Tsiku lililonse timathamangira kwinakwake, kumangokhalira kuchedwetsa chinachake mtsogolo. Mndandanda wa "tsiku lina koma osati tsopano" nthawi zambiri umaphatikizapo anthu omwe timawakonda kwambiri. Koma ndi njira iyi ya moyo, "tsiku lina" silingabwere.
Monga mukudziwa, munthu wamba amakhala ndi moyo zaka 90. Kuti ndiganizire izi kwa ine ndekha, komanso kwa inu, ndidasankha kusankha chaka chilichonse cha moyo uno ndi rhombus:
Kenako ndinaganiza zolingalira mwezi uliwonse m'moyo wazaka 90:
Koma sindinayime pamenepo ndikujambula sabata iliyonse ya moyo wa munthu wokalamba uyu:
Koma chomwe ndingabisike, ngakhale chiwembu ichi sichinali chokwanira kwa ine, ndipo ndidawonetsa tsiku lililonse la moyo wa munthu yemweyo yemwe adakhala zaka 90. Nditaona colossus yomwe inachitika, ndinaganiza kuti: “Tim, izi zachuluka, ndipo ndinaganiza kuti ndisakusonyeze. Masabata okwanira.
Ingozindikirani kuti kadontho kalikonse kachithunzi pamwambapa kakuyimira limodzi la masabata anu. Kwinakwake pakati pawo, yomwe ilipo, mukawerenga nkhaniyi, imakhala yobisalira, yachilendo komanso yosadabwitsa.
Ndipo masabata onsewa amakwanira papepala limodzi, ngakhale kwa munthu yemwe adakwanitsa zaka 90. Pepala limodzi likufanana ndi moyo wautali wotere. Malingaliro osaneneka!
Madontho onsewa, mabwalo ndi diamondi zinandiwopsyeza kwambiri moti ndinaganiza zochokapo kupita ku chinthu china. “Bwanji ngati sitilingalira za milungu ndi masiku, koma pa zochitika zimene zimachitikira munthu,” ndinalingalira motero.
Sitidzapita patali, ndifotokoza lingaliro langa ndi chitsanzo changa. Tsopano ndili ndi zaka 34. Tinene kuti ndidakali ndi zaka 56, kutanthauza kuti, kufikira pamene ndinakwanitsa zaka 90, monga mmene munthu wamba wamba alili koyambirira kwa nkhaniyo. Mwa kuwerengera kosavuta, zimakhala kuti m'moyo wanga wazaka 90 ndidzangowona nyengo yachisanu 60, osati yozizira kwambiri:
Ndidzatha kusambira panyanja nthawi zinanso 60, chifukwa tsopano ndimapita kunyanja osapitilira kamodzi pachaka, osati kale:
Mpaka kumapeto kwa moyo wanga, ndidzakhala ndi nthawi yowerenga mabuku enanso 300, ngati, monga tsopano, ndimawerenga asanu chaka chilichonse. Zikumveka ngati zachisoni, koma ndi zoona. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe ndingakonde kudziwa zomwe amalemba mu zina zonse, sindingathe kuchita bwino, kapena m'malo mwake, sindidzakhala ndi nthawi.
Koma, kwenikweni, zonsezi ndi zopanda pake. Ndimapita kunyanja pafupifupi nthawi zofanana, ndikuwerenga mabuku omwewo pachaka, ndipo sizingatheke kuti chilichonse chisinthe m'mbali ino ya moyo wanga. Sindinaganizirepo za zochitika izi. Ndipo ndinkaganizira kwambiri zinthu zofunika kwambiri zimene zimandichitikira osati kawirikawiri.
Tengani nthawi yomwe ndimacheza ndi makolo anga. Mpaka zaka 18, 90% ya nthawi yomwe ndinali nawo. Kenako ndinapita ku koleji ndi kusamukira ku Boston, tsopano ndimawachezera kasanu chaka chilichonse. Ulendo uliwonse umatenga masiku awiri. Chotsatira chake nchiyani? Ndipo ndimathera masiku 10 pachaka ndi makolo anga - 3% ya nthawi yomwe ndinali nawo mpaka nditafika zaka 18.
Tsopano makolo anga ali ndi zaka 60, tinene kuti amakhala ndi zaka 90. Ngati ndimatherabe masiku 10 pachaka, ndiye kuti ndili ndi masiku 300 oti ndilankhule nawo. Imeneyo ndi nthawi yochepa kuposa yomwe ndinakhala nawo m'giredi yanga yonse yachisanu ndi chimodzi.
Mphindi 5 zowerengera zosavuta - ndipo apa ndili ndi mfundo zomwe ndizovuta kuzimvetsa. Mwanjira ina sindimamva ngati ndili kumapeto kwa moyo wanga, koma nthawi yanga yokhala ndi anthu oyandikana nane yatsala pang'ono kutha.
Kuti ndimveke bwino, ndinajambula nthawi yomwe ndidakhala kale ndi makolo anga (pachithunzi pansipa chalembedwa chofiira), komanso nthawi yomwe ndingakhale nawo (pachithunzichi chili m'munsimu chalembedwa imvi):
Zinapezeka kuti nditamaliza sukulu, 93% ya nthawi yomwe ndinkakhala ndi makolo anga inatha. 5% yokha yatsala. Zocheperapo. Nkhani yomweyi ndi azilongo anga awiri.
Ndinakhala nawo m’nyumba imodzi kwa zaka pafupifupi 10, ndipo tsopano talekanitsidwa ndi dziko lonse, ndipo chaka chilichonse ndimacheza nawo bwino, osapitirira masiku 15. Chabwino, ine ndiri wokondwa kuti ndikadali ndi 15% ya nthawi yotsala ndi alongo anga.
Zofananazo zimachitikanso ndi mabwenzi akale. Kusukulu ya sekondale, ndinkasewera makadi ndi anzanga anayi masiku 5 pa mlungu. Pazaka 4, ndikuganiza kuti tidakumana nthawi 700.
Tsopano tabalalika m'dziko lonselo, aliyense ali ndi moyo wake komanso ndandanda yake. Tsopano tonse timasonkhana pansi pa denga limodzi kwa masiku 10 zaka 10 zilizonse. Tagwiritsa kale ntchito 93% ya nthawi yathu ndi iwo, 7% yatsala.
Kodi masamu onsewa achititsa chiyani? Ineyo pandekha ndili ndi mfundo zitatu. Kupatula kuti posachedwa wina apanga chida chomwe chimakulolani kukhala ndi moyo zaka 700. Koma izi sizingatheke. Choncho ndi bwino kusayembekeza. Kotero ndi izi ziganizo zitatu:
1. Yesetsani kukhala pafupi ndi okondedwa anu. Ndimathera nthawi yochulukirapo ka 10 ndi anthu okhala mumzinda umodzi ndi ine kuposa ndi omwe amakhala kwina.
2. Yesani kuika patsogolo moyenera. Nthawi yochulukirapo kapena yochepera yomwe mumakhala ndi munthu zimadalira kusankha kwanu. Chifukwa chake, sankhani nokha, ndipo musasunthire ntchito yolemetsa iyi kuzinthu.
3. Yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito bwino nthawi yanu ndi okondedwa anu. Ngati inu, monga ine, mwachita mawerengedwe osavuta ndikudziwa kuti nthawi yanu ndi wokondedwa ikutha, ndiye kuti musaiwale za izo mukakhala pafupi naye. Sekondi iliyonse pamodzi ndiyofunika kulemera kwake mu golidi.