timaika pa zilakolako zathu. "Ndigwira ntchito molimbika - ndikupeza ndalama zopitira ku Thailand." Ichi ndi chikhumbo chosokera. Inde, ngati cholinga ndikupeza ndalama, osati kupita ku Thailand, ndiye kuti zonse ziri zolondola ... N'kutheka kuti mukhoza kupita kumeneko paulendo wamalonda. Pakhoza kukhala munthu amene angakupatseni ulendowu. Mupambana ndalama zomwe zimafunikira mu lotale - kapena ulendo potumiza ma tag 5 kuchokera ku khofi, ndudu kapena ma bouillon cubes ... kwa milungu ingapo kuti apite ku United States kukaphunzira za chipembedzo chawo ndi ndalama zawo. Iye anavomera mosangalala (ngakhale sanaganizire nkomwe njira yoteroyo kuti akwaniritse maloto ake).
Poika malire ("Ndidzangopita ndi ndalama zomwe ndimapeza"), mumaletsa mwayi wina. Mwayi umapita komwe kuli kotseguka. Ngati mumaumirira njira yokwaniritsira zomwe mukufuna, zimapangitsa kuti ntchitoyi ikhale yovuta kwambiri kwa mphamvu zomwe zimakwaniritsa zokhumba. Pa nkhani imeneyi, chitsanzo cha mnzanga n’chophunzitsa kwambiri. Amafunadi kupatsidwa bwino - ndipo pazifukwa zina adagwirizanitsa kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo ichi ndi ntchito. Koma mwadzidzidzi mwamuna wake anakhala wolemera kwambiri, anakhala “Wachirasha watsopano” wofanana ndi iye ndipo anafuna kwa iye, monga momwe “akazi atsopano Achirasha” ayenera kukhalira, asiye kugwira ntchito. Zoonadi, sizinali zimene ankatanthauza, koma zimene anapempha. Tidzakambirana za mawu olondola a zilakolako pambuyo pake.
Pakadali pano, tiyeni tiyambe kumvetsetsa ukadaulo wopangira zokhumba. Inde, luso lovutali lili ndi ndondomeko yakeyake.
Khwerero XNUMX - Kusanthula
Ndizothandiza makamaka kupanga zokhumba za Chaka Chatsopano, Tsiku Lobadwa - mukakhala ndi chidwi chapadera, pamene, monga ubwana, simukukayikira kuti zozizwitsa ndizotheka ... luso limeneli ndi oyenera tsiku lililonse la moyo.
Chochita choyamba ndikudzikonzekeretsa m'malingaliro kuti mukwaniritse chikhumbocho. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kupenda zinthu zabwino zomwe zakuchitirani posachedwapa. Kumbukirani milandu pamene, kwenikweni, munangoyenera kuganiza: «Zingakhale zabwino ...» - ndipo izi zinachitika posachedwa. Chifukwa chake, timasintha malingaliro athu kuti akhale abwino komanso enieni. Zingakhale zofunikira kukumbukira momwe mudalandirira mphatso zing'onozing'ono kuchokera ku tsoka ndikupeza chikhulupiliro kuti izi sizingatheke, kuti izi ndi zachilendo komanso zolondola. Ndinachedwa, koma ndinadumphira mgalimoto .... Ndidaganiza za munthu woyenera - ndipo adawonekera ... Ndinakumbukira tsiku lobadwa la mnzanga munthawi yake - ndikulandila ntchito yosangalatsa kuchokera kwa iye ...
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuyesa kuwona moyo moyenera. Nzeru za anthu zimati: "Zimene munkaopa - ndi zomwe zinachitika." Anthu omwe amawopa china chake makamaka amatumiza mauthengawa ku Chilengedwe - ndipo chifukwa chake amalandira "yankho" lokwanira la "makalata" awa. Tikamaganizira kwambiri za moyo wathu, timakhala ndi mwayi wokwaniritsa zokhumba zathu.
Gawo XNUMX - mawu
"Ambuye amatilanga mwa kukwaniritsa zokhumba zathu"
(Eastern nzeru)
Pambuyo pake, pakukula kwamalingaliro, muyenera kupanga chikhumbo chanu chatsopano. Pali malamulo ena ofunika kwambiri apa:
- Ndikofunika kuti mawu a chikhumbocho amveke bwino! Simungathe - "Sindikufuna kuti izi zichitike." Nenani zomwe mukufuna. Osati “Sindikufuna kuti mwana wanga adwale”, koma “Ndikufuna kuti mwana wanga akhale wathanzi”.
- Ndikoyenera kuyesera kupanga m'njira yoti pakupanga kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo sikudalira anthu ena, koma kwa inu. Osati "Ndikufuna kuti kalonga abwere", koma "Ndikufuna kuti kalonga ayambe kundikonda." Komabe, ngakhale mawuwo atakhala "kukhala wosangalatsa kwambiri mpaka amandikonda" - sizoyipanso, chifukwa mwanjira iyi timadzipanga tokha kuti tipeze chithumwa cha kalonga uyu - ndipo china chake chitha ...
- Ndikofunikira kupanga chikhumbo molingana ndi moyo wanu weniweni. Mnzanga, yemwe, monga gwero la chuma, adatenga udindo wa mkazi watsopano wa ku Russia, ngati akufuna kupeza chuma yekha, ndipo chikhumbocho chiyenera kupangidwa mosiyana. Mwachitsanzo, "Ndikufuna kugwira ntchito ndi ndalama zambiri, kukhala wofunidwa ndikusangalala nazo."
- Muyenera kupanga chikhumbocho, mochepa kwambiri, kufotokozera mosamala "chikhalidwe" chilichonse, kapena mozama kwambiri. Tangoganizani kuti chikhumbo chanu chikuvomereza mtundu wina wa makompyuta apadziko lonse lapansi. Mukukumbukira momwe kusaka pakompyuta kumakhazikitsidwa? Mwina mawu olondola kwambiri akufunika, kapena pempho liyenera kukhala lalikulu momwe mungathere.
Tiyerekeze kuti mtsikana akuganiza kuti: "Ndikufuna kalonga abwere." Ndipo ngati kalonga abwera ku ofesi yake pa bizinesi - ndikuchoka? Amawonjezera ku chilinganizo cham'mbuyomu: "... ndipo adakondana." Mwina chikhumbocho chidzakwaniritsidwa, koma palibe chinthu choyipa kuposa kalonga wachikondi wosayenerera. Chabwino, akuwonjezera kuti: "... ndipo ndikufuna kuti ndiyambe kukondana naye." Koma kenako amazindikira kuti palibe choyipa kuposa kalonga wokondedwa komanso wokondedwa yemwe alibe mfulu .... Ndi zina zotero ndi zosiyana. Izi siziyenera kukambidwa mochuluka panthawi imodzi, bwino - osaposa 5 ... Nayi nkhani yoseketsa: atsikana awiri "anapempha" mwamuna. Iwo analemba, monga kuyembekezera, zosaposa 5 makhalidwe a okondedwa kuyembekezera ... Ndipo wokondedwa anabwera - monga anapempha, ndi wanzeru, ndi wokongola, ndi wolemera ... Wina aku Nigeria, ndipo wina ndi United Arab Emirates. Chilichonse chinali chabwino, kokha muzopempha zawo zomwe atsikanawo sanasonyeze kuti akufuna akalonga a "Russian production".
Nthawi zina zingakhale zothandiza kupereka «yatakata pempho». Mwachitsanzo, musaganize za kalonga kapena za mnansi Vasya, koma ingofunsani "kuti moyo wanga waumwini ukonzedwe bwino." Komabe, tiyenera kukumbukiranso lamulo limene tatchula kale: pamene zilakolako zikutsutsana wina ndi mzake, wamphamvu kwambiri. Ngati mtsikana akufuna banja komanso ntchito, ndizotheka kuti "chabwino kwambiri" kwa iye chingakhale kusakhala ndi vuto ndi banja lake kuti ntchito yake ikhale yopambana ...
Ino ndi nthawi yoti mukambirane za kusasinthasintha kachiwiri: popanga chikhumbo, m'pofunika kuganizira zotsatira zomwe zingatheke, kunena kwake, kuyang'ana "ubwenzi wachilengedwe" wa zilakolako. Pamene ndinali kuyesa zokondweretsa kupanga zokhumba, mwamsanga ndinatsimikiza kuti uwunso ndi udindo waukulu. Panthawi ina, ndinaganiza mwadzidzidzi: "Kodi sindikulamula ndalama chiyani?". Ndipo ndinaganiza «kuti» ndalama, amene pa nthawiyo ankaoneka zakuthambo - 5 madola zikwi pamwezi. Patatha mlungu umodzi, mnzanga wovala magalasi akuda ndi alonda 2 anabwera ku maphunziro anga. Pa nthawi yopuma, anandiitananso n’kunena kuti: “Mwatiyenerera. Timakupatsirani ntchito ya $ 5 pamwezi kwa zaka ziwiri. Mudzakhala m'gawo lathu, kutilangiza pazokambirana, ndiyeno momwe mukufunira, koma zomwe mwalandira sizikhala ndi ufulu wowulula. Ndinadwala. Inde, ndi zimene ndinapempha. Koma ndalama izi ndikufuna kusangalala, osati chipolopolo pamphumi zaka 2. Ndimasangalalabe kuti ndinasiya kucheza naye. Ndipo ndidawonjezera mawu oti "kotero kuti ndimakonda!" ... Zowona, kukhazikitsidwa kwa chikhumbochi ndi kusintha kwatsopano sikunatenge milungu iwiri, koma zaka zisanu.
Pano pali chinthu china chofunika kwambiri: pali lingaliro la ntchito ya munthu aliyense. Ndipo ngati munthu atsatira zimene “anatumizidwira” ku dziko lino, amalandira mphatso. Ngati mizere yosadziwika bwino ya kulephera idayamba mwadzidzidzi m'moyo wanu, ndi nthawi yoti muwone ngati mudazimitsa njirayo nthawi ina. Chitsanzo chowoneka bwino cha "kutembenukira" koteroko chinasonyezedwa ndi mnzanga: iye anali kuchita kuchotsa zidakwa kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa, pamene lingaliro mwadzidzidzi linamuchitikira kuti apite ku bizinesi yaikulu. Iye analinganiza kampani, koma patapita nthaŵi anayamba kudwala, banjalo linaloŵerera m’vuto, ndipo kumangidwako kunali kuchimake. Anakhala zaka 2 m'ndende - ndipo, chifukwa cha ntchito ya loya, adamasulidwa. Mosiyana ndi zomwe ankayembekezera, adatuluka ali wokondwa: m'ndende anali ndi mwayi woganizira zonse, kuwerenga mabuku, kuchitira anthu, ndiko kuti, anachita zomwe anali wabwino kwambiri. Ndipo atatuluka, adayambanso kuchiritsa - iye mwini akufotokoza izi ponena kuti "adabwezedwa ku zomwe amayenera kuchita."
Khwerero XNUMX - "tikiti yopita ku cinema"
Chikhumbocho chikapeza ubwino wa masamu, munthu ayenera kulingalira chikhumbo ichi, adzilowetse, alowemo. Kuwona ndi diso lamkati "filimu" yotereyi yomwe chilakolako ichi chachitika kale. Mwina ukwati ndi kalonga kapena tchuthi chabanja ndi ana anu wamba ... Ofesi ya bwana yokhala ndi pepala lolemera komanso mlembi wokongola akubweretsa khofi kwa inu, abwana ... Onani Paris kuchokera ku Eiffel Tower ... Chithunzi chanu pa ID ya wophunzira watsopano khadi … atolankhani msonkhano za kutulutsidwa kwa buku lanu latsopano … Izi «filimu» ayenera kwenikweni kusangalatsa inu, ndipo chenicheni chake chimapangitsa chikhumbo kukhala pafupifupi «chogwirika» ndi kuthandiza kuti chikwaniritsidwe. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri! Muyenera kukhala odziwika bwino mufilimuyi! Chifukwa mwina, mutha kukumana ndi ofesi yomwe mudayiwona, koma sizikukhudzana ndi inu ...
Khwerero XNUMX - "Chifukwa ndiyenera"
Tiyenera kupeza njira, "sesame yotseguka," yomwe ingatiyimbitse nthawi zonse m'njira yabwino - chikhulupiriro chothandizira chotero. Zitha kukhala chilichonse malinga ndi kukoma kwanu. Mwachitsanzo,
- Ndine mwana wokondedwa wa chilengedwe chonse
- mphamvu zonse za chilengedwe zilipo kukwaniritsa zokhumba zanga
- ngati Mulungu adandilenga, ndiye kuti adandilengera zonse zomwe ndikufunika
- palibe chikhumbo chimene chimatuluka mwa munthu popanda njira yochikwaniritsa
- Ndiyenera kukhala ndi moyo wabwino - ndipo nthawi zonse ndimapeza zomwe ndikuyenera kuchita
- Chilengedwe ndi malo ochezeka odzaza ndi zinthu
Njira iyi iyenera kulandiridwa ndi mtima wanu wonse, tchulani nokha, dzitsimikizireni nokha.
Nthawi yomweyo, ngati ndinu opembedza, ndiye kuti ili ndi pemphero kwa mulungu wanu. Ngati simukugwirizanitsa zomwe zikuchitika ndi mphamvu zapamwamba, ndiye kuti mawuwo ayenera kukhala okonda chuma. Mwachitsanzo: "Ndimawona zinthu zabwino zikuchitika kwa ine." Zikhulupiriro za moyo wathu zili ngati bedi la maluwa: limakhala ndi maluwa abwino komanso udzu. Zikhulupiriro zovulaza ("simuli kanthu", "simuyenera kukhala ndi moyo wabwino") ziyenera kuchotsedwa mwankhanza, ndipo zabwino ziyenera kunyamulidwa, kuthiriridwa ... Mwachitsanzo, dziyerekezeni kuti ndinu mwana wokondedwa wa Chilengedwe Chonse. Pano simungakhale wamanyazi: palibe amene angawone filimu yanu, mukhoza kulingalira chirichonse chomwe mumakonda - kuchokera ku maonekedwe ofatsa a Mulungu mpaka ku mafunde olandirira a mahema a amuna obiriwira kapena mtsinje wa kuwala. Ndikofunika kuti "chikondi cha chilengedwe" ichi chikupatseni chidaliro.
Khwerero XNUMX - Nthawi, Madeti ndi Zizindikiro
Onetsetsani, poganizira, kambiranani nthawi ya kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbocho. Kupatula apo, ndi kangati zomwe zimachitika kuti chikhumbo chomwe chidapangidwa kalekale chimakwaniritsidwa - koma sichikufunikanso. Chifukwa chake, polosera, muyenera kukhazikitsa nthawi yomwe mukuyembekezera kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo chanu. Pali choletsa chimodzi chokha pano: musaganize kuti zisudzo zitatha mphindi 15 ngati simukukhulupirira kuti ndizotheka.
Samalani ndi zizindikiro zomwe zimatsagana nanu m'moyo. Ngati mukuganiza za nkhani yovuta pobwerera kunyumba, pangani chikhumbo m’maganizo ndipo, mukuyang’ana m’mwamba panthaŵiyo, onani mawu aakulu pakhoma la nyumbayo: “Chifukwa chiyani?” - Dziyankheni nokha funso ili, sizongochitika mwangozi.
Mumachoka m'nyumba, mochedwa mopenga, ndipo galimotoyo imasweka, zoyendetsa pansi zikuyenda bwino, koma, kuthana ndi zopinga zonse, mumafika pamsonkhano wofunika - ndipo msonkhano unathetsedwa. Nkhani yodziwika bwino? Koma zinali zotheka kuneneratu - kunali kofunikira kutsatira zizindikiro zokha. Munthu amene amadzimvera yekha ndi zizindikiro nthawi ina adzachita zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa pa nthawi yoyamba: imbani ndikupeza ngati msonkhano walephereka.
Mafilimu a "Blinded by Wishes" ndi "Route 60" akhoza kukhala malangizo abwino a momwe angapangire zofuna ndi zomwe zimachitika ngati teknoloji sichitsatiridwa.
"Ngati achoka, ndi nthawi zonse"
Chikhumbo sichiyenera kungopanga chokhumba - chiyenera kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Pali fanizo pankhaniyi. Munthu wina anapita kumwamba ndipo, chifukwa chakuti anali wozoloŵera kugwira ntchito, anapempha kanthu kena. Analangizidwa kuti awononge kabati ya mafayilo kuyambira kulengedwa kwa dziko. Poyamba, iye anazikonza mosalingalira bwino, ndiyeno anaŵerenga limodzi la makadiwo… Pamenepo, pafupi ndi dzina lachibale ndi dzina la wokhala m’paradaiso, panasonyezedwa madalitso amene anayenera kulandira m’moyo wapadziko lapansi. Bamboyo adapeza khadi lake ndikuwerenga kuti amayenera kukhala ndi ntchito yabwino kwambiri m'moyo wake, nyumba yansanjika zitatu, mkazi wokongola, ana awiri aluso, magalimoto atatu ... Ndipo adamva kuti adanyengedwa. Iye akuthamangira ndi madandaulo kwa olamulira akumwamba, ndipo iwo anamuyankha kuti: “Tiyeni tiganizire. Mutamaliza giredi 8, tinakukonzerani malo kusukulu ya anthu osankhika, koma munapita kusukulu yophunzitsa ntchito zamanja pafupi ndi ngodya. Kenaka tinakusungirani mkazi wokongola, munayenera kukumana naye kum'mwera, koma munaganiza zosunga ndalama, ndipo munapempha "pang'ono Luska kuchokera pakhomo lotsatira" ngati mkazi wanu. Sitinakane inu… Munali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi nyumba pamene azakhali anu anakufunsani kuti mubwere—munakana, ndipo ankafuna kukusiyirani cholowa… Chabwino, zidakhala zoseketsa ndi galimotoyo: mpaka anakuzemberani. matikiti a lotale, koma inu anasankha Zaporozhets «...
Pali anthu ambiri omwe amapanga zokhumba, koma sanakonzekere kukwaniritsidwa kwawo, ndipo mwina amatsitsa zokhumba izi, kapena, zikachitika, amayamba kukayikira, ngakhale kukana. Ngati mwapanga msonkhano ndi munthu amene mukufunikira, khalani okonzeka kukumana naye, ndipo mukakumana, musathamangire, chifukwa nthawi yotsatira sizingakhale, lolani kuti chikhumbocho chikwaniritsidwe. Dziwani kuti "chikondi poyang'ana koyamba" alipo - chikondi ndi munthu, bungwe, chinthu. Osatsutsa amene amabwera m'manja mwanu, chifukwa ndiye kuti zidzakhala zovuta kukwaniritsa chikhumbo chanu.
Iwo omwe amvetsetsa kapena akumva kuti kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako "pa dongosolo lathu" n'kotheka kapena akukayikirabe, koma ali okonzeka kuyesa, sangawerenge mopitirira. Achikondi amakhulupilira kuti ndi matsenga chabe! Ichi ndi chozizwitsa Chinsinsi! Yesani ndikuwona!
Ngati zikuwoneka kwa inu kuti pali matsenga ochuluka mu aligorivimu yathu - chabwino, apa pali kuwonekera kwamatsenga. Tonsefe tikudziwa kuti munthu amene amayendetsa galimoto amawoloka msewu mosiyana ndi woyenda pansi: amatha kufotokozera khalidwe la madalaivala ndi kuyenda kwa magalimoto. Cholinga cha chidwi cha chikumbumtima chathu ndi chomwe cholinga chake ndi, kukhululukira pun. Munthu amene ali ndi maganizo ake, mawu, khalidwe amakonza ubongo wake chinachake. Ngati tikufuna kugula nsapato, tidzakumana ndi masitolo a nsapato mumzinda wonse. Tikangogula nsapato ndikupita ku chinthu china, tidzakumana ndi mwayi wogula chinthu china ichi. Chidziwitso chathu chimasankha ndendende chidziwitso chomwe chili chamtengo wapatali komanso chosangalatsa kwa ife tsopano. Ntchito yathu ndikupanga zinthu kuti zithandizire kuzindikira kuti zidziwitse zofunikira. Woyang'anira aliyense amadziwa kuti mu bizinesi ndikofunikira kudziikira zolinga zenizeni. Chifukwa chiyani? Ngati palibe cholinga, n'zovuta kugawa chuma ndipo sizidziwika bwino pamene zotsatira zakwaniritsidwa komanso momwe zotsatira zake zimayesedwa. Ngati sitidziikira zolinga, sitingathe kukwaniritsa chilichonse. Chifukwa chiyani timasamala kwambiri zabizinesi kuposa moyo wathu? Ngati m'moyo timaphunzira kukhala ndi zolinga (ndi zomwe zilakolako zathu ngati sizikupanga cholinga chinachake?), ndiye kuti tidzamvetsetsa zonse zomwe tili nazo komanso njira zokwaniritsira, tidzawona bwino mphamvu ndi zofooka, ife adzaika maganizo ake onse ndi kufunafuna njira zopezera zolinga .
Kaya timafotokoza za kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako mwa ntchito yathu yolimbikira ntchito kapena mwa kuloŵererapo kwa maulamuliro apamwamba, zilibe kanthu: zokhumba zikhoza kuchitika!
Ndipo malangizo amtsogolo: ngati mupanga zokhumba, onetsetsani kuti zachitika. Kuti tifotokoze momveka bwino zotsatirazi, ndizomveka kulemba chikhumbocho polemba ndikubisa kapepala ... wokwatiwa. Osadandaula pambuyo pake kuti chikhumbocho sichinachitike - ndi bwino kufufuza zomwe mwaganiza. Zokhumba zomwe zakwaniritsidwa zidzakuthandizani kwambiri kuti muwapange m'tsogolomu - pa sitepe yoyamba, "kukonzekera zida zankhondo", zitsanzo zotere za "maloto akwaniritsidwa" zidzakhala zothandiza kwambiri. Zokumana nazo zambiri za zilakolako zokwaniritsidwa zimawunjikana, m'pamenenso zimakhala zosavuta kuzipanga nthawi ina iliyonse. Lolani kuti mudabwe pamene chokhumba chanu chachitika!