Tatyana Muzhitskaya. Kholo-Wamkulu-Mwana.
tsitsani kanema
Kholo-Wamkulu-Mwana (PAC) - machitidwe odziyimira pawokha (ego-states). Atha kukhalanso malo ozindikira, onani Udindo ndi ego-state
Kuti mumve zambiri za maudindo awa m'malingaliro a Eric Berne, onani Ego-states pakuwunika kochitika.
Kuti ubale wapamtima mwa okwatirana ukhale wopambana, tsiku lililonse onse awiri ayenera kukhala mu maudindo awa: kukhala Kholo mogwirizana ndi Mwana, ndi Mwana pafupi ndi Kholo, ndi kukhala Mkulu- Ubale wa akulu. Ngati anthu sapeza zimenezo, amakonda kuyamikira ubwenziwo mocheperapo ndipo nthawi zambiri amayang’ana maubwenzi oterowo pambali, paubwenzi ndi munthu wina.
Kusagwirizana (kuwoloka) muzochitika ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa mikangano pakati pa anthu. Onani Zochita
Mabuku ambiri a RAD ali kale ndi machitidwe ake omwe amafotokozera maudindo a Makolo-Akuluakulu-Mwana. M'malo mwake, aliyense wa maudindowa ali ndi zosiyana zambiri komanso masitayelo. Onani →
Mlandu pochita.
Walandira imelo iyi:
Hello, uv. Nikolay Ivanovich! Zikomo kwambiri chifukwa cha mabuku anu ndi ntchito yanu! Mabaibulo anu a 93 ndi 94. nthawi ina adandisangalatsa kwambiri ndi mwayi wofotokozera, momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino. Tsoka ilo, kwa zaka zambiri sindimamvetsetsa kuti kungowerenga matani a mabuku otchuka (ngakhale aluso kwambiri) sikusintha moyo ngati palibe ntchito yothandiza tsiku ndi tsiku ndikudziwonera nokha. M’chaka chatha, nthawi zambiri ndimaonera mavidiyo anu, nkhani, zofunsa mafunso, ndipo izi zimandithandiza kumvetsa kumene ndiyenera kupita. Nikolai Ivanovich, chonde ndithandizeni kuthetsa vuto lomwe lachitika panjira yanga. Ndikuyang'ana, ndinazindikira kuti mavuto anga angapo amachokera ku chiyambi cha khanda, "mwana", yemwe ine (kwa ine ndekha) ndinamupatsa dzina lakuti "Dyusha", uyu ndi mnyamata wosasamala. Choncho, palinso wamkulu udindo mlangizi «Papa-Vitya», amene amachita mapangano ndi kuyanjanitsa ndi «Dyusha» pa gulu la zosiyanasiyana nkhani. Mpaka posachedwa, zinali ngati kuti sindinalekanitse "Papa Vitya", kwenikweni, kwa ine ndekha, ndipo ndinadzipatula "Dyusha", pamene, ndithudi, kuvomereza, kukhululukira ndi kukonda mwana uyu. Koma posachedwapa, ndinayamba kukayikira ngati ndinali kuyenda m’njira yoyenera. Kupatula apo, zikuwoneka kuti payenera kukhala otsutsa 3, chifukwa kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro oyenera a ubale pakati pa awiriwa, mukufunikira wowonera wachitatu. Nikolai Ivanovich, ngati n'kotheka, ndiuzeni momwe zingakhalire zolondola kuwerengera - Papa Vitya - uyu ndi ine ndekha, mwachitsanzo, munthu wanga wamkulu, wolamulira mwana Dyusha mwa iye yekha, kapena kodi ndine wowonera zonse ziwiri?
Adayankha mwachidule:
Ndikupangirani kuti mukhale moyo wosavuta. Khalani m'njira zakale kwambiri, monga Homo sapiens: munthu wololera. + Chitani mwanzeru + ndi choyenera, + osachita zopusa ndi zosayenera. Muli ndi mutu pamapewa anu, simungathe kusokoneza zinthu zazikulu. Kodi zimapanga kusiyana kotani ndani kapena komwe "mavuto anu angapo" amachokera? Kulikonse kapena kumene achokera, khalani bwino. Ndipo musadzinyenge nokha ndi zinthu zosayenera.